{"id":256641,"date":"2021-05-22T23:26:30","date_gmt":"2021-05-22T20:26:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/aocs-brother-gabriel-fields-life-questions-and-advice-online\/"},"modified":"2021-05-22T23:26:30","modified_gmt":"2021-05-22T20:26:30","slug":"aocs-brother-gabriel-fields-life-questions-and-advice-online","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/aocs-brother-gabriel-fields-life-questions-and-advice-online\/","title":{"rendered":"#AOC&#8217;s brother, Gabriel, fields life questions and advice online"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;<strong>#AOC&#8217;s brother, Gabriel, fields life questions and advice online<\/strong>&#8221;<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Maybe they should call him Dear Gabby. <\/p>\n<p>The brother of Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, Gabriel \u201cGabe\u201d Ocasio-Cortez, has become a modest <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/social-mediaa\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"1\" title=\"Social Media\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">social media<\/a> star by dispensing online advice to his 12,000 followers. <\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-nypost-medium-post\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"322\" height=\"403\" alt=\"Gabriel Ocasio-Cortez &#10;\" class=\"wp-image-18189844 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/05\/gabriel-aoc-71.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=300 300w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/05\/gabriel-aoc-71.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=640 640w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/05\/gabriel-aoc-71.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1280 1280w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/05\/gabriel-aoc-71.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=322 322w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/05\/gabriel-aoc-71.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=644 644w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 322px\"\/><figcaption>GOC tends to focus on relationship troubles.<\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Instagram<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>The younger Ocasio-Cortez, 28, tends to focus on relationship troubles and his domain is a \u201czero judgment zone,\u201d he tells fans.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMy [girlfriend] was raped before we started dating. She won\u2019t do any[thing] sexual with me w\/o crying. Advice?\u201d asked one.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt sounds like she\u2019s working on it with you and through you,\u201d the Yorktown Heights resident replied. \u201cRespect boundaries, make her feel safe. If you can\u2019t go on like this, you have to respect yourself and find what\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/download-scripts-themes-apps\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"9\" title=\"Download Scripts &amp; Themes &amp; Apps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">app<\/a>ropriate for you.\u201d   <\/p>\n<p>Another poster said a friend initiated a drunken romantic tryst despite already having a boyfriend.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou didn\u2019t do anything wrong and it\u2019s my personal belief that you are not obligated to right his wrong by informing his partner,\u201d wrote Ocasio-Cortez, a real estate agent by trade. \u201cMost likely if you want to keep the friendship, you\u2019re going to have to decide to either fully forget it or fully discuss it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>One gay follower bemoaned a boyfriend who refused to tell his parents about them.<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-nypost-small-post is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Gabriel Ocasio-Cortez has built a sizable following on Instagram handing out advice for life. \" class=\"wp-image-18189848 lazyload\" width=\"270\" height=\"406\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/05\/gabriel-aoc-66.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=300 300w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/05\/gabriel-aoc-66.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=640 640w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/05\/gabriel-aoc-66.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1280 1280w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/05\/gabriel-aoc-66.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=270 270w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/05\/gabriel-aoc-66.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=540 540w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 270px\"\/><figcaption>Gabriel Ocasio-Cortez has built a sizable following on Instagram handing out advice for life. <\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Instagram<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u201cSounds like he\u2019s closeted and if he\u2019s not then I would want answers,\u201d Ocasio-Cortez, who is also gay, counseled. \u201cDon\u2019t be afraid to listen to \u2018Lemonade\u2019,\u201d he added, referencing the Beyonc\u00e9 album. <\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s also lighter fare, like bar recommendations (he\u2019s a fan of Balboa\u2019s in Brooklyn); and personal reveals, like how many languages he can speak (English, Spanish, Italian and Portuguese), and how he advocates for the deaf, as he <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/politics\/a26251021\/alexandria-ocasio-cortez-brother-gabriel\/\">revealed on Twitter,<\/a> because he\u2019s battled his own \u201csingle-sided deafness &amp; tinnitus.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The fame that came with his sister\u2019s election also upended his life. The FBI told him to avoid opening his mail for fear of mail bombs, he told <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.interviewmagazine.com\/culture\/gabriel-ocasio-cortez\">Interview Magazine<\/a> last December. And in one Instagram post he revealed he had been the victim of a \u201cstalking incident.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Like his sister, he\u2019s not afraid to get political. His posts show he is supporting Dianne Morales\u2019 long-shot progressive run for mayor, and he\u2019s <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/nyopengovernment.com\/NYOG\/campaignContributions.action?id=252083078\">previously donated<\/a> $100 to Nomiki Konst\u2019s failed 2019 campaign for Public Advocate.<\/p>\n<p>Gabriel Ocasio-Cortez holds a degree from Long Island University in \u201cArt Psychotherapy,\u201d according to his LinkedIn, though he doesn\u2019t appear to have any formal therapeutic training. He currently sells real estate in lower Westchester County.  <\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-18316539 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/05\/gabriel-aoc-64.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=300 300w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/05\/gabriel-aoc-64.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=640 640w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/05\/gabriel-aoc-64.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1280 1280w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/05\/gabriel-aoc-64.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=683 683w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/05\/gabriel-aoc-64.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1366 1366w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 683px\"\/><figcaption>GOC\u2019s domain is a \u201czero judgment zone,\u201d he tells fans.<\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Instagram<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wp-block-column\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-18316540 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/05\/gabriel-aoc-65.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=300 300w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/05\/gabriel-aoc-65.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=640 640w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/05\/gabriel-aoc-65.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1280 1280w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/05\/gabriel-aoc-65.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=683 683w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/05\/gabriel-aoc-65.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1366 1366w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 683px\"\/><figcaption>Ocasio-Cortez has a degree from Long Island University in \u201cArt Psychotherapy,\u201d according to his LinkedIn.<\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Instagram<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>He declined to offer comment to The Post, but the pros were less than impressed with the online therapy.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOverall, he oversimplifies and pontificates freely based on very little information,\u201d Beth Wechsler, a psychotherapist and social worker, told The Post. \u201cIf you want real help with a serious life problem, you don\u2019t sum it up in one sentence and put it on Instagram.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" alt=\"Speaker of the House Nancy Pelosi (L) performs the ceremonial swearing-in of Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez.\" class=\"wp-image-18189855 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/05\/gabriel-aoc-63.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=300 300w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/05\/gabriel-aoc-63.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=640 640w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/05\/gabriel-aoc-63.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1280 1280w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/05\/gabriel-aoc-63.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1024 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/05\/gabriel-aoc-63.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=2000 2000w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><figcaption>The fame that came with his sister\u2019s election upended Gabe\u2019s life.<\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">AFP\/Getty Images<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<blockquote><p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">If you liked the article, do not forget to share it with your friends. 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