{"id":197730,"date":"2021-03-09T15:18:21","date_gmt":"2021-03-09T12:18:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/the-bachelor-recap-week-10-everyone-loves-matt-james\/"},"modified":"2021-03-09T15:18:21","modified_gmt":"2021-03-09T12:18:21","slug":"the-bachelor-recap-week-10-everyone-loves-matt-james","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/the-bachelor-recap-week-10-everyone-loves-matt-james\/","title":{"rendered":"#&#8217;The Bachelor&#8217; recap week 10: Everyone loves Matt James"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a3500b4476df\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a3500b4476df\" checked aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/the-bachelor-recap-week-10-everyone-loves-matt-james\/#Matts_conversation\" >Matt\u2019s conversation<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/the-bachelor-recap-week-10-everyone-loves-matt-james\/#The_first_fantasy_suite_date\" >The first fantasy suite date<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/the-bachelor-recap-week-10-everyone-loves-matt-james\/#The_second_fantasy_suite_date\" >The second fantasy suite date<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/the-bachelor-recap-week-10-everyone-loves-matt-james\/#The_third_fantasy_suite_date\" >The third fantasy suite date<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/the-bachelor-recap-week-10-everyone-loves-matt-james\/#The_rose_ceremony\" >The rose ceremony<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/the-bachelor-recap-week-10-everyone-loves-matt-james\/#Prediction\" >Prediction<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>&#8220;<strong>#&#8217;The Bachelor&#8217; recap week 10: Everyone loves Matt James<\/strong>&#8221;<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>This season of \u201cThe Bachelor\u201d has been tough to watch. Matt James\u2019 personality has been cut out of the show, we barely know the women he\u2019s with and we missed out on lots of really fun dates in lieu of drama. <\/p>\n<p>But on Monday night\u2019s episode, the producers finally got their act together. Matt got to spend camera-free overnight dates with his three final women: Bri, Michelle and the very controversial <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/pagesix.com\/2021\/02\/26\/rachael-kirkconnell-of-bachelor-asks-fans-to-stop-defending-her\/\">Rachael Kirkconnell<\/a>. All three women are in love with him. There\u2019s not a problem (<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/pagesix.com\/2021\/02\/22\/matt-james-breaks-silence-on-recent-bachelor-controversies\/\">yet<\/a>) in any of the relationships. <\/p>\n<p>For Matt, it\u2019s not about which relationship is the strongest, but which life he would rather live after the show. <\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s everything that went down. <\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Matts_conversation\"><\/span>Matt\u2019s conversation <span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Before Matt could have overnight dates with his top three women, the Bachelor called in his estranged father Manny to have a conversation about commitment. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cI guard my heart and I guard my feelings because of what I\u2019ve been through with you,\u201d he told his dad. \u201cWhen I needed you, you weren\u2019t there to have those conversations. I need to know where your head was at.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It was a heavy conversation. Matt\u2019s dad struggled to take responsibility for how he treated his son and ex, for good reason: they\u2019ve never talked about their issues before. Matt was brought to tears.<\/p>\n<p>Ultimately, they were able to reach resolution. \u201cI agree with you son, because you have to make a lasting deicison about things you didn\u2019t learn from me,\u201d Manny told his son through tears. \u201cI\u2019m sorry I hurt you.\u201d <\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-twitter wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-twitter\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"embed-wrapper twitter\">\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Tonight\u2019s convo with my dad was hard to experience, and it\u2019s just as hard to watch all this time later, especially knowing the world is watching with me.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Matt James (@mattjames919) <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/mattjames919\/status\/1369098773645852672?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">March 9, 2021<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p>Matt forgave Manny, and they embraced. (While watching the show on Monday night, Matt <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/mattjames919\/status\/1369098773645852672?s=20\">wrote a thread on Twitter<\/a> about how difficult it was to re-watch this conversation back. It\u2019s worth a read.) <\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_first_fantasy_suite_date\"><\/span>The first fantasy suite date<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-default\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" alt=\"Matt and Michelle have a sensual date at a Pennsylvania Dutch spa.\" class=\"wp-image-17508249 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/matt-michelle-date.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=300 300w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/matt-michelle-date.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=640 640w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/matt-michelle-date.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1280 1280w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/matt-michelle-date.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1024 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/matt-michelle-date.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=2000 2000w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><figcaption>Calling Dwight Schrute: Matt and Michelle have a Pennsylvania Dutch spa day. <\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">ABC<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>\u2026 went to Michelle. During their last date, the teacher introduced her boyfriend her students. Knowing she could use a rest, Matt decided to treat her to a spa day, scratch that, a traditional Pennsylvania Dutch spa day. The couple put their feet in an oatmeal-ish mud, lathered butter over each other and relaxed in a milk bath. I hope no one was lactose intolerant. <\/p>\n<p>After they dried off, Matt told Michelle that he was more comfortable with her family than any other that he met. Over dinner, Matt opened up to Michelle about the conversation he had with his father and why their relationship and his parents\u2019 relationship has affected him so drastically. \u201cI want to be the man he wasn\u2019t,\u201d he told his date. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cFor you to sit down and have a conversation with him is such a huge step\u2026 I\u2019m here for you,\u201d she said. \u201cI do see you as my person.\u201d She\u2019s not just falling anymore: Michelle is in love with Matt. <\/p>\n<p>Of course, they opted to spend the night alone together, without cameras. Cut to the morning: The couple was joyed to be able to wake up next to each other. Even Matt admitted that Michelle set the bar really high, and her date would be tough to beat. <\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_second_fantasy_suite_date\"><\/span>The second fantasy suite date <span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-default\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" alt=\"Bri and Matt go on a camping date. \" class=\"wp-image-17508350 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/Bri-Matt-date.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=300 300w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/Bri-Matt-date.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=640 640w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/Bri-Matt-date.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1280 1280w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/Bri-Matt-date.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1024 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/Bri-Matt-date.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=2000 2000w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><figcaption>Is this an LL Bean ad? Matt and Bri go hiking and camping in the woods.<\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">ABC<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Bri met Matt with the classic jump hug. Matt took the San Fran girl hiking and camping in the Pennsylvania woods. It\u2019s really cute that she pretended to be excited about this date. Matt also pretended to be knowledgeable out the local flora and fauna but oops! Silly Bachelor. He had never been camping before either. The city slickers struggled to pitch a tent, Matt made some solid jokes about struggling to get it up. <\/p>\n<p>Later in the evening, Bri wanted to hear how Matt is feeling about a possible engagement. Again, Matt confided in his date about why he wanted to speak to his father and get clarity before making such a commitment. Bri, who also grew up without a father, totally understood Matt\u2019s need. \u201cI always wondered how my relationship with him would manifest down the line,\u201d she said. Though she hasn\u2019t gotten the closure Matt has, \u201cI still feel 100-percent ready for an engagement after this,\u201d Bri said. She, too, is in love with Matt. <\/p>\n<p>No surprise, they also decided to spend the night alone together. (And not in a tent, in a romantic hotel room.) <\/p>\n<p>The next morning, these two were all over each other, touching and kissing. \u201cI\u2019m in a state of pure bliss,\u201d Bri said. <\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_third_fantasy_suite_date\"><\/span>The third fantasy suite date <span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-default\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" alt=\"Matt and Rachael spin pottery. \" class=\"wp-image-17508425 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/rachael-date.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=300 300w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/rachael-date.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=640 640w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/rachael-date.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1280 1280w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/rachael-date.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1024 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/rachael-date.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=2000 2000w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><figcaption>Luckily they did not re-enact \u201cGhost.\u201d  Matt and Rachael do the potter\u2019s wheel thing. <\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">ABC<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>You guessed it, went to Rachael. Having to see the other contestants have such wonderful dates while she stayed home made her break down in tears. \u201cI\u2019m worried about how he feels, what he\u2019s thinking,\u201d she said. <\/p>\n<p>When they got together, it was immidiately clear that something was off (and not just the weird cut-out top Rachael was wearing that showed off only her belly button.) Their date was a ceramics class, and Rachael couldn\u2019t concentrate on her bowl. She pulled Matt aside to express how she felt. \u201cI do want you to look into every single relationship\u2026 I know you have to do what you have to do,\u201d she said, though she\u2019s still worried Matt has changed his mind about her. <\/p>\n<p>Almost immidately, Matt made her smile. He confessed to her that when she had a rocky parachute landing during their last date, Matt worried what life would be like without her. It was the pick-me-up she needed, and their date picked up on a much h<a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/download-scripts-themes-apps\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"9\" title=\"Download Scripts &amp; Themes &amp; Apps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">app<\/a>ier note. <\/p>\n<p>They decided to spend the night together. Instead of a hotel room, they got an individual house \u2014 and a fireworks show. <\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_rose_ceremony\"><\/span>The rose ceremony <span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Michelle got the first rose, Rachael got the second and final one. Bri was blindsided. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m sorry, it wasn\u2019t something that came up this week,\u201d said Matt, explaining the breakup to her. \u201cIt\u2019s just the feeling you have when you\u2019re with somebody, it\u2019s nothing to do with you.\u201d <\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Prediction\"><\/span>Prediction<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Fianally, it\u2019s the finale. Matt\u2019s going to get engaged next week. Michelle and Rachael will meet his family. (For the record, my money is on Rachael.)<\/p>\n<p>But the most important thing is the After the Final Rose special, hosted by Emannuel Acho \u2014 not Chris Harrison. After weeks of wating, we\u2019re (hopefully) going to get a frank conversation about the racism surrounding this season that Bachelor Nation deserves.\n            <\/p><\/div>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">If you liked the article, do not forget to share it with your friends. 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Matt James\u2019 personality has been cut out of the show, we barely know the women he\u2019s with and we missed out on lots of really fun dates in lieu of drama. 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