{"id":119904,"date":"2020-11-25T06:54:15","date_gmt":"2020-11-25T03:54:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/tayshia-and-ivan-get-real-on-blm\/"},"modified":"2020-11-25T06:54:15","modified_gmt":"2020-11-25T03:54:15","slug":"tayshia-and-ivan-get-real-on-blm","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/tayshia-and-ivan-get-real-on-blm\/","title":{"rendered":"#Tayshia and Ivan get real on BLM"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_84 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a28c0f618a48\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a28c0f618a48\" checked aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/tayshia-and-ivan-get-real-on-blm\/#The_group_date_part_I\" >The group date (part I)<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/tayshia-and-ivan-get-real-on-blm\/#The_one-on-one\" >The one-on-one<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/tayshia-and-ivan-get-real-on-blm\/#The_group_date_part_II\" >The group date (part II)<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/tayshia-and-ivan-get-real-on-blm\/#The_pre-game\" >The pre-game<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/tayshia-and-ivan-get-real-on-blm\/#The_cocktail_party\" >The cocktail party<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/tayshia-and-ivan-get-real-on-blm\/#The_rose_ceremony\" >The rose ceremony<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/tayshia-and-ivan-get-real-on-blm\/#Prediction\" >Prediction<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>&#8220;<strong>#Tayshia and Ivan get real on BLM<\/strong>&#8221;<\/p>\n<div>\n                        Reality TV actually got real on Week 7 of \u201cThe Bachelorette.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Unlike last week\u2019s episode, which mostly focused on manufactured drama, the newest installment was shockingly authentic.<\/p>\n<p>The show aired an emotional conversation between mixed-race cast members Tayshia and Ivan on the Black Lives Matter movement and the racism they\u2019ve experienced. Even though they\u2019re on a show like \u201cThe Bachelorette,\u201d the two stars possessed the ability to have a difficult, substantial discussion. What <em>was<\/em> surprising was that ABC gave their Bachelorette, the second black lead in 16 seasons, the opportunity to have a conversation about something some viewers could\u2019ve found controversial.<\/p>\n<p>Because of the COVID-19 pandemic, this season takes place in a bubble, hidden from the virus attacking the outside world. But in a way, every season of the franchise before this has too: It\u2019s a fantasy land. Current events, no matter how destructive or personal, don\u2019t exist on the show. But Tayshia made it clear that not everyone has the privilege to keep up the act.<\/p>\n<p>The <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/watch-movies-tv-seriess\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"8\" title=\"Watch Movies &amp; TV Series\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">series<\/a> and its male-led counterpart have been widely criticized for a lack of diversity. By airing Tuesday night\u2019s prolific chat, the producers of the long-running series showed viewers that they can change.<\/p>\n<p>Authenticity and honesty are crucial to falling in love. They need to be on a show about falling in love too.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s what went down on Week 7.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_group_date_part_I\"><\/span>The group date (part I)<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>The seven men who didn\u2019t have the misfortune of being on the last group date (which, you may remember, involved cage fighting) didn\u2019t get off scot-free. Bennett, Ivan, Blake, Riley, Demar, Zac C. and Kenny had to write and perform an original love song for Tayshia. Boy band manager Kenny did not perform an NSYNC style-dance, sorry to say. Bennett r<a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/download-scripts-themes-apps\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"9\" title=\"Download Scripts &amp; Themes &amp; Apps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">app<\/a>ed. Demar sang about Tayshia\u2019s \u201cBachelor in Paradise\u201d ex, John Paul Jones, who I\u2019m surprised hasn\u2019t come up more so far. But karaoke king Ivan\u2019s song won him a one-on-one.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_one-on-one\"><\/span>The one-on-one<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Tayshia &amp; Ivan Reflect On Black Lives Matter | The Bachelorette\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Q4eh66Z-2K8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/span><\/p>\n<p>The 30-year-old Bachelorette and her 28-year-old date had a rousing <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/game\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"7\" title=\"Game\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">game<\/a> of \u201cthe floor is lava,\u201d a pillow fight and a Twister match.<\/p>\n<p>But the real magic happened when they bonded over being biracial. Ivan opened up about helping to raise his niece when his younger brother went to jail. The couple broke down, crying while sharing how they\u2019ve been affected by the Black Lives Matter movement and events, such as the death of George Floyd, that led to its eruption (the show filmed this summer).<\/p>\n<p>It was a breathtakingly refreshing conversation, especially for \u201cThe Bachelorette.\u201d Of course, Tayshia gave Ivan a rose.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_group_date_part_II\"><\/span>The group date (part II)<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_16676581\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img class=\"wp-image-16676581 size-large lazyload\" alt=\"Bennett watches Demar do a dare in front of Tayshia, Becca and Sydney. \" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/11\/Bennett-Demar-Tayshia-Becca-Sydney.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=300 300w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/11\/Bennett-Demar-Tayshia-Becca-Sydney.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=640 640w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/11\/Bennett-Demar-Tayshia-Becca-Sydney.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1280 1280w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/11\/Bennett-Demar-Tayshia-Becca-Sydney.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1024 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/11\/Bennett-Demar-Tayshia-Becca-Sydney.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=2000 2000w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span>Bennett watches Demar do a dare in front of Tayshia, Becca and Sydney.<\/span><span class=\"credit\">ABC<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>The failed singers got a second chance for time with Tayshia, playing truth or dare in teams (sure) for love (why not). Bachelor Nation\u2019s <a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/pagesix.com\/2020\/10\/15\/bachelorette-alum-becca-kufrin-is-freezing-her-eggs\/?_ga=2.168556897.1335271519.1606266257-1582832244.1592328626\">Becca Kufrin<\/a> and Sydney Lotuaco came to supervise.<\/p>\n<p>Dares included drinking a cow-intestine smoothie, getting Chris Harrison to autograph their asses and faking an orgasm over the loudspeaker. Bennett is not particularly skilled in this area, a real surprise to absolutely no one.<\/p>\n<p>But the Harvard man opened up for the first time during the after-party, telling Tayshia about calling off a past engagement.<\/p>\n<p>Zac C. also got time with our leading lady, telling her how nervous he gets around her. Tayshia was \u201cintrigued\u201d by their chemistry, and gave him the date\u2019s rose.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_pre-game\"><\/span>The pre-game<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Worried about not getting enough time with his love before the rose ceremony, Ben went to Tayshia\u2019s room in the middle of the night. Ed had the same idea but ended up at Chris Harrison\u2019s cabin instead. The guys got drunk, while Ben and Tayshia made up \u2014 last week, Tayshia was disappointed that Ben didn\u2019t try hard enough to pull her aside. Over nightcaps, he vowed to not let it happen again.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_cocktail_party\"><\/span>The cocktail party<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Mustache-less Noah asked Tayshia for help defending him from the other guys, who were mad he crashed a group date during the last episode. Noah told her that the other men thought she had given him a rose to stir up drama. She was livid, and couldn\u2019t believe the guys would think she was inauthentic.<\/p>\n<p>Defending her own honor, Tayshia canceled the drinks and gave a speech to her 16 men that she was nothing but intentional in her actions. The party was over, it was time to send some guys home.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_rose_ceremony\"><\/span>The rose ceremony<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Joe the Anesthesiologist (a <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/social-mediaa\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"1\" title=\"Social Media\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Twitter<\/a> favorite), Chasen, Kenny and Jordan C. all left the resort in SUVs.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Prediction\"><\/span>Prediction<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Last week, I said that the show was flailing without the extra fluff of <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/trip-and-travel\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"10\" title=\"Trip &amp; Travel\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">travel<\/a>. Tonight it seemed to shine for that exact reason. I want more real-life conversations between Tayshia and her men. 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