{"id":190176,"date":"2021-02-26T23:21:38","date_gmt":"2021-02-26T20:21:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/demi-lovato-thinks-gender-reveal-parties-are-transphobic-what-do-u-think\/"},"modified":"2021-02-26T23:21:38","modified_gmt":"2021-02-26T20:21:38","slug":"demi-lovato-thinks-gender-reveal-parties-are-transphobic-what-do-u-think","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/demi-lovato-thinks-gender-reveal-parties-are-transphobic-what-do-u-think\/","title":{"rendered":"#Demi Lovato Thinks Gender Reveal Parties Are Transphobic &#8212; What Do U Think??"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;<strong>#Demi Lovato Thinks Gender Reveal Parties Are Transphobic &#8212; What Do U Think??<br \/>\n<\/strong>&#8221;<\/p>\n<div itemprop=\"articleBody\" class=\"text\">\nAre gender reveal parties starting to become more trouble than they\u2019re worth?<\/p>\n<p>We already know that the increasingly elaborate gender reveals are becoming a health hazard. Just last week a father-to-be died due to an explosion of a gender-reveal device \u2014 and that wasn\u2019t even the first time someone died that way. Not to mention all the damage when a similar device caused a huge forest fire in California! (Also not the first time that\u2019s h<a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/download-scripts-themes-apps\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"9\" title=\"Download Scripts &amp; Themes &amp; Apps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">app<\/a>ened, BTW.)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Related: Pedro Pascal Lovingly Supports Sister Lux After She Comes Out As Trans<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>But gender reveal parties may be more than unsafe \u2014 they could be transphobic, too. These celebrations are a relatively new phenomenon (the term was first coined back in 2008), but the conversation around whether it\u2019s okay to enforce gender norms on infants (or fetuses, in the case of these pregnancy parties) has been around a long time.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Demi Lovato<\/strong> threw her hat in the ring of this discourse by reposting a gender reveal infographic on Instagram. She wrote:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201c@alokvmenon with the real <img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"customEmoji lazyload\" style=\"margin-left: 3px; margin-right: 3px; vertical-align: middle; -webkit-box-shadow: none; -moz-box-shadow: none; box-shadow: none;\" width=\"16\" src=\"https:\/\/perezhilton.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/wp-emoji-one\/icons\/1F64F.png\" height=\"16\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"customEmoji lazyload\" style=\"margin-left: 3px; margin-right: 3px; vertical-align: middle; -webkit-box-shadow: none; -moz-box-shadow: none; box-shadow: none;\" width=\"16\" src=\"https:\/\/perezhilton.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/wp-emoji-one\/icons\/1F495.png\" height=\"16\">\u00a0Thank you for sharing your knowledge and educating us always.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>The post was captioned:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cThis is not about being politically correct, it\u2019s about being correct. The refusal to acknowledge this stems from a misunderstanding of what transphobia is.<\/p>\n<p>Transphobia is not just prejudice or violence against an individual trans person, it is a belief system that presumes non-trans people to be more \u2018natural\u2019 than trans people. Only individual people can self determine their gender.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>More of the argument can be found within the graphic, including:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cGender reveals are based on the illusion that genitals = gender and that there are only two options \u2018boy or girl.\u2019 This definition erases the fact that there are boys with vaginas and girls with penises and that there are people who are neither boys nor girls. The idea that sex is based on genitalia is inconsistent with <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/sciencee\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"5\" title=\"Science\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">science<\/a>.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Check out more below:<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CLs2T7AhsLh\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"13\" style=\" background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:640px; min-width:326px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);\">\n<div style=\"padding:16px;\"> <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CLs2T7AhsLh\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" background:#FFFFFF; line-height:0; padding:0 0; text-align:center; 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font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CLs2T7AhsLh\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px; text-decoration:none;\">A post shared by Demi Lovato (@ddlovato)<\/a>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.instagram.com\/en_US\/embeds.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, a lot of the <em>Heart Attack<\/em> singer\u2019s fans weren\u2019t having her infographic activism. Here are some of the comments:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cBaby girl most of parents just wanna celebrarte [sic] that they\u2019re having a baby. Not the gender of the baby\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOr maybe they are fun for an expecting mother\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere is nothing wrong with celebrating a gender, and if they grow up and feel differently celebrating that as well. There should be love for all <img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"customEmoji lazyload\" style=\"margin-left: 3px; margin-right: 3px; vertical-align: middle; -webkit-box-shadow: none; -moz-box-shadow: none; box-shadow: none;\" width=\"16\" src=\"https:\/\/perezhilton.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/wp-emoji-one\/icons\/2764.png\" height=\"16\"><\/p>\n<p>\u201cGender reveals are about the surprise of having a girl or boy at baby stage. If the child chooses later to change then it\u2019s their choice.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>Related: Elliot Page Returns To IG Thanking Fans For Support Since Coming Out As Trans<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Based on the graphic, we\u2019d say the problem here is the word \u201cchoice.\u201d Trans people don\u2019t <em>choose<\/em> to be trans years after their gender reveal, they are who they are, be that man, woman, or non-binary. As the artist wrote:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cThe idea goes, while we might \u2018identify\u2019 as trans now, we were \u2018originally\u2019 \u2018born\u2019 cis and we later \u2018became\u2019 trans. When in truth, everyone is just born. And we all become after the fact.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Still, whether the <strong>Disney<\/strong> alum\u2019s followers read the post or not, most of the defenses of expecting parents throwing gender reveals boiled down to one sentiment. That is:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cLet people do what they want. Mind your business!\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>What do U think, Perezcious readers? Do you agree with Demi that gender reveal parties are transphobic? Or do you think they\u2019re okay? And is a regular old (non-gender-specific) baby shower not enough anymore??? Let us know your thoughts in the comments (below)!<\/p>\n<p class=\"image_cite\"><em>[Image via <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/instagram.com\">Demi Lovato\/Vanessa Morgan\/Ashley Tisdale\/Instagram<\/a>]<\/em>\n<\/div>\n<blockquote><p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">If you liked the article, do not forget to share it with your friends. 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