{"id":282350,"date":"2021-06-24T02:35:13","date_gmt":"2021-06-23T23:35:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/cc-sabathia-nearly-lost-everything-to-alcohol\/"},"modified":"2021-06-24T02:35:13","modified_gmt":"2021-06-23T23:35:13","slug":"cc-sabathia-nearly-lost-everything-to-alcohol","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/cc-sabathia-nearly-lost-everything-to-alcohol\/","title":{"rendered":"#CC Sabathia nearly lost everything to alcohol"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;<strong>#CC Sabathia nearly lost everything to alcohol<\/strong>&#8221;<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>In November 2004, future Yankee great CC Sabathia, then pitching for the Cleveland Indians, arranged a proper wedding ceremony for him and his wife Amber. They\u2019d had a quick courthouse wedding a year earlier, but now they wanted an actual ceremony to celebrate with loved ones.<\/p>\n<p>Sabathia had suffered through a year of death, with his father, uncle, and cousin all passing away. Throughout this, he sought refuge as he had since the age of 14, in a bottle \u2014 or, many bottles, as was usually the case.<\/p>\n<p>His wedding night, sadly, was no exception.<\/p>\n<p>The weekend before, the couple each had their own bachelor and bachelorette parties over a Las Vegas weekend before combining the groups for a big Sunday dinner.<\/p>\n<p>When the waitress presented the bill at the end of the night, Amber signed it, which ignited a drunken rant from Sabathia, screaming, \u201cI can sign the damn bill!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFrom there, it turned into a huge fight. Nasty, mean things got said, as if the booze was some kind of truth serum, releasing all the anger and insecurity in me,\u201d writes the Yankee great in his new memoir, \u201c<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Till-End-CC-Sabathia\/dp\/0593133757?tag=nypost-20\">Till The End<\/a>,\u201d (Roc Lit 101, out July 6), which was written with Chris Smith.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" alt=\"New York Yankees starting pitcher CC Sabathia #52 celebrates as he is covered in champagne by a teammate in the locker room\" class=\"wp-image-18617866 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/06\/cc-sabathia-yankees-champagne.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=300 300w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/06\/cc-sabathia-yankees-champagne.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=640 640w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/06\/cc-sabathia-yankees-champagne.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1280 1280w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/06\/cc-sabathia-yankees-champagne.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1024 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/06\/cc-sabathia-yankees-champagne.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=2000 2000w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><figcaption>The Yankees clubhouse was no stranger to champagne celebrations during CC Sabathia\u2019s tenure.<\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Charlez Wenzelberg\/New York Post<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>\u201cSuddenly I was yelling, \u2018I\u2019m not marrying you!\u2019 and Amber was yelling back, \u2018We\u2019ve been married for a year! You can\u2019t go back now!\u2019 I escalated it, of course: \u2018You\u2019re just with me for my money!\u2019 \u201d<\/p>\n<p>Amber\u2019s friends were in tears, but Amber, more experienced in this behavior, knew it would simply lead to apologies the next day.<\/p>\n<p>        <iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Podcast\" width=\"100%\" height=\"188px\" src=\"https:\/\/embed.acast.com\/pinstripe-pod\/yankeesfinallygettinghotfeat.gerrycooney?accentColor=2a2a2a&amp;bgColor=f6f6f6&amp;font-family=proxima%20nova&amp;logo=false&amp;secondaryColor=cc3333\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"0\" style=\"border:none;overflow:hidden;\"><br \/>\n        <\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>The wedding, with around 300 guests, took place as planned. Sabathia writes that it was beautiful \u2014 what he remembers of it, at least, since the heavy drinking began early in the day.<\/p>\n<p>He got through the ceremony \u2014 though without being able to look Amber in the eye \u2014 and ended the night with one final indignity.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" alt=\"New York Yankees starting pitcher CC Sabathia #52 tips his cap\" class=\"wp-image-18617842 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/06\/cc-sabathia-yankees-final-game.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=300 300w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/06\/cc-sabathia-yankees-final-game.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=640 640w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/06\/cc-sabathia-yankees-final-game.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1280 1280w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/06\/cc-sabathia-yankees-final-game.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1024 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/06\/cc-sabathia-yankees-final-game.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=2000 2000w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><figcaption>CC Sabathia tips his hat to the crowd after his final Yankee Stadium <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/download-scripts-themes-apps\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"9\" title=\"Download Scripts &amp; Themes &amp; Apps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">app<\/a>earance.<\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Charles Wenzelberg \/ New York Post<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>\u201cOur honeymoon night didn\u2019t last long,\u201d he writes. \u201cAfter reaching our suite I passed out im<a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/social-mediaa\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"1\" title=\"Social Media\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">media<\/a>tely, still in my tuxedo, and peed in the bed.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sabathia pitched in the major leagues for 19 years, 11 of them with the Yankees. He was on six All-Star teams, won the American League Cy Young Award in 2007, and led all major league pitchers in wins in both 2009 and 2010.<\/p>\n<p>He also drank enough alcohol to be the protagonist in a Charles Bukowski novel.<br \/>Sabathia\u2019s drinking placed him in risky situations throughout his career.<\/p>\n<p>In 2009, his first year with the Yankees, he went with some teammates and old friends to a dance club during his first <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/watch-movies-tv-seriess\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"8\" title=\"Watch Movies &amp; TV Series\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">series<\/a> back in Cleveland. Late that night, Amber was trying to get him to leave, but he\u2019d always answer with, \u201cOne more drink!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>At one point, he accidentally bumped into a woman who then spilled a drink on him, leading to an altercation.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPeople were pushing and shoving and cursing,\u201d he writes. \u201c[Indians player] Cliff Lee was pulling on me: \u2018Come on! We got to go!\u2019 So then I started trying to fight Cliff. He wound up punching me in the face just to get me into the car.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" alt=\"2\/5\/13 - New York Yankees pitcher CC Sabathia poses with his wife Amber, as Sabathia is one of the honorees at the 33rd Annual Thurman Munson Awards, held at the Grand Hyatt Hotel&#10;\" class=\"wp-image-18617773 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/06\/cc-sabathia-amber-wife-alcoholism.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=300 300w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/06\/cc-sabathia-amber-wife-alcoholism.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=640 640w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/06\/cc-sabathia-amber-wife-alcoholism.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1280 1280w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/06\/cc-sabathia-amber-wife-alcoholism.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1024 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/06\/cc-sabathia-amber-wife-alcoholism.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=2000 2000w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><figcaption>CC Sabathia and his wife Amber at the 2014 Thurman Munson Awards.<\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Charles Wenzelberg\/New York Post   <\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>The brawl wound up making the local <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/news\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"2\" title=\"News\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">news<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Later that year, Beyonc\u00e9 threw a surprise 40th birthday party for Jay-Z, whom Sabathia had known for several years by then, at a resort in the Dominican Republic. Sabathia and Amber were two of about 50 guests invited to the ultra-exclusive soiree, which included Diddy, Kanye West, Alicia Keys, Kate Hudson, and Alex Rodriguez.<\/p>\n<p>Before they left, Sabathia promised Amber he wouldn\u2019t drink on the <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/trip-and-travel\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"10\" title=\"Trip &amp; Travel\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">trip<\/a>. That promise didn\u2019t last long.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDrinking helped with my nerves, so I figured drinking more had to help more,\u201d Sabathia writes. \u201cOnce I got started, I didn\u2019t know when to stop. People told me later that the party finally ended at 5 a.m. I don\u2019t remember. What I do remember is Amber waking me up.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He later learned that shortly after Amber woke up, a housekeeper told her that Sabathia was by the pool.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAmber came out and found me face down on a lounge chair, passed out, completely naked. Someone had covered my butt with a beach towel,\u201d Sabathia writes.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFortunately, none of the other guests mentioned it. I don\u2019t like to think about who else may have seen me out there.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In 2012, he wound up in a big fight with Amber after showing up drunk to a football practice for one of their children, to the point where she wouldn\u2019t let him drive their kids home.<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-nypost-inline-default\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"300\" height=\"450\" alt=\"CC Sabathia pitches for the Yankees in 2009.\" class=\"wp-image-18617978 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/06\/cc-sabathia-yankees-pitches.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=300 300w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/06\/cc-sabathia-yankees-pitches.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=640 640w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/06\/cc-sabathia-yankees-pitches.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1280 1280w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/06\/cc-sabathia-yankees-pitches.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=600 600w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 300px\"\/><figcaption>CC Sabathia pitches for the Yankees in 2009.<\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Neil Miller<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>Sabathia handled the situation the only way he knew how \u2014 by getting even drunker. Amber kicked him out of the house after he downed another bottle of vodka \u2014 she had found text messages he sent to another woman \u2014 and he responded by getting into his car and driving it through a 10-foot-high steel fence on a neighbor\u2019s front lawn.<br \/>Between his wife, mother, and agent, they convinced the neighbor not to call the police, and Sabathia paid to repair the fence.<\/p>\n<p>After a few unproductive years of therapy where he worked more on hiding his drinking than ending it, he finally hit bottom. Someone sent Amber a picture of him passed out in a storage room at Camden Yards in 2015, with a note saying that he had come to the ballpark too drunk to function and that reporters might pick up on it, and asking if there was anything she could do to stop his binge.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe realization that I was too drunk to throw my normal bullpen \u2014 that I couldn\u2019t do my job, that the drinking was keeping me from picking up the ball and throwing it, the thing that had changed my life and given my family everything good \u2014 hit me, and somehow this time the mix of sadness and fear and exhaustion got me off the concrete,\u201d Sabathia writes.<\/p>\n<p>He entered a monthlong rehab program in October 2015. After, instead of maintaining his privacy, he decided to talk about his alcoholism on \u201cGood Morning America.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMy reasons were selfish, in some ways,\u201d Sabathia writes. \u201cGoing on national television was a way of eliminating any possibility of secrecy, and asking for everyone\u2019s help in staying sober: If anyone saw me drinking again, they would call me out.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>But there was another element to his going public with his troubles. For Sabathia, the public disclosure released a wave of tension and pressure that, in a closed sort of loop, had exacerbated the drinking that helped cause them.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAll the years of trying to hide my drinking from my teammates and all the people I loved \u2014 it had been damaging, and it had been work,\u201d Sabathia writes.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe love that came back was a revelation, and a relief: I didn\u2019t have to drink to relax or to have people want to be around me. 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