{"id":163087,"date":"2021-01-26T06:51:07","date_gmt":"2021-01-26T03:51:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/the-bachelor-week-4-recap-slut-shaming-for-matts-heart\/"},"modified":"2021-01-26T06:51:07","modified_gmt":"2021-01-26T03:51:07","slug":"the-bachelor-week-4-recap-slut-shaming-for-matts-heart","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/the-bachelor-week-4-recap-slut-shaming-for-matts-heart\/","title":{"rendered":"#&#8217;The Bachelor&#8217; Week 4 recap: Slut-shaming for Matt&#8217;s heart"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a3bb9b17a125\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a3bb9b17a125\" checked aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/the-bachelor-week-4-recap-slut-shaming-for-matts-heart\/#The_group_date\" >The group date<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/the-bachelor-week-4-recap-slut-shaming-for-matts-heart\/#The_cocktail_party\" >The cocktail party<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/the-bachelor-week-4-recap-slut-shaming-for-matts-heart\/#The_rose_ceremony\" >The rose ceremony<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/the-bachelor-week-4-recap-slut-shaming-for-matts-heart\/#The_first_group_date\" >The first group date<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/the-bachelor-week-4-recap-slut-shaming-for-matts-heart\/#The_one-on-one%E2%80%A6\" >The one-on-one\u2026<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/the-bachelor-week-4-recap-slut-shaming-for-matts-heart\/#The_second_group_date\" >The second group date<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/the-bachelor-week-4-recap-slut-shaming-for-matts-heart\/#Prediction\" >Prediction<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>&#8220;<strong>#&#8217;The Bachelor&#8217; Week 4 recap: Slut-shaming for Matt&#8217;s heart<\/strong>&#8221;<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>I miss when we had interesting villains on \u201cThe Bachelor.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Find me a woman who can lure Matt in, get him thinking she\u2019s a walking angel while playing mental <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/game\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"7\" title=\"Game\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">game<\/a>s with the rest of the women. I want a quiet, poised villain who has her act together and a plan. I want surprising backstabs. I want someone to debate. <\/p>\n<p>But instead, we\u2019re stuck with Queen \u201cI can express myself with name-calling whenever I want\u201d Victoria, who\u2019s acting like a bad caricature of Regina George. On Week four of \u201cThe Bachelor,\u201d Anna decided to join in and become her sidekick, slut-shaming the other girls and degrading sex workers. <\/p>\n<p>It was petty, it was stupid, it was mean and it was boring. Here\u2019s how it all went down. <\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_group_date\"><\/span>The group date<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Couldn\u2019t tell you who was on it, couldn\u2019t tell you what they did, because ABC didn\u2019t show us. The episode began and all of a sudden we were in the middle of an after-party, scratching our heads wondering what we missed. I guess not much. Matt smooched cool-girl Chelsea, who talked to him about how empowering it was to shave her head. She got the date rose. <\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_cocktail_party\"><\/span>The cocktail party<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-default\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" alt=\"Brittany meets Matt on &quot;The Bachelor.&quot; \" class=\"wp-image-17149673 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/Brittany-Matt-meet.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=300 300w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/Brittany-Matt-meet.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=640 640w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/Brittany-Matt-meet.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1280 1280w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/Brittany-Matt-meet.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1024 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/Brittany-Matt-meet.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=2000 2000w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><figcaption>Seconds before Matt and Brittany made out. <\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">ABC<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Pieper, Kit and Katie got some good time with Matt. While our Bachelor was talking to Victoria, Chris Harrison was \u201csorry to interrupt\u201d (you know he wasn\u2019t). Five new women were moving into the resort \u2014 it was night one all over again. Brittany walked right out of the limo and made out with Matt. (Victoria called her a \u201cslore,\u201d a nasty little portmanteau of \u201cslut\u201d and \u201cwhore.\u201d)<\/p>\n<p>Catalina, Kim, Michelle and Ryan also joined the cast, bringing us a grand total of 23 women vying for Matt\u2019s heart.<\/p>\n<p>Anna knows Brittany from Chicago, where they\u2019re both from, and im<a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/social-mediaa\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"1\" title=\"Social Media\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">media<\/a>tely started a rumor that she\u2019s \u201csketchy.\u201d More to come. <\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_rose_ceremony\"><\/span>The rose ceremony<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>The new arrivals made this especially contentious. Four of them got roses. Kim did not. Neither did original castmates Kaili and Khaylah \u2014 not a good night for ridiculous K names. That left 20 gals. <\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_first_group_date\"><\/span>The first group date<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-default\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" alt=\"The women compete a fall themed obstacle course\" class=\"wp-image-17149785 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/group-date.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=300 300w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/group-date.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=640 640w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/group-date.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1280 1280w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/group-date.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1024 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/group-date.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=2000 2000w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><figcaption>The women on the group date, including Mari, Bri, Abigail, Brit, Ryan, Catalina, Magi, Anna and Victoria, were simply a bunch of squirrels looking for a nut. <\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">ABC<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Mari, Bri, Abigail, Brit, Ryan, Catalina, Magi, Anna and Victoria went on a date hosted by former \u201cBachelor\u201d Ben Higgins \u2014 who isn\u2019t exactly a success story for the franchise, given his consistent failure fo find love on various shows and spin-offs. He had them compete in a fall-<a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/download-scripts-themes-apps\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"9\" title=\"Download Scripts &amp; Themes &amp; Apps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">theme<\/a>d obstacle race, which including pumpkin boats and squirrel costumes. Mari won, and Magi got stuck in the water. <\/p>\n<p>Anna and Matt started the after-party off with some quality time, until Brittany barged in. In retaliation, Anna confronted Brittany in front of everyone to say that she heard Brittany was an escort. Of course, Brittany denied the claim and was brought to tears. <\/p>\n<p>Staying above the drama, Matt gave the rose to Bri. <\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_one-on-one%E2%80%A6\"><\/span>The one-on-one\u2026<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u2026went to Michelle, one of the newbies. She and Matt went ziplining and rode in a hot air balloon, very romantic. Matt pressed her up against one of the poles in the balloon basket as they kissed, and it made me very nervous \u2014 what if she fell out?<\/p>\n<p>Over dinner, Michelle talked about how important it was for her to teach her students about the killing of George Floyd and the protests that followed. Matt runs a charity that exposes NYC students to different kinds of foods, so he understands what it\u2019s like to work with kids. Michelle quoted Maya Angelou and Matt finished her thought, it was really sweet. He gave her the rose.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_second_group_date\"><\/span>The second group date<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-default\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" alt=\"Mia St. John and Matt James. \" class=\"wp-image-17149714 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/Mia-Matt.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=300 300w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/Mia-Matt.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=640 640w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/Mia-Matt.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1280 1280w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/Mia-Matt.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1024 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/Mia-Matt.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=2000 2000w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><figcaption>Who\u2019s got the fight on paper view? Mia St. John and Matt cheer on the gals from the sideline. <\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">ABC<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>To deal with the aggression in the house, the producers thought it would be a good idea for the women to hit each other. It was a boxing-themed date, with champion Mia St. John leading a lesson. <\/p>\n<p>Pieper, Rachael, Jessenia, Kit, Serena C., Serena P., Chelsea, Lauren, MJ and Katie squared up in the ring. And they did not take it lightly. There was lots of face punching. <\/p>\n<p>At the after party, Matt made out with Rachael and Pieper. Katie, who stood up for Sarah and Brittany, decided to bring the awful rumors to Matt\u2019s attention. She\u2019s right, being called an escort on TV can ruin Brittney\u2019s life, and this behavior needs to stop. <\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Prediction\"><\/span>Prediction<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>I want Matt to put a stop to this nonsense. It\u2019s not fun to watch, and it\u2019s not fun for the women on the show. He needs to send Victoria and Anna home. But we know he wont. Maybe Chelsea will get her one-on-one.\n            <\/p><\/div>\n<blockquote><p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">If you liked the article, do not forget to share it with your friends. 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