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“#Bella Thorne DEFENDS Armie Hammer — And If You Are Too, You Should Read This
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\nIn case y\u2019all haven\u2019t been paying attention\u2026 now is not a good time to defend Armie Hammer<\/strong>\u2018s alleged actions.<\/p>\n

Over the weekend social media<\/a> was flooded with screenshots of DMs the Call Me By Your Name<\/em> star allegedly sent numerous women over the past few years, discussing sexual encounters \u2014 which would be cheating on his now-estranged wife Elizabeth Chambers<\/strong>. The messages also included shocking references to blood play, violence, and, yes, cannibalism.<\/p>\n

Related: Armie Exits J.Lo Movie Amid Scandal<\/strong><\/p>\n

We can only assume\u00a0Bella Thorne<\/strong> has not been paying enough attention to this scandal as it\u2019s grown beyond that because on Thursday she took to\u00a0Instagram<\/strong> to defend the hunky actor, writing:<\/p>\n

\u201cI honestly can\u2019t believe this\u2026 people are crazy to fake this kinda s**t this poor guy and his kids like leave him and his family alone. No way he\u2019s a freaking CANNIBAL\u2026..\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Sure, on Sunday evening, when the trending topic on\u00a0Twitter<\/strong> said Armie\u2019s alleged DMs referred to cannibalism, that seemed like a ridiculous, far-out lie some creative jerk manufactured. The new Richard Gere<\/strong> gerbil rumor.<\/p>\n

But this is the problem with forming an opinion based solely on headlines. The real issue was never the references to cannibalism and vampirism, disconcerting and numerous though they may be.<\/p>\n

[Trigger Warning: Emotional Abuse]<\/strong><\/p>\n

In those messages, Armie (if indeed the messages are from him) mentioned specific past acts that were not presented as metaphor or flowery foreplay. One read:<\/p>\n

\u201cRaping you on your floor with a knife against you. Everything else seemed boring. You crying and screaming, me standing over you. I felt like a god. I\u2019ve never felt such power and intensity.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Notice how it\u2019s oddly specific and in the past tense. This reads like an act of aggression carried out on a sexual partner. And the language of the \u201ccannibalism\u201d messages isn\u2019t some cutesy \u201cI\u2019m gonna eat you up\u201d stuff. It contains all-too-realistic descript<\/a>ions of violence against women:<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m going to c*m thinking of breaking your bones\u2026 Text me about me breaking your bones while raping you. And I\u2019ll send you the voice note while I c*m while reading it\u2026 My c**k is in my hand. And I\u2019m thinking of breaking your ribs.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

We aren\u2019t ones to kink shame. Even the strangest eroticism has its place between consenting adults. But we have to look at this in context.<\/p>\n

The leaked screenshots are also full of messages demanding subservience from these women and threatening violence, both sexual and not. This is about a pattern of abuse which has been alleged by the woman who leaked these messages through the IG account House of Effie<\/strong>. She has claimed the women who gave her these messages were all part of Armie\u2019s pattern.<\/p>\n

And now?<\/p>\n

Now we\u2019ve just crossed the tipping point where women who dated Armie are beginning to speak out with their names attached. A couple responded to the Twitter controversy \u2014 in support of the victims. If they believe this is all real, there must be a reason.<\/p>\n

Related: Armie\u2019s Very Inneresting Past Comments About His S*x Life<\/strong><\/p>\n

And one ex, an app designer named\u00a0Courtney Vucekovich<\/strong>, who was known to have dated Hammer immediately after his split from his wife, has actually come forward and described emotional abuse she suffered throughout the relationship. Yes, that included a scary amount of talk of cannibalism, but that was just a part of it. According to her account, it was about intimidation, domination, and crushing a woman\u2019s agency. She discussed how he groomed her, eventually manipulating her into \u201cdoing things that are very out-of-character for you, including s*x acts.\u201d<\/p>\n

And there\u2019s where we come back to that idea of what\u2019s OK between\u00a0consenting<\/em> adults.<\/p>\n

Vucekovich claimed she sought therapy after the relationship. The woman behind House Of Effie also talked about numerous women she spoke to being traumatized. That isn\u2019t kink. That\u2019s abuse. And that\u2019s what people need to understand before they jump on the defense.<\/p>\n

Oh BTW, Bella did have one other point in her IG Story:<\/p>\n

\u201cAlso there\u2019s a million fake screen shots going around.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

That is 100% true. For instance there\u2019s the fake ones of House Of Effie recanting and saying she made the whole thing up. Those are pretty clearly fake.<\/p>\n

We don\u2019t know for certain about the Armie Hammer ones, but we do know we have at least one very real person on the record as having experienced alleged abuse that matches up pretty closely with those screenshots.<\/p>\n

What about YOU, Perezcious readers? Do you still think everything we\u2019re hearing about Armie is all fake, and it\u2019s \u201ccrazy\u201d to even talk about??<\/p>\n

[Image via Armie Hammer<\/a>\/Bella Thorne<\/a>\/Instagram.]<\/em>\n<\/div>\n