{"id":289472,"date":"2021-07-02T16:09:43","date_gmt":"2021-07-02T13:09:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/top-20-cities-for-cheating-in-the-us-revealed-sex-study\/"},"modified":"2021-07-02T16:09:43","modified_gmt":"2021-07-02T13:09:43","slug":"top-20-cities-for-cheating-in-the-us-revealed-sex-study","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/top-20-cities-for-cheating-in-the-us-revealed-sex-study\/","title":{"rendered":"#Top 20 cities for cheating in the US revealed: sex study"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;<strong>#Top 20 cities for cheating in the US revealed: sex study<\/strong>&#8221;<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>After more than a year stuck on lockdown with their significant others, people are itching to get out of the house \u2014\u00a0and outside their marriage or relationship \u2014 for some sexy action. <\/p>\n<p>As COVID-19 restrictions loosen up nationwide, a new study by Ashley Madison \u2014 yes the infamous dating site that caters to cheaters \u2014 has revealed the top 20 cities for loosening up  your marital vows. <\/p>\n<p>The state-by-state infidelity breakdown, <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tandfonline.com\/doi\/abs\/10.1080\/00224499.2021.1908509?journalCode=hjsr20&amp;\">published in the Journal of Sex Research<\/a>, was based on the number of signups to the dating service between June 20, 2020 and September 22, 2020, on a per capita basis. <\/p>\n<p>Last year, the company saw a spike in the number of sign-ups between March 1 and April 25, with up to 17,000-plus new accounts created in a single day.<\/p>\n<p>Two Florida hot spots \u2014 Miami and Orlando \u2014 and the aptly nicknamed Sin City landed on top of the \u201cSummer of Sex Index.\u201d Meanwhile, such disparate cities as Boise, Idaho and Tucson, Arizona made their debuts just in time for what\u2019s alternately been dubbed \u201cHot Vax Summer,\u201d \u201cSlutty Summer\u201d or \u201cThe Whoring \u201920s.\u201d <\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote alignright\">\n<blockquote><p>\u2018The truth is, women are better at multitasking \u2014 and according to this study, they may be better at cheating.\u2019<\/p>\n<p><cite>Dr. Tammy Nelson, author of\u00a0<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/When-Youre-One-Who-Cheats\/dp\/1999481003\/ref=sr_1_1?tag=nypost-20\">\u2018When You\u2019re the One Who Cheats<\/a>\u2018<\/cite><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/figure>\n<p>The new research also found that <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ashleymadison.com\/female-infidelity-statistics\">women are more likely than men<\/a> to sneak outside of their marriage to get frisky. When only looking at women who slipped into someone else\u2019s sheets, the list of top cities for screwing around skewed a little. Miami kept the top hot spot, but Atlanta and Oklahoma City took over the second and third spots. <\/p>\n<p>Meanwhile, women may not only be having more affairs \u2014 they might be the experts. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cMen have been traditionally portrayed as the ones capable of balancing both a spouse and a lover,\u201d said Dr. Tammy Nelson, author of\u00a0<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/When-Youre-One-Who-Cheats\/dp\/1999481003\/ref=sr_1_1?tag=nypost-20\">\u201cWhen You\u2019re the One Who Cheats,\u201d <\/a>who is quoted in the research. \u201cBut the truth is, women are better at multitasking \u2014 and according to this study, they may be better at cheating.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-default\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"819\" height=\"1024\" alt=\"The 2021 Summer of Sex Index. \" class=\"wp-image-18702432 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/07\/ashley-madison-stats.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=300 300w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/07\/ashley-madison-stats.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=640 640w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/07\/ashley-madison-stats.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1280 1280w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/07\/ashley-madison-stats.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=819 819w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/07\/ashley-madison-stats.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1638 1638w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 819px\"\/><figcaption>The state-by-state infidelity breakdown \u2014 <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tandfonline.com\/doi\/abs\/10.1080\/00224499.2021.1908509?journalCode=hjsr20&amp;\">published in the Journal of Sex Research<\/a> \u2014 was based on the number of signups to the dating service between June 20, 2020 and September 22, 2020.<\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">AshleyMadison.com<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>While most female survey respondents agreed that having an affair is morally wrong, they didn\u2019t feel guilty about it \u2014\u00a0they just reported feeling more judged by the proverbial patriarchal society. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cMore than half of the women I talked to said: \u2018I\u2019m in a sexless marriage or I\u2019m not having orgasms, and that\u2019s why I\u2019m cheating,\u2019 \u201d said researcher Alicia Walker, author of\u00a0<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Secret-Life-Cheating-Wife-Pragmatism\/dp\/1498544622\/ref=sr_1_1?tag=nypost-20\">\u201cThe Secret Life of the Cheating Wife: Power, Pragmatism, and Pleasure in Women\u2019s Infidelity.\u201d<\/a><\/p>\n<p>This lack of action was found to have a direct correlation with lowered attraction levels, researchers added. Plus: 65% of women said they are no longer attracted to their spouse but 74% claimed that they still loved them. <\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-default\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" alt=\"Summer of Sex Index: 45% of women said that extramarital sex is better because it allows them to experiment, 42% said it lets them have more frequent sex than they have with their spouse, 39% enjoyed it because it was a novelty, and 38% used it explore their sexual fantasies. \" class=\"wp-image-18702656 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/07\/infidelity-1.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=300 300w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/07\/infidelity-1.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=640 640w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/07\/infidelity-1.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1280 1280w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/07\/infidelity-1.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1024 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/07\/infidelity-1.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=2000 2000w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><figcaption>Summer of Sex Index: 45% of women said that extramarital sex is better because it allows them to experiment, 42% said it lets them have more frequent sex than they have with their spouse, 39% enjoyed it because it was a novelty \u2014 and 38% used it explore their sexual fantasies. <\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Getty Images\/iStockphoto<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Ways women are prioritizing their pleasure: 45% of women said that extramarital sex is better because it allows them to experiment, 42% said it lets them have more frequent sex than they have with their spouse, 39% enjoyed it because it was a novelty, and 38% used it explore their sexual fantasies. <\/p>\n<p>Women are having more sex outside of their marriage but this also might be due to the amount of partners they have, according to the study. In the United States, the average number of affair partners is 6 \u2014 which is higher than the global average of 5.7 but lower than our sensual neighbors below the border: Mexican women have an average of 10 affair partners. <\/p>\n<p>Also, those older in age reported participating in extramarital affairs more often than younger couples. This correlates with Florida taking up 15% of the top 20 cities for infidelity. Florida has an <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/datausa.io\/profile\/geo\/united-states?compare=florida\">average age of 42 years old,<\/a> which is higher than the nation\u2019s average age of 38 years old. <\/p>\n<p>Ashley Madison\u2019s chief strategy officer, Paul Keable has said that Ashley Madison users also claimed they use extramarital affairs as a \u201cform of self-care\u201d that helps them get through stressful or uncertain times. Other users claimed cheating helps them avoid\u00a0divorce. <\/p>\n<p>Regardless of what affairs are used for, if you live in one of the top 20 cities maybe keep your spouse on lockdown in the bedroom tonight? If it doesn\u2019t save your marriage at least it counts as a workout. <\/p><\/div>\n<blockquote><p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">If you liked the article, do not forget to share it with your friends. 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