{"id":344338,"date":"2021-09-26T00:27:30","date_gmt":"2021-09-25T21:27:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/how-to-pick-the-right-tinder-profile-picture\/"},"modified":"2021-09-26T00:27:30","modified_gmt":"2021-09-25T21:27:30","slug":"how-to-pick-the-right-tinder-profile-picture","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/how-to-pick-the-right-tinder-profile-picture\/","title":{"rendered":"#How to pick the right Tinder profile picture"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_84 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a25999a5b7aa\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a25999a5b7aa\" checked aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/how-to-pick-the-right-tinder-profile-picture\/#You_dont_have_a_beak\" >You don\u2019t have a beak<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/how-to-pick-the-right-tinder-profile-picture\/#Mirror_madness\" >Mirror madness<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/how-to-pick-the-right-tinder-profile-picture\/#Why_so_serious\" >Why so serious?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/how-to-pick-the-right-tinder-profile-picture\/#Influencer_idiocy\" >Influencer idiocy<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/how-to-pick-the-right-tinder-profile-picture\/#Save_it_for_the_bar_bro\" >Save it for the bar, bro<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/how-to-pick-the-right-tinder-profile-picture\/#Youre_not_one_of_the_Blues_Brothers\" >You\u2019re not one of the Blues Brothers<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/how-to-pick-the-right-tinder-profile-picture\/#Light_blight\" >Light blight<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>&#8220;<strong>#How to pick the right Tinder profile picture<\/strong>&#8221;<\/p>\n<div>\n<aside class=\"single__inline-module alignleft\">\n        <\/aside>\n<p>Dating on Tinder can be a soul crushing experience, particularly when you\u2019re a guy with the odds stacked against you.<\/p>\n<p>A recent study by Scandinavian <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/download-scripts-themes-apps\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"9\" title=\"Download Scripts &amp; Themes &amp; Apps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">app<\/a> developers <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/swipestats.io\/\">Swipestats<\/a>, which allows users to compare data, found that men swipe right on 53% of profiles they\u2019re shown while women do the same for only 5% of their options.<\/p>\n<p>But, New York photographer\u00a0Charlie Grosso says, you can\u2019t\u00a0underestimate the power of a great Tinder profile pic in helping you land \u201cthe one.\u201d\u00a0Since 2015,\u00a0Grosso has specialized in\u00a0taking\u00a0portraits\u00a0for clients to use exclusively on Tinder. She cherry-picks the most flattering examples of her work before the client uploads a maximum of nine images to the app.<\/p>\n<p>Grosso told The Post about her impressive success rates and the marriages she\u2019s helped spawn. \u201cThe majority of my clients are genuine in wanting meaningful connections,\u201d she said. \u201cBut [before booking a session] they are totally lost as to how.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Now Grosso, who charges $1500 a session, is sharing her top posing tips with users of <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/social-mediaa\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"1\" title=\"Social Media\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Twitter<\/a> and other dating sites.  Follow her practical advice and you\u2019ll quickly produce a portfolio of professional grade pics. Here, she reveals her dos and don\u2019ts for securing dates with the right photos on Tinder.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"You_dont_have_a_beak\"><\/span>You don\u2019t have a beak <span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-5.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=683\" alt=\"Model Courtney from Wilhelmina demonstrating how NOT to pose for online dating photos.\" class=\"wp-image-19579267\" width=\"618\" height=\"925\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-5.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1234 1236w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-5.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=925 927w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-5.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=618 618w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-5.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=308 309w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-5.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 618px) 100vw, 618px\"\/><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Charlie Grosso<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t!: <\/strong>It\u2019s a resounding no to the ubiquitous \u201cduck face\u201d expression. \u201cThe pouty, come-hither look usually suggests one thing,\u201d said Grosso. Same with too much flesh on show. The photographer added: \u201cJust like fishing, you bait the hook with whatever you\u2019re trying to catch. Ultra sexy, minimally-clad images of daters will attract a particular type of person. And it\u2019s fine if that\u2019s who you want.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-1.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1024\" alt=\"Model Courtney from Wilhelmina demonstrating how to pose for online dating photos. \" class=\"wp-image-19579258\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-1.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1536 1536w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-1.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-1.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=512 512w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Charlie Grosso<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Do!:<\/strong> You\u2019re better off trading that pout for a happy, more approachable look that is built around a dazzling smile. \u201cI tell my clients: \u2018Just be you,\u2019\u201d said Grosso, stressing that a  relaxed, relatable vibe beats fakey fakey every time.<\/p>\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Mirror_madness\"><\/span>Mirror madness <span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-4.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=683\" alt=\"Model Courtney from Wilhelmina demonstrating how NOT to pose for online dating photos. \" class=\"wp-image-19579264\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-4.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-4.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=683 683w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-4.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=342 341w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\"\/><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Charlie Grosso<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t!: <\/strong>Tempted to snap a mirror selfie with or without a crop top? Think again, warned Grosso. \u201cIt\u2019s lazy, shallow and vain,\u201d she said. \u201cPeople make terrible mistakes like blocking out their face with their phone when it takes seconds to set your device on a timer.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-3.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=683\" alt=\"Model Courtney from Wilhelmina demonstrating how to pose for online dating photos. \" class=\"wp-image-19579262\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-3.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-3.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=683 683w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-3.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=342 341w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\"\/><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Charlie Grosso<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Do!: <\/strong>Sophisticated, figure-skimming clothes like our model\u2019s stylish dress \u201celevate\u201d the overall impression. Meanwhile the framing of the image is key. \u201cPhotos taken from the waist up can be the most flattering,\u201d Grosso said, noting that some headshots on Tinder are just that. Too many people cut themselves off at the chin and produce a scary floating face with no neck.<\/p>\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why_so_serious\"><\/span>Why so serious?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-6.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=683\" alt=\"Model Courtney from Wilhelmina demonstrating how NOT to pose for online dating photos.\" class=\"wp-image-19579268\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-6.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-6.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=683 683w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-6.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=342 341w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\"\/><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Charlie Grosso<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t!:<\/strong> This image channels the laughable \u201ctry hard\u201d look derided by anyone with a modicum of taste. \u201cIt appears as if she [the model] is lying in bed,\u201d said Grasso. \u201cThe reclining pose isn\u2019t flattering and the poor bedroom lighting doesn\u2019t help at all.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-2.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=683\" alt=\"Model Courtney from Wilhelmina demonstrating how to pose for online dating photos.\" class=\"wp-image-19579259\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-2.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-2.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=683 683w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-2.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=342 341w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\"\/><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Charlie Grosso<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Do!: <\/strong>Leaning over the top of a chair or couch adds form and structure to a photo. A pose of a person just standing there can look awkward, but using furniture as a prop comes across as genuine and authentic. \u201cIt\u2019s also great to get them to laugh,\u201d said Grosso, who suggests telling the subject a corny joke. \u201cIn this picture, the model presents herself as really good fun.\u201d<\/p>\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Influencer_idiocy\"><\/span>Influencer idiocy<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-influencer.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=683\" alt=\"Model Courtney from Wilhelmina demonstrating how NOT to pose for online dating photos.\" class=\"wp-image-19579356\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-influencer.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-influencer.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=683 683w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-influencer.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=342 341w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\"\/><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Charlie Grosso<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t!<\/strong>: Focusing on the middle distance equates our depressed-looking model with a wannabe influencer in need of some sponsors. \u201cShe\u2019s channeling a lot of the unnatural, unsmiling poses you see on Instagram,\u201d Grosso noted. \u201cI can\u2019t imagine anyone wanting to talk to her with that resting bitch face.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-infulence2.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=683\" alt=\"Model Courtney from Wilhelmina demonstrating how to pose for online dating photos. \" class=\"wp-image-19579357\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-infulence2.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-infulence2.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=683 683w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-infulence2.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=342 341w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\"\/><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Charlie Grosso<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Do!: <\/strong>Grosso maintains that sitting poses are sensible options for dilettantes because they\u2019re \u201ceasier\u201d to pull off and \u201cless complex.\u201d She said: \u201cSome people stand awkwardly and don\u2019t know what to do with their hands.\u201d Meanwhile the tactic of casting your eyes slightly away from the camera creates an \u201cinteresting dynamic.\u201d It looks much better than the deer-caught-in-headlights shot when you face the lens head on.<\/p>\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Save_it_for_the_bar_bro\"><\/span>Save it for the bar, bro<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-10.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=683\" alt=\"Model Omar from Wilhelmina demonstrating how NOT to pose for online dating photos. \" class=\"wp-image-19579254\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-10.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-10.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=683 683w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-10.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=342 341w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\"\/><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Charlie Grosso<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t! <\/strong>Even the most desperate dater would swipe left on a guy in a baggy football shirt giving a cheesy thumbs up. \u201cIt\u2019s so casual,\u201d said Grosso. \u201cMen think it\u2019s both dumb and funny. But I\u2019m thinking: \u2018Why are you making this choice for your on-line profile picture?\u2019\u201d She said the cringe-worthy pose was likely recommended by a clueless drinking buddy.<\/p>\n<p>Without direction from an experienced photographer, such daters often resort to a clich\u00e9d shot like Ben Stiller\u2019s hilarious \u201cBlue Steel\u201d catwalk expression. \u201cTheir confusion is deepened by all the pick-up artist types of advice [featured] online written by men for men,\u201d added Grosso. The choice of background is equally perplexing. \u201cThe messaging is unclear,\u201d she added. \u201cThe flower wall looks staged \u2014 like he\u2019s trying too hard.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-8.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=683\" alt=\"Model Omar from Wilhelmina demonstrating how to pose for online dating photos. \" class=\"wp-image-19579252\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-8.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-8.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=683 683w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-8.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=342 341w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\"\/><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Charlie Grosso<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Do!: <\/strong>According to Grosso, the model\u2019s spruced-up collared shirt paired with fitted jeans suggests a readiness \u201cfor a casual date or Sunday brunch.\u201d \u201cHe looks less like a college kid,\u201d the photographer said. Not only that, he has a welcoming smile. \u201cWhat makes a man attractive is the impression he\u2019s a nice guy and a person you\u2019re able to trust,\u201d Grosso said. \u201cThere are no red flags here.\u201d<\/p>\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Youre_not_one_of_the_Blues_Brothers\"><\/span>You\u2019re not one of the Blues Brothers  <span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-12.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=683\" alt=\"Model Omar from Wilhelmina demonstrating how NOT to pose for online dating photos. \" class=\"wp-image-19579256\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-12.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-12.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=683 683w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-12.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=342 341w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\"\/><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Charlie Grosso<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t!<\/strong> Posing indoors \u2014 even outdoors \u2014 with sunglasses covering your eyes is a rookie Tinder mistake. The sinister shades are associated with seedy characters who have something to hide. She concluded: \u201cThe model is not smiling and way too cool for school.\u201d She noted the way his arms crossed his upper body \u2014 an unappealing sign of a defensive attitude which \u201ccloses him off\u201d from flirty interactions.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-7.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1024\" alt=\"Model Omar from Wilhelmina demonstrating how to pose for online dating photos. \" class=\"wp-image-19579269\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-7.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1536 1536w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-7.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-7.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=512 512w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Charlie Grosso<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Do!:<\/strong> Grosso said the model\u2019s megawatt smile \u201cmakes all the difference in the world\u201d to this headshot. His wide grin exudes warmth and kindness. According to the expert, the tilt to his head suggests an engaged personality. \u201cIt says to your date: \u2018I\u2019m listening to you,&#8217;\u201d she said. Grosso decided the trendy brick wall proved the perfect backdrop since it resembled the inside of an industrial warehouse.<\/p>\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Light_blight\"><\/span>Light blight  <span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-11.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=683\" alt=\"Model Omar from Wilhelmina demonstrating how NOT to pose for online dating photos. \" class=\"wp-image-19579255\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-11.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-11.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=683 683w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-11.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=342 341w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\"\/><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Charlie Grosso<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t! <\/strong>Another crime that daters commit is to moodily pose with direct sunshine behind them. Experts with the right equipment can adjust the exposure, but most of us find it a challenge. \u201cThis window image fails because the model\u2019s face is almost completely in shadow,\u201d said Grosso. Instead of channeling the album cover of a gloomy indie band, she said the look is just weird. Grosso also criticized her subject\u2019s hunched shoulders: \u201cThey can mean a lack of self-confidence and worth.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-9.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=683\" alt=\"Model Omar from Wilhelmina demonstrating how to pose for online dating photos. \" class=\"wp-image-19579253\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-9.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-9.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=683 683w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/09\/tinder-9.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=342 341w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\"\/><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Charlie Grosso<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Do!<\/strong> Perched on the edge of his seat, our model comes across as interested, involved and keen to begin an intelligent conversation. \u201cIt\u2019s like he\u2019s leaning in to hear every word of the person opposite,\u201d said Grosso, adding, \u201cThere\u2019s active body communication going on \u2014 a truly engaging trait.\u201d As a bonus, the pose subtly shows off a pair of firm biceps. No matter how ripped you are, other parts of your body \u2014 think of a six pack triumphantly displayed on a bare midriff \u2014  should never be shoved in a person\u2019s face. \u201cWe are going for a lighter touch,\u201d  the photographer said. \u201cIt\u2019s much sexier to leave certain things to the imagination.\u201d<\/p>\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/><em>Photos: Charlie Grosso; Stylist: Nicole Zane; Hair: Luca Blandi; Makeup: Markphong using Westmore Beauty\/MP-IMC; Hair Assistant: Nikoletta Kola. 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