{"id":341849,"date":"2021-09-17T20:11:00","date_gmt":"2021-09-17T17:11:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/how-to-get-a-guy-to-talk-to-you\/"},"modified":"2021-09-17T20:11:00","modified_gmt":"2021-09-17T17:11:00","slug":"how-to-get-a-guy-to-talk-to-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/how-to-get-a-guy-to-talk-to-you\/","title":{"rendered":"#How To Get A Guy To Talk To You?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_84 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a2746e968cbb\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a2746e968cbb\" checked aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/how-to-get-a-guy-to-talk-to-you\/#Confidence_Is_Key\" >Confidence Is Key<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/how-to-get-a-guy-to-talk-to-you\/#The_Shy_Guy\" >The Shy Guy<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/how-to-get-a-guy-to-talk-to-you\/#First_Impressions_Really_Do_Matter\" >First Impressions Really Do Matter<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/how-to-get-a-guy-to-talk-to-you\/#Eye_Contact\" >Eye Contact<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/how-to-get-a-guy-to-talk-to-you\/#Conversation_Starters\" >Conversation Starters<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/how-to-get-a-guy-to-talk-to-you\/#Compliment_Him\" >Compliment Him\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/how-to-get-a-guy-to-talk-to-you\/#Get_Flirty\" >Get Flirty<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/how-to-get-a-guy-to-talk-to-you\/#Put_The_Phone_Away\" >Put The Phone Away<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/how-to-get-a-guy-to-talk-to-you\/#Dont_Play_Hard_to_Get\" >Don\u2019t Play Hard to Get<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/how-to-get-a-guy-to-talk-to-you\/#Take_It_Deeper\" >Take It Deeper<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/how-to-get-a-guy-to-talk-to-you\/#Closing_Remarks\" >Closing Remarks<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>&#8220;<strong>#How To Get A Guy To Talk To You?<\/strong>&#8221;<\/p>\n<div class=\"content-inner \">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether we\u2019re talking about <\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/freebackgroundchecks.com\/learn\/online-dating-safety\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dating apps<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or just real life interactions, getting a guy to talk to you can be nerve-wracking. Dating is a mine-field at the best of times, even for confident extroverts.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In some ways, things are now easier since we can <\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/infotracer.com\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">use publicly available data<\/span><\/a> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">on <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/social-mediaa\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"1\" title=\"Social Media\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">social<\/a> platforms<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to learn more about a potential partner before we meet them, helping us quickly connect over shared interests.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But perhaps you\u2019ve struggled to get a guy to talk to you in the past. Are you afraid that if you reach out it just won\u2019t work out? Well, you\u2019re in the right place. We\u2019ll delve into 10 tips for you to get any guy to talk to you!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span id=\"more-96824\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Confidence_Is_Key\"><\/span>Confidence Is Key<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">First and foremost, particularly if you are shy, it\u2019s essential to build your self-confidence. There is something naturally alluring about a woman who feels comfortable in her own skin.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One way to build confidence may surprise you. Eat well and exercise! By <\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nia.nih.gov\/health\/infographics\/diet-and-exercise-choices-today-healthier-tomorrow\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">eating healthy and exercising<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> regularly, the natural endorphins released will make you feel h<a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/download-scripts-themes-apps\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"9\" title=\"Download Scripts &amp; Themes &amp; Apps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">app<\/a>ier, which naturally draws people to you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Another way is to actively question any negative self-talk or doubts that may make you feel unworthy of other people\u2019s time and attention. If it\u2019s an issue that routinely prevents you from meeting people or attending social events, it\u2019s crucial to address your self-esteem issues.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Shy_Guy\"><\/span>The Shy Guy<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes it\u2019s not you, but the guy you\u2019re into that needs help in overcoming shyness. In cases like this, you\u2019re going to have to make the first move.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Initially, avoid super personal questions, which may make him feel uncomfortable and calm. It\u2019s also a good idea to stick to <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/general\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"3\" title=\"General\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">general<\/a> topics and see what interests him.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Give him room to breathe, and don\u2019t stand overly close initially. Get his Instagram or Facebook profile information \u2013 it\u2019s much less invasive and overwhelming than swapping numbers.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not only does this give you a great way to stay in touch, but you can<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">use publicly available data to find out more about him. Be prepared because you will most likely have to ask him out first, and his social profile will be a great source of date ideas, based on his interests.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Go for something casual and fun that doesn\u2019t require constant talking like a dinner date would. An activity like bowling or a fun class that allows natural conversation is ideal.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"First_Impressions_Really_Do_Matter\"><\/span>First Impressions Really Do Matter<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Making a good first impression will always be important because people can\u2019t help but notice how you carry yourself or the energy you exude. Being well-groomed and taking care of yourself shows that you love who you are and indicates that you\u2019re in a good mental place.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don\u2019t have to dress in a specific way; after all, there\u2019s someone for everyone. Simply dress in a way that makes you feel confident and gives him a peek into your personality.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Putting effort into the way you dress is crucial because the energy that comes from being happy and confident is magnetic, and he\u2019ll find that very attractive. This will ultimately make him drawn to try and talk to you.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Eye_Contact\"><\/span>Eye Contact<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes men, especially those who are shy, will wait until women make the first move before approaching. So getting a guy to talk to you may involve a little hinting on your part.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Keep in mind that this doesn\u2019t have to be a grand gesture like buying a drink. If you\u2019re with friends at a bar, for example, create a less intimidating environment by spending alone time at the drinks counter. This creates space for a guy to comfortably approach you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Give good positive eye contact.\u00a0 You don\u2019t want to stare creepily at them, but about 3-4 seconds of eye contact with a friendly, inviting smile, is very effective. When you\u2019re feeling bold, you can even nod or raise your glass to them.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Conversation_Starters\"><\/span>Conversation Starters<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Think about an authentic way to engage them that piques their interest and makes them want to come back for more. If you\u2019re shy and get a little tongue-tied, a great idea is to prepare some general conversation starters and some fascinating facts about yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Random icebreakers are also a fun way to get the conversation flowing. Share interesting stories about yourself so that he is intrigued enough to want to learn more about you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Engage in the conversation equally \u2013 if what he is saying doesn\u2019t require a verbal response, then nod regularly to show that you are actively listening.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Compliment_Him\"><\/span>Compliment Him\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Letting him know you\u2019re into him is obviously vital. Unless their profile is full of pictures that show they\u2019re comfortable with their bodies, be mindful of how you compliment them on their physical appearance so that you don\u2019t make them feel insecure.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Compliment their clothing choice, hairstyle, or mention things they do or say that are attractive to you. Maybe they have a fantastic sense of humor? Original compliments are a more personal way to express your interest, whilst making you stand out from other potential partners.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Get_Flirty\"><\/span>Get Flirty<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you find it hard to talk to men, perhaps you\u2019ve got some good dance moves that can do the talking for you? And no, not twerking! Simply being confident on the dance floor is appealing.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Otherwise, a subtle touch like a brush of your hand on their arm or shoulder is usually a signal that you\u2019re interested.But keep it friendly and casual! Physical cues like this make it more obvious to men that you are flirting and show that you\u2019re interested.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your crush does not seem to read subtle cues well or is just being very slow to make his move, then you may need to use some verbal cues. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you genuinely find something they\u2019ve said or done appealing or entertaining, then smile or laugh so they know you\u2019re enjoying spending time with them.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Put_The_Phone_Away\"><\/span>Put The Phone Away<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While phones are crucial for dating, if you\u2019re actually on a date, it\u2019s off-putting to be constantly interrupted by the pinging of messages, let alone having to pause the conversation every time he waits for you to respond.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Set message alerts to silent and put your phone down. This helps you be more present and allows you to focus more on the other person, which can help manage your anxiety and shyness.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whilst on the subject, be mindful of how often you\u2019re texting him. Some guys are overwhelmed by endless messages. So although you want to text often enough to keep him interested, you don\u2019t want to bombard him every minute of the day. This could put him off from wanting to actually talk to you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Dont_Play_Hard_to_Get\"><\/span>Don\u2019t Play Hard to Get<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is a simple one. If you want to get a guy to talk to you, don\u2019t make it hard. You\u2019re either into them, or you\u2019re not. Don\u2019t play complex <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/game\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"7\" title=\"Game\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">game<\/a>s: it confuses and frustrates them, and they will start to unnecessarily question everything you say or do.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s important to let them know you want to spend time with them. Be transparent about how you feel and genuine in how you express yourself. Ask them to do the same. This creates stronger connections over time because you\u2019re able to build trust in one another.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Take_It_Deeper\"><\/span>Take It Deeper<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Small talk has its place, but if you never get past this, your relationship won\u2019t progress.\u00a0 If you\u2019re not someone who easily has deeper conversations off-the-cuff, then once again, preparation is key!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t ask what he does for a living. Ask what he feels passionate about. Ask questions that require them to tell a story \u2013 what is the best meal he\u2019s ever had? It may lead to a quirky retelling of his <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/trip-and-travel\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"10\" title=\"Trip &amp; Travel\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">trip<\/a> to Morocco.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ask their advice or opinion about something. Be an active listener. It\u2019s<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> an important skill that makes people feel valid and seen. Answer their questions openly which is great for keeping the conversation flowing.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Closing_Remarks\"><\/span><b><em>Closing Remarks<\/em><\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Getting a guy to talk to you is more about you than the guy you\u2019ve set your sights on. Work on building your confidence and manage the psychological causes behind your shyness or social anxiety.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Health professionals attest that eating healthy and regular exercise enhances mood and boosts mental well-being. Also, you can p<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">repare talking points prior to meeting the guy. This combats nerves and helps get conversation going.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once you have access to his social profiles, use publicly available data to figure out his interests and continue building a deeper connection.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"ap-custom-wrapper\"><\/div>\n<p><!--ap-custom-wrapper-->                                <\/p><\/div>\n<p><span class=\"meta_text\">by<\/span><br \/>CHIEF Original<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">If you liked the article, do not forget to share it with your friends. 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