{"id":154180,"date":"2021-01-14T08:03:03","date_gmt":"2021-01-14T05:03:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/dont-f-k-with-your-waiter\/"},"modified":"2021-01-14T08:03:03","modified_gmt":"2021-01-14T05:03:03","slug":"dont-f-k-with-your-waiter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/dont-f-k-with-your-waiter\/","title":{"rendered":"#&#8217;Don&#8217;t f&#8211;k with your waiter&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;<strong>#&#8217;Don&#8217;t f&#8211;k with your waiter&#8217;<\/strong>&#8221;<br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/michael-ealy-jalen-rose.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all\" \/><\/p>\n<div>\n<p>The talented actor Michael Ealy is a thoughtful and eloquent speaker on a range of different subjects. When we spoke for this week\u2019s episode of \u201cThe Renaissance Man,\u201d we covered his journey in Hollywood, books, theater, fatherhood and the current situation in America.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>But there was one basic piece of advice that stuck with me, which dates back to when he was working in restaurants and still looking for his big break as an actor.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFirst and foremost, never mess with a waiter,\u201d he said. \u201cI\u2019m not going to say what I saw, but \u2026 people f\u2013k with your food. You don\u2019t like it, you don\u2019t like your service, get out of there clean, don\u2019t eat. But don\u2019t f\u2013k with your waiter.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>So true. You\u2019re not my friend if we go out to eat and you\u2019re rude to the servers. It\u2019s about respect. Tip well, people, and remember how essential the restaurant industry is to our daily lives. And if you feel like complaining, you have to understand: You\u2019re at the mercy of the person bringing your food or drink. Usually I cook meals at home, but that\u2019s why I never get delivery. When I order carryout, I\u2019m standing there to pick it up as soon as it\u2019s done. If they say it will be ready in 20 minutes, I\u2019m there waiting in five or 10.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Ealy said all the time he spent waiting on those tables for two taught him how to read people and influenced his craft as an actor.<\/p>\n<p>    <iframe loading=\"lazy\" id=\"wpcom-iframe-561fa63013af452e6a53f73359e8af0a\" width=\"640\" height=\"200\" src=\"https:\/\/embeds.nypost.com\/protected-iframe\/561fa63013af452e6a53f73359e8af0a\" scrolling=\"\" frameborder=\"0\" class=\"\"><br \/>\n    <\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe other thing I learned was I was able to study people\u2019s body movements and behavior patterns,\u201d he said. \u201cSo you would see a guy come in with a girl, and I could tell if it was the first date.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>We first crossed <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=klFYe4z4q1c&amp;feature=youtu.be\">paths on the set of \u201cBarbershop\u201d back in 2002<\/a>. I had just been traded from Indiana to Chicago, where the movie took place. I\u2019d stayed in contact with Ice Cube after we met on a music video shoot \u2014 we\u2019re still friends to this day \u2014 and he and Cedric the Entertainer thought it was a natural fit after I joined the Bulls. Now that I\u2019ve become more synonymous with fashion and haircuts, it feels like that part makes even more sense.<em> <\/em>It was a proud moment when I watched \u201cBarbershop: The Next Cut,\u201d and there was a character named Jalen.<em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I could tell right away that Ealy had star quality. He was disciplined and sharp and on point. He definitely had the heartthrob look. I always say: Black guys with hazel eyes and black guys with English accents (looking at you, Idris Elba), you have no chance to compete against them.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been following Ealy\u2019s career ever since, and we run into each other at premieres and events. We\u2019re about the same age. <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.washingtonian.com\/2015\/07\/06\/whos-responsible-for-naming-greater-washington-the-dmv\/\">He\u2019s from the DMV,<\/a> I\u2019m from Detroit, both black melting pots \u2014 so similar and so different. And, fun fact, we both graduated from the University of Maryland, where I finished my degree after leaving Michigan to enter the NBA, because unlike Michigan, they were offering correspondence courses \u2014 that was one of the biggest sacrifices and best decisions I ever made.<\/p>\n<p>I like the opportunity Ealy has now to expand his horizons and make audiences <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/download-scripts-themes-apps\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"9\" title=\"Download Scripts &amp; Themes &amp; Apps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">app<\/a>reciate his versatility. As an athlete, you don\u2019t get to choose where you get drafted and you don\u2019t have a long shelf life (unless you\u2019re Tom Brady). As an actor, it\u2019s more than just your talent that allows you to have staying power. There\u2019s an entrepreneurial aspect to picking roles that is paramount to an actor\u2019s longevity. That\u2019s the stage of his career that Ealy is in now.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere\u2019s a strategy in terms of: Is this role going to speak to you as an artist; or, 2, is this role going to be something you can be proud of? And I learned that from Mr. [Sidney] Poitier,\u201d Ealy said. \u201cI read his autobiography before I even got started in all this, and it was abundantly clear that he only wanted to take roles that would make his parents proud and push the imagery of the black man forward. That\u2019s a concern of mine. Now, it doesn\u2019t mean I won\u2019t take a challenging role that may adhere to a stereotype, but if I do, I\u2019m going to be selective about which role that is and why.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnd then, there\u2019s some jobs you got to take because it\u2019s like, I got kids, man, and I can make some money. I got to keep this going,\u201d he said. \u201cAnd then there\u2019s other things that you\u2019re more passionate about that are like dream projects that you try to put together.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Speaking of projects, Ealy gave me a push on two things to get to in 2021. I don\u2019t know if it\u2019s a\u00a0cultural thing, but I\u2019ve never seen any of the \u201cStar Wars\u201d or \u201cStar Trek\u201d <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/watch-movies-tv-seriess\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"8\" title=\"Watch Movies &amp; TV Series\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">movies<\/a>. Growing up, it was almost embedded in me not to be interested in things happening in outer space. I was focused on my community and my survival. It\u2019s a level of growth that I\u2019ve attained that I now want to explore that galaxy far, far away.<\/p>\n<p>The other thing is reading books. My mother reads every night before she goes to bed. My reading habits are more magazines, <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/news\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"2\" title=\"News\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">news<\/a>papers, articles. As I discussed with Ealy, who\u2019s a big reader, I\u2019m going to work on sitting still and indulging in a book for an hour or more.<\/p>\n<p>And remember to be kind to your waiter, you never know who could be the next Michael Ealy.<\/p>\n<p><em>Detroit native Jalen Rose is a member of the University of Michigan\u2019s iconoclastic Fab Five, who shook up the college hoops world in the early \u201990s. He played 13 seasons in the NBA, before transitioning into a <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/social-mediaa\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"1\" title=\"Social Media\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">media<\/a> personality. Rose is currently an analyst for \u201cNBA Countdown\u201d and \u201cGet Up,\u201d and co-host of \u201cJalen &amp; Jacoby.\u201d He executive produced \u201cThe Fab Five\u201d for ESPN\u2019s \u201c30 for 30\u201d series, is the author of the best-selling book, \u201cGot To Give the People What They Want,\u201d a fashion tastemaker, and co-founded the Jalen Rose Leadership Academy, a public charter school in his hometown.<\/em>\n            <\/div>\n<blockquote><p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">If you liked the article, do not forget to share it with your friends. 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