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“#Gabby Petito Case Sheds Light On Why #VanLife Trend App<\/a>eals To Abusers
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\nThe events leading up to the disappearance and later tragic murder of Gabby Petito<\/strong> have captured the attention of everyone nationwide and placed a renewed focus on the ongoing issue of domestic violence across the country, specifically within the #vanlife community. What may seem like a picture-perfect world on Instagram<\/strong> isn\u2019t always the reality \u2014 something that has become more evident as more details come out about the 22-year-old vlogger\u2019s life and the abuse she suffered.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve been following the case, then you already know that there were signs of possible domestic abuse long before Gabby and her fianc\u00e9 Brian Laundrie<\/strong> headed out on a cross-country road trip and started documenting their travel<\/a>s on social media<\/a>. Throughout the ongoing investigation, friends and witnesses have come forward to detail how \u201ctoxic\u201d their relationship had been since they started dating in high school. Pal Rose Davis<\/strong> even alleged that her 23-year-old beau was controlling and had experienced \u201cepisodes\u201d in which he would hear voices and wouldn\u2019t sleep. Apparently, they would get so bad that Gabby would sometimes need to escape for a bit.<\/p>\n

Related: TikTok Detectives Trying To Solve Gabby Petito Case \u2014 But Are They Helping Or Hurting??<\/strong><\/p>\n

However, the biggest alarm bell came from the body camera footage released by police of a possible domestic violence situation. After receiving a call from a witness, officers pulled them over. The caller described seeing Laundrie \u201cslapping\u201d and hitting Petito on the sidewalk, while the pair \u201caggressively\u201d argued possibly over her cellphone. In the bodycam video, Gabby could be seen sobbing uncontrollably and taking the blame for everything. Meanwhile, Brian had visible marks on his body from his partner \u201cpunching him in the arm.\u201d<\/p>\n

And despite multiple witnesses saying she clearly was the victim in the situation, the police instead protected Laundrie and sent him to a hotel for his safety. Soon after, Gabby was reported missing and later found dead. We can\u2019t help but wonder if Gabby would still be alive today if the police had recognized the glaringly obvious red flags at the time\u2026<\/p>\n

Since the case, the van life community has faced scrutiny over whether staying in tiny, confined conditions for long periods is ultimately safe for partners. The vice president of criminal justice programs at Safe Horizon<\/strong> Maureen Curtis<\/strong> explained to Rolling Stone<\/em> that living in close quarters can possibly lead to an increase in violence, saying:<\/p>\n

\u201cBeing in close contact with many people could lead to contentious relationships. We saw it with Covid and the increase with physical violence, or family violence where we saw more reports of escalated violence between family members. People were confined to tight spaces. So yes, it\u2019s not surprising if I\u2019m traveling around in an RV, that could lead to an escalation of violence if there is already some type of DV.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

She told the publication that it\u2019s not always just physical abuse, as it can also lead to coercive control or \u201cthe isolation, the humiliation, the stalking behaviors that are not physical but are still very threatening and even terrorizing and oftentimes indicators of what could be future lethal violence.\u201d Also, what may attract abusers to the nomadic lifestyle is how their behavior may just go completely unnoticed since the victims are away from their loved ones and friends:<\/p>\n

\u201cOne of the tactics abusive partners use is isolation. So it would be easier to isolate a person if you\u2019re traveling around and don\u2019t have time to develop a support system.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Even more so, Curtis claims to Rolling Stone<\/em> that those on the road won\u2019t always know when to intervene in certain situations \u2014 which is what happened in the Gabby\u2019s incident:<\/p>\n

\u201cIf you see a couple arguing, where one person clearly looks frightened of the other, one person is threatening the other, one person may be yanking at that person\u2019s arm or pushing that person \u2014 it\u2019s interesting even in this day and age, people are likely to walk away from that and say \u2018that\u2019s none of my business,\u2019 and not want to get involved. Sadly a lot of people may just walk away from that situation.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Again, we cannot help but think that if someone had just recognized the signs before and\/or after police pulled them over, Gabby could still be here today. Hopefully her story will help others \u2014 especially those in the van life community \u2014 to step in if they believe someone is showing signs of abuse. Reactions, Perezcious readers? Let us know in the comments (below).<\/p>\n

Also, if you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, please reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline<\/a> at 1-800-799-7233 for support.<\/em><\/p>\n

[Image via Gabby Petito\/Instagram, <\/a>NBC New York\/YouTube<\/a>]\n<\/div>\n