{"id":106000,"date":"2020-11-06T00:53:21","date_gmt":"2020-11-05T21:53:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/i-cheated-on-my-wife\/"},"modified":"2020-11-06T00:53:21","modified_gmt":"2020-11-05T21:53:21","slug":"i-cheated-on-my-wife","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/i-cheated-on-my-wife\/","title":{"rendered":"#I cheated on my wife"},"content":{"rendered":"

“#I cheated on my wife<\/strong>”
\n<\/p>\n

\n God may be forgiving, but Hillsong Church may be less so.<\/p>\n

A day after it was revealed that celebrity pastor Carl Lentz was fired from star-studded Hillsong for \u201cleadership issues and breaches of trust,\u201d the specifics of his \u201cmoral failures\u201d have come to light: Lentz cheated on his wife.<\/p>\n

\u201cI was unfaithful in my marriage, the most important relationship in my life and held accountable for that,\u201d Lentz wrote of his affair to his 680,000 followers in an Instagram post<\/a> of his family Thursday, which had already accrued over 43,000 likes as of this writing. \u201cThis failure is on me, and me alone and I take full responsibility for my actions. I now begin a journey of rebuilding trust with my wife, Laura and my children and taking real time to work on and heal my own life and seek out the help that I need.\u201d<\/p>\n

On Wednesday, Religion News<\/a> Service first revealed the scandal via an email to members of megachurch Hillsong regarding his dismissal.<\/p>\n

The founding pastors, Brian and Bobbie Houston, took Lentz\u2019s termination as a church \u201chypepriest<\/a>\u201d personally, with Brian writing in his email<\/a> \u201cWhile I have no doubt in my heart that this is the right course of action, I must mention Bobbie\u2019s and my personal sadness, as we have known Laura her entire life and Carl for well over 20 years.\u201d<\/p>\n

The email omitted any adulterous details; Brian stated that specifying the act would be improper.<\/p>\n

\u201cPlease understand that it would not be app<\/a>ropriate for us to go into detail about the events that led to this decision. However you can be assured that this decision was made in order to honor God and pastorally care for you, our East Coast family, Pastor Carl and his family,\u201d Houston wrote.<\/p>\n

Lentz, 41, is famous for dressing like a hipster and baptizing Justin Bieber in the home of former Knicks player Tyson Chandler.<\/p>\n

\n
<\/p>\n
\n View this post on Instagram\n<\/div>\n

<\/a> <\/p>\n

Our time at HillsongNYC has come to an end. This is a hard ending to what has been the most amazing, impacting and special chapter of our lives. Leading this church has been an honor in every sense of the word and it is impossible to articulate how much we have loved and will always love the amazing people in this church. When you accept the calling of being a pastor, you must live in such a way that it honors the mandate. That it honors the church, and that it honors God. When that does not happen, a change needs to be made and has been made in this case to ensure that standard is upheld. Laura and I and our amazing children have given all that we have to serve and build this church and over the years I did not do an adequate job of protecting my own spirit, refilling my own soul and reaching out for the readily available help that is available. When you lead out of an empty place, you make choices that have real and painful consequences. I was unfaithful in my marriage, the most important relationship in my life and held accountable for that. This failure is on me, and me alone and I take full responsibility for my actions. I now begin a journey of rebuilding trust with my wife, Laura and my children and taking real time to work on and heal my own life and seek out the help that I need. I am deeply sorry for breaking the trust of many people who we have loved serving and understand that this news can be very hard and confusing for people to hear and process. I would have liked to say this with my voice, to you, in person because you are owed that. But that opportunity I will not have. So to those people, I pray you can forgive me and that over time I can live a life where trust is earned again. To our pastors Brian and Bobbie, thank you for allowing us to lead, allowing us to thrive and giving us room to have a voice that you have never stifled or tried to silence. Thank you for your grace and kindness especially in this season, as you have done so much to protect and love us through this. We, the Lentz family, don\u2019t know what this next chapter will look like, but we will walk into it together very hopeful and grateful for the grace of God..<\/a><\/p>\n

A post shared by Carl Lentz<\/a> (@carllentz) on