{"id":19161,"date":"2020-07-01T22:38:00","date_gmt":"2020-07-01T19:38:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/i-had-pasta-tonight-becomes-tiktok-code-for-feeling-suicidal\/"},"modified":"2020-07-01T22:38:00","modified_gmt":"2020-07-01T19:38:00","slug":"i-had-pasta-tonight-becomes-tiktok-code-for-feeling-suicidal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/i-had-pasta-tonight-becomes-tiktok-code-for-feeling-suicidal\/","title":{"rendered":"#\u2018I had pasta tonight\u2019 becomes TikTok code for feeling suicidal"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;<strong>#\u2018I had pasta tonight\u2019 becomes TikTok code for feeling suicidal<\/strong>&#8221;<\/p>\n<div id=\"article-wrapper\" role=\"main\">\n<div>\n<div>\n<p>        July 1, 2020 <span>|<\/span> 3:38pm          <\/p>\n<div>\n                        Italian comfort food has taken on a whole new meaning.<\/p>\n<p>The phrase \u201cI had pasta tonight\u201d has become code for experiencing depression or suicidal thoughts on the short-video platform TikTok loved by Gen Z. The innocuous-seeming statement and slight variations on it are now a way platform users can signal for help and support without being blunt.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cTold my mom about my favorite pasta recipe and she made it for dinner tonight,\u201d user @kaityjane2 captions a video of herself, which has received over 3 million likes and 61,000 responses \u2014 many of them heartwarming.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c[There\u2019s] so many dogs you haven\u2019t pet yet,\u201d comments one viewer as a way of illustrating there are good things yet to come.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWait wait wait but have you tried EVERY ice cream flavor?\u201d writes another.<\/p>\n<p>The outpouring of support has proved heartening not just for the clip\u2019s creator, but also for those reading through the empathetic messages. \u201cThis comment section is my new therapy. Thank you,\u201d writes one person touched by the humanity of the responses.<\/p>\n<p>The TikTok trend, one <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/social-mediaa\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"1\" title=\"Social Media\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Reddit<\/a> user says, is inspired by a poem published on the platform Wattpad. Called \u201cDon\u2019t Kill Yourself Today,\u201d the poem lists a variety of relatable reasons why life is worth continuing, including \u201cDon\u2019t kill yourself until you tell someone your best pasta recipe\u201d and \u201cdon\u2019t kill yourself until you finish your shampoo and conditioner at the same time.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Finishing your shampoo and conditioner at the same time has also become a code for dark feelings on the platform. \u201cI finished my shampoo and conditioner,\u201d user @notrllyem captions a video. In the comments section, viewers duly do their best to uplift her.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDon\u2019t do anything you wouldn\u2019t want me to do to myself,\u201d writes one concerned commenter.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut you haven\u2019t had a sleepover on your roof or fallen asleep around a campfire w your friends or met your favorite singer,\u201d writes another.<\/p>\n<p><em>If you are struggling with suicidal thoughts or are experiencing a mental health crisis, call the 24\/7 National Suicide Prevention hotline at 1-800-273-8255 or go to SuicidePreventionLifeline.org. <\/em>\n            <\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: black;\"><a style=\"color: #ff9900;\" href=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/2020\/07\/01\/i-had-pasta-tonight-becomes-tiktok-code-for-feeling-suicidal\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Source<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>If you want to read more Living <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/news\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"2\" title=\"News\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">News<\/a> articles, you can visit our <span style=\"color: #ff9900;\"><a style=\"color: #ff9900;\" href=\"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/general\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">General category.<\/a><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>if you want to <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/watch-movies-tv-seriess\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"8\" title=\"Watch Movies &amp; TV Series\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">watch Movies<\/a> or Tv Shows go to <span style=\"color: #ff9900;\"><a style=\"color: #ff9900;\" href=\"https:\/\/dizi.buradabiliyorum.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Dizi.BuradaBiliyorum.Com<\/a> <\/span> for forums sites go to <span style=\"color: #ff9900;\"><a style=\"color: #ff9900;\" href=\"https:\/\/forum.buradabiliyorum.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Forum.BuradaBiliyorum.Com<\/a><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;#\u2018I had pasta tonight\u2019 becomes TikTok code for feeling suicidal&#8221; July 1, 2020 | 3:38pm Italian comfort food has taken on a whole new meaning. 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