{"id":345170,"date":"2021-09-27T17:38:03","date_gmt":"2021-09-27T14:38:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/finding-david-lightning-the-decades-long-quest-to-locate-an-unmarked-grave\/"},"modified":"2021-09-27T17:38:03","modified_gmt":"2021-09-27T14:38:03","slug":"finding-david-lightning-the-decades-long-quest-to-locate-an-unmarked-grave","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/finding-david-lightning-the-decades-long-quest-to-locate-an-unmarked-grave\/","title":{"rendered":"#Finding David Lightning: The decades-long quest to locate an unmarked grave"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;<strong>#Finding David Lightning: The decades-long quest to locate an unmarked grave<\/strong>&#8221;<\/p>\n<div>\n                <strong>The short, elderly man<\/strong> walked into the Red Deer Museum + Art Gallery. Instead of turning left into the exhibit galleries, he veered right, into the staff offices. In the coffee break room, the stern-faced stranger <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/download-scripts-themes-apps\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"9\" title=\"Download Scripts &amp; Themes &amp; Apps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">app<\/a>roached a young, burly figure\u2014a fellow Cree working at the museum\u2014looked straight at him and said: \u201cOh, there you are. You\u2019re the one who\u2019s going to find my brother.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Lyle Keewatin Richards had come across odd characters at the museum that summer of 1987, but this went beyond. The man, an Elder who introduced himself as Albert Lightning, explained that he\u2019d attended Red Deer Indian Industrial School with his younger brother, David, but David never came home. Lightning, 87 and nearing the end of his life, wanted clarity and closure.<\/p>\n<p>That same year, another strange request came to the museum from an old man, this one white. A farmer brought deteriorated wooden markers from the edge of his property\u2014old grave headboards, the farmer explained, from the residential school that had once stood on his property. He wanted the museum to preserve the pieces he\u2019d found decaying in some overgrown brush; Keewatin Richards watched the museum directors, uncertain about the legalities and ethics of accepting old cemetery markers, turn him away.<\/p>\n<p>Then a summer student, Keewatin Richards didn\u2019t initially know that, in Albert Lightning, he had just met a legend. Nor did Keewatin Richards realize that the dual mysteries of headboards and David Lightning\u2019s resting place would become a mission consuming him and several others. In the time before the Truth and Reconciliation Commission, and long before the recent horror of unmarked graves discovered at Kamloops and other residential school sites, he would help uncover truths that even Lightning\u2019s own family never knew.<\/p>\n<p>Lightning seldom spoke of residential school, and then only in fleeting references during road <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/trip-and-travel\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"10\" title=\"Trip &amp; Travel\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">trip<\/a>s to Calgary, says his oldest surviving son, Richard. \u201cThat\u2019s where my residential school was, and that was the pig farm,\u201d Albert would say, head turned to the west as they crossed the Red Deer River. \u201cMy brother went there too.\u201d And once, Richard recalls, his dad mentioned something about digging graves with classmates.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_1224792\" style=\"width: 1718px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-sizes=\"auto\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1224792 lazyload\" src=\"https:\/\/www.macleans.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/RESIDENTIAL-SCHOOLS-MARKUSOFF-AUG29-02.jpg\" alt=\"Albert Lightning at the Red Deer Indian Residential School Alberta. (Courtesy of the United Church of Canada Archives)\" width=\"1708\" height=\"2500\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">Albert Lightning at the Red Deer Indian Residential School Alberta. (Courtesy of the United Church of Canada Archives)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">***<\/p>\n<p><strong>Albert Lightning may<\/strong> have lost his formative years to an institution designed to, as the notorious saying went, \u201ckill the Indian in the child.\u201d But the rest of his life became a mighty repudiation of that genocidal ambition.<\/p>\n<p>He was born in 1900 on Pigeon Lake Reserve, and taken at age 11 to Red Deer\u2019s residential school, 100 kilometres from home. He attended well into his teens.<\/p>\n<p>Once, when Lightning was out of school, he got lost in the snow near a hillside ceremonial ground. A voice called to him, he\u2019d recall later to interviewers, offering him the choice of two gifts: the \u201cstrength and power to be the richest man in the world\u201d or \u201cthe gift of spiritual power, knowledge to help people, sick people.\u201d He chose the sacred option, he said, not \u201cwhite man\u2019s business,\u201d and set out to make use of his gift.<\/p>\n<p>His grandfathers taught him Cree rituals and herbal remedies. After residential school, he ranched in Maskwacis (formerly Hobbema), central Alberta\u2019s largest Indigeneous community, and competed in rodeos. He soon became interested in Indigenous advocacy and leadership, on his reserve and beyond. He was a founding member, and later president, of the Indian Association of Alberta. As leader of a delegation to Alberta\u2019s legislature in 1951, Lightning demanded policymakers give Indigenous people a greater role in the country \u201cstolen from us.\u201d \u201cWe should have day schools like all other communities,\u201d he added, \u201cand not residential school.\u201d His own sons had been forced to attend Ermineskin residential school.<\/p>\n<p>Lightning left when the Indian Association began advocating for liquor on reserves, according to the late Glenbow Museum director Hugh Dempsey. From there, he pursued a spiritual path, travelling Western Canada as a traditional healer. \u201cThe way I help these people is to take their sickness into my own body,\u201d Lightning told Dempsey. \u201cIt\u2019s pretty hard on me sometimes.\u201d Others called him a Cree prophet or \u201cmedicine man,\u201d but he referred to himself simply as someone who helps. On a 1976 visit to the Shubenacadie Reserve in Nova Scotia, he helped reintroduce the sweat lodge and other rituals to the Mi\u2019kmaq.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>BY CINDY BLACKSTOCK:\u00a0Screaming into silence<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>The annual Indian Ecumenical Conferences he helped organize in southern Alberta became popular spiritual gatherings; his youngest sons, Perry and Patrick, each became an oskapios (helper) at ceremonies, while Richard was recruited to erect the enormous 50-person tipi, decorated with buffalo paintings. Albert Lightning\u2019s Cree name was Buffalo Child. He was humble and compassionate, but also stern and stoic. DeAnne Lightning, Richard\u2019s youngest daughter, respected and loved her grandfather, but he wasn\u2019t someone whose lap she could crawl onto. \u201cMosum was always busy,\u201d she says. \u201cI didn\u2019t want to get in the guy\u2019s way.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Lightning died at home in 1991, at age 90. Family members recall getting flowers from Ottawa, and condolences from as far away as New York and Australia. Throughout Canada, Lightnings would continue to get asked: \u201cOh, are you related to Albert?\u201d DeAnne\u2019s sister Gail Lightning, who works as a therapist, encountered this reverence on a work trip to Fort Chipewyan in northeastern Alberta: \u201cThey allowed me into their darkest moments because of who my grandfather was.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Lightning wasn\u2019t the only Elder back then who kept his residential school experiences to himself. And in 1987, nearly seven decades after his brother\u2019s death, no one in his family knew of his search for David.<\/p>\n<p>Yet the following year, he sat for an interview at the Red Deer Museum with Keewatin Richards and a couple of local researchers. Museum staff cannot find any recordings, and have only a partial transcript. In it, Lightning shares the tale of the voice offering two gifts, and offers what may be the only recorded testimonial from a Red Deer Indian Industrial School survivor. \u201cSome boys used to try to run away. They did get away sometimes,\u201d he says. He recounts the story of one runaway who got sick and died before he could find a way home; while a few boys stayed with the body, Lightning says, others fashioned a raft to travel to their reserve to report their friend\u2019s death.<\/p>\n<p>Keewatin Richards and another interviewer, historian Michael Dawe, both remember something Lightning mentioned in the missing section of the interview: \u201cOne of the farm instructors,\u201d Dawe says, \u201cwas very cruel and quite brutal to the boys who worked in the barn.\u201d<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">***<\/p>\n<div class=\"longform-fwimg-container\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-sizes=\"auto\" src=\"https:\/\/www.macleans.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/RED-DEER-INDUSTRIAL-SCHOOL-AUG31.jpg\" alt=\"The school (centre), student residence and staff house, of the Red Deer Industrial School. (Courtesy of the United Church of Canada Archives)\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">The school (centre), student residence and staff house, of the Red Deer Industrial School. (Courtesy of the United Church of Canada Archives)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><strong>Red Deer Indian Industrial School opened in 1893,<\/strong> based on two assimilationist notions embedded in the thinking of Canadian leaders at the time. First: Indigenous boys must learn practical trades like farming and carpentry, and Indigenous girls must learn housework. School days were half class, half labour, plus prayer time. Second: children must be kept far from their families. The Methodist-run school was built above a narrows in the Red Deer River, far from any First Nations reserve. In a time before automobile travel, the biggest contingent of students arrived from Saddle Lake Nation, 321 kilometres northeast; a few came from northern Manitoba, 1,469 kilometres away.<\/p>\n<p>It was modestly sized for a residential school, with room for 90 students, compared to 500 in Kamloops (which also started as an industrial school). And while it lasted just 26 years, it was notorious for disease and fatalities: by 1907, 56 students\u2014one-quarter of those enrolled\u2014had died at school or within a few years of returning home, states a master\u2019s thesis by Calgary researcher Uta Fox. The next dozen years would claim another dozen young lives, according to the National Centre for Truth and Reconciliation\u2019s student memorial. That\u2019s 70 students deceased, among some 350 recorded attendees.<\/p>\n<p>Sanitation was a chronic problem\u2014the school\u2019s sewage system was undersized from the start\u2014and there were outbreaks of tuberculosis and smallpox. Administrators\u2019 requests for an on-site isolation hospital, as early as 1901, were rebuffed by a stingy Indian Affairs department, Fox\u2019s study notes. In 1907, when Dr. Peter Bryce began raising the alarm about illness and conditions in Prairie residential schools, Red Deer had the most juvenile deaths.<\/p>\n<p>Distance from home would compound the tragedy. Only four of the eight students whom missionaries shipped to Alberta in 1900 from Nelson House, Man., survived, records show. During some disease outbreaks, students\u2019 families would camp by the school site, desperate to see their boys and girls. They weren\u2019t allowed.<\/p>\n<p>Red Deer had its share of abusive staff, beyond what Lightning shared in 1988. An Indian agent in 1895<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"#crxn\">*<\/a> observed a Mr. Skinner smacking a boy\u2019s head with a stick and shoving one girl across the length of the floor. \u201cHis actions in this and other cases would not be tolerated in a white school for a single day in any part of Canada,\u201d the agent reported. The principal in 1905 had a preferred punishment for boys, seating them backwards over a chair with their backs bared for whipping. His successor, Rev. Arthur Barner, professed to end corporal punishment and let children return home in the summer. But his racist condescension practically rises from the pages of a 1910 essay he penned for a Methodist magazine. Indigenous children, he wrote, \u201chave no intellectual heredity and as a consequence there is no proper outlook on life; foundations of thinking and reasoning must be laid.\u201d Barner bemoaned the reluctance of Indigenous parents to send their children to a faraway Christian school: \u201cParental love in the Indian, although crude and animal-like in many ways, is at the same time very strong.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Joseph F. Woodsworth took the helm of the Red Deer school in 1913, with enrolment declining because families favoured schools closer to their reserves. Both the church and the government had considered closing it, and the likely low point for Woodsworth\u2014brother of J.S. Woodsworth, founder of the Cooperative Commonwealth Federation, forerunner of Canada\u2019s NDP\u2014came in November 1918, when influenza tore through, infecting most students and staff. \u201cConditions at this school are nothing less than criminal,\u201d Woodsworth wrote to Ottawa. \u201cThe dead, the dying, the sick and the convalescent were all together.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Four children died in their dormitories from the flu: Georgina House, Jane Baptiste, Sarah Soosay and David Lightning, who was gone at age 14.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>READ :What I told my child about the Kamloops graves\u2014to honour the 215<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>In 1987, Keewatin Richards set out to fulfil Lightning\u2019s prediction that he\u2019d find his brother\u2019s grave, but could find no records that would help him search the overgrown patch of ground that had been the school cemetery. Museum colleagues suggested he try the main Red Deer cemetery, where he found a dusty handwritten register. There, badly misspelled and scrawled on a page mostly reserved for buried stillbirths, was David Lightning\u2019s name. Alongside it were those of the three classmates influenza had also claimed, within days of each other. Plot C73. Unmarked.<\/p>\n<p>Keewatin Richards reported his success in a phone message to Albert Lightning\u2019s home. No reply came.<\/p>\n<p>He later learned why David and his classmates were buried in a town graveyard, kilometres away. The flu of 1918 was so vicious that nobody at the school was well enough to dig graves. At the principal\u2019s request, an undertaker from Red Deer took the bodies. \u201cHe gave them a burial as near as possible to that of a pauper,\u201d Woodsworth wrote. \u201cThey are buried two in a grave.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The school closed the following September. The boys\u2019 building was dismantled, its bricks salvaged for a plumber\u2019s office in downtown Red Deer; the sandstone building for girls wound up as a chicken coop, decaying into a ruin that was demolished in 1971.<\/p>\n<p>The cemetery, some 800 metres from the schoolhouses, suffered even greater neglect. Bartlett Moore and his family acquired the farmland through a program for Second World War veterans. By then, only a few wooden headboards remained amid the thicket, weathered and barely legible; a picket fence had largely splintered to dust. In 1987, after the museum turned away his donation of the last four markers, Moore wrapped them in burlap and stored them in his garage.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_1224794\" style=\"width: 1677px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-sizes=\"auto\" class=\"wp-image-1224794 size-full lazyload\" src=\"https:\/\/www.macleans.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/RESIDENTIAL-SCHOOLS-MARKUSOFF-AUG29-04.jpg\" alt=\"Richard Lightning. (Photograph by Colin Way)\" width=\"1667\" height=\"2500\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">Albert Lightning\u2019s son Richard: the Lightning family has defied the core mission of the residential school system and found a path to resilience (Photograph by Colin Way)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">***<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lyle Keewatin Richards,<\/strong> who was in his 20s when Albert Lightning confronted him in the coffee room, moved on to a career in <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/social-mediaa\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"1\" title=\"Social Media\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">social<\/a> work. But questions around the Red Deer residential school stuck with him. How many more dead, lost children were there?<\/p>\n<p>He didn\u2019t attend residential school, but was part of that other scourge that tore children from their parents: the Sixties Scoop. He spent 10 days with his mother before going up for adoption, not seeing her again until the 1980s, when they reunited through Parent Finders. As an adult in Red Deer, cravings for social justice and church-basement coffee brought him to Sunnybrook United Church. One Sunday in 2005, a visiting speaker from post-apartheid South Africa suggested that Canadians had their own truth and reconciliation to pursue. The United Church, formed in a merger including the Methodists that ran the Red Deer school, had by then formally apologized for its role in that system, and a class action by school survivors was nearing conclusion. So Keewatin Richards shared with Sunnybrook leaders something that, as he put it, \u201cI\u2019d kept in my back pocket all this time\u201d: his knowledge of the unmarked graves of David Lightning and untold others from Red Deer\u2019s residential school.<\/p>\n<p>Thus began a renewed search that drew in members of the local historical society; Cecile Fausak, a small-town minister who\u2019d listened as a church liaison to full days of residential school survivors\u2019 testimonials of abuse; and Don Hepburn, a former residential school vice-principal in Inuvik, N.W.T., who left in dismay at that system. Hepburn spent endless hours scanning microfiche, digging through federal documents, church records and old <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/news\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"2\" title=\"News\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">news<\/a>papers. He even found a ledger listing clothing the students were lent, with a striking notation alongside the dates when some items were returned: \u201cdead.\u201d Hepburn and his colleagues compiled a list of roughly 350 students and the Indigenous communities they hailed from, records of deaths, plus details of the school\u2019s brutal history. By this point, none of its students was still alive.<\/p>\n<p>This group had little interaction with the owners of the former school and cemetery until 2008, when Doug Moore, Bartlett\u2019s son, applied for a 54-house subdivision on his land. That included the house he built for his own family at the edge of a grain field, 100 metres from the forested burial grounds. Sunnybrook researchers had discussed the school\u2019s cemetery with provincial officials, who required the developer to commission a historic resource impact assessment. Archeologists cleared brush and found several shallow depressions in a 10-by-15-metre area. They used an early version of ground-penetrating radar, and stripped away a layer of soil to discover clear signs of grave shafts and clay backfill. They also found the decayed wooden stumps of headboards, similar to the artifacts that Doug Moore had inherited from his late father. Such surface excavation is rarely done in cemetery research today, says Kisha Supernant, director of the Institute of Prairie and Indigenous Archaeology at the University of Alberta. But one element of that 2008 assessment remains central to contemporary searches for residential school graves: a ceremony like the smudge Keewatin Richards performed before the archeologists went to work. The report estimated there were between 27 and 63 graves on the site, and possibly more in cultivated areas nearby.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>READ:\u00a0\u2018At every turn, Canada chooses the path of injustice toward Indigenous peoples\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>With the cemetery location confirmed, the Sunnybrook group reached out to First Nations and M\u00e9tis communities whose children had gone to Red Deer, to share knowledge and determine next steps. Fausak criss-crossed Alberta with student lists and archival photos. At Saddle Lake, she recalls, they knew that grandparents, aunts and uncles had attended the school. \u201cIt was kind of like, \u2018We\u2019ve been waiting,\u2019\u201d Fausak says. But to many there, and in other First Nations, the list was eye-opening, because so few survivors had spoken of their time there. Former Saddle Lake chief Eric Large found his grandfather\u2019s brother Daniel, enrolled as a teen in 1895. In Samson Nation, Lorne Green learned that the grandfather he never met, Eli, attended from age six to 18. Fausak phoned Nelson Hart, a Cree minister of the United Church in Nelson House, Man., and read him the student list from his reserve; Hart realized his two great-aunts had been sent to Red Deer, and one had died there. \u201cIt wasn\u2019t until then that my mother told me her aunts went to that residential school,\u201d Hart says. \u201cI felt sadness that nobody told me about that experience.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The Sunnybrook group gathered Alberta Elders to visit the cemetery site; among them was Albert Lightning\u2019s youngest son, Patrick, then 56. They resolved to hold the first of four Remembering the Children feasts\u2014four times being the Cree tradition for mourning. In 2010, they gathered 450 people at Fort Normandeau, a historic site on the opposite river bank from where the school sat. Patrick Lightning and Indigenous leaders read the names of every known student who had attended. On a Greyhound bus, Nelson Hart retraced his ancestors\u2019 path from northern Manitoba to Red Deer, a 32-hour trek. After that large ceremonial feast, Elders held a smaller one in a tipi near the cemetery on Moore\u2019s property; they prayed to free the spirits, and tied the four ceremonial printed cloths\u2014red, yellow, black and white\u2014on a nearby tree, instructing Moore to never take them down.<\/p>\n<p>After Patrick had to step back from the organization, his older brother Richard Lightning attended a meeting on behalf of Ermineskin Cree Nation. It was only there, in fall 2010, that he learned about David Lightning\u2019s death and his father\u2019s search years earlier. Richard was shocked. Neither he nor Patrick had heard any of this from Albert. \u201cThe feeling was, I could talk to my dad about it, but he\u2019s already gone. So there was no way.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Richard soon became president of the Remembering the Children Society. When Doug Moore donated the wooden headboards for preservation, Richard and his brother drummed at the head of the ceremonial procession to the Red Deer Museum; Talon, his grandson, marched with one grave marker. Another bears the name of Ellen Hart, the minister\u2019s great-aunt from Nelson House; it\u2019s now encased in a permanent museum exhibit.<\/p>\n<p>The society held the final feast in 2013, to coincide with a Truth and Reconciliation Commission hearing. Richard Lightning, Keewatin Richards and others spoke as witnesses. The commission report extensively quotes them as part of Call to Action 75, which urges government to collaborate with survivors, Indigenous nations, landowners and others to commemorate and document grave sites. The group produced a pamphlet guiding others on the handling of unmarked residential school graves; Fausak would assist on truth-seeking projects for other United Church-led schools in Brandon, Regina and File Hills, Sask.<\/p>\n<p>One act of memorialization remained, though, about which Richard Lightning was quietly passionate. At the Red Deer city cemetery, his Uncle David\u2019s grave lay unmarked. The society finally secured funds for a granite marker atop plot C73 for David Lightning and the three others. It was unveiled in 2017\u2014nearly 99 years after the children were buried. \u201cIt means everything to me,\u201d Richard says. \u201cThough it\u2019s 100 years ago, you always keep in mind you\u2019re praying for the souls of those people.\u201d<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_1224974\" style=\"width: 2602px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-sizes=\"auto\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1224974 lazyload\" src=\"https:\/\/www.macleans.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/RED-DEER-INDUSTRIAL-SCHOOL-GRAVES-MARKUSOFF-AUG31.jpg\" alt=\"Adriana DuVal (centre) and Talon Lightning (right) carry headboards from the Red Deer Industrial School cemetery. The headboards belonged to students who had attended the school from 1893 to 1919. They will be on display at the Red Deer Musuem + Art Gallery. (Red Deer Express)\" width=\"2592\" height=\"3872\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">Adriana DuVal (centre) and Talon Lightning (right) carry headboards from the Red Deer Industrial School cemetery. The headboards belonged to students who had attended the school from 1893 to 1919. They will be on display at the Red Deer Musuem + Art Gallery. (Red Deer Express)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">***<\/p>\n<p><strong>There was a distance<\/strong> between Albert and Richard Lightning that the son ascribes to the hard reality Indigenous people grew up in. At residential school, you were taught to hate, not love, especially when it came to your own culture. His dad likely faced abuse at Red Deer Industrial School. At the Ermineskin school, if he slouched during breakfast, Richard got his ears pulled and his torso yanked backward. \u201cSauvage!\u201d the francophone nuns yelled at him, he recalled. Parental bonds are hard to maintain when kids spend 10 months a year away. \u201cI never heard him say, \u2018Son, I love you,\u2019 \u201d Richard recalls of his father. \u201cA hug, that\u2019s unknown.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In early adulthood, Richard moved away into \u201cmainstream society\u201d in Toronto\u2014he briefly drove TTC buses\u2014and returned to Maskwacis with an Acadian wife and young daughters. Back in Alberta, he still could speak the Cree that Albert determinedly used at home. Richard became a translator and research director for his dad\u2019s old group, the Indian Association of Alberta, contributing to a major project revealing how Elders were betrayed by broken government treaty promises. More recently, he\u2019s worked for his tribal council and as an Elder guiding troubled youth. Though Albert never taught him ceremony, Richard picked some up gradually, and he\u2019s often asked to offer prayers at community events.<\/p>\n<p>Tenderness to his own children didn\u2019t come naturally to Richard, but his daughters urged him along. His youngest says he\u2019s a best friend. \u201cNot a lot of people I know have that kind of relationship with their father,\u201d DeAnne says. \u201cIf they even have a father.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Her son, Talon, fits into that camp. Richard has become his de facto dad, she says.<\/p>\n<p>DeAnne went to regular day school, but she understands how the chain of trauma from residential school remains unbroken. \u201cPeople can take a few different paths when they come out of residential school. You kind of live in a bubble and you just zone out the world. Or you turn to addictions,\u201d she says. She\u2019s lost several nieces and nephews to suicide. \u201cIt\u2019s not even shocking to me anymore,\u201d says DeAnne, a food bank manager in Maskwacis. \u201cIt\u2019s sad, but not a surprise.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Much of Albert\u2019s family has strived to defy the core mission of the residential schools. They\u2019ve found the path toward resilience, DeAnne says. They are spiritual, proudly Cree and devoted to family. Richard, proudly sober for 25 years, celebrated his 85th birthday with all three of his daughters in Banff. He wears a small carved buffalo around his neck, a nod to his dad\u2019s Cree name, Buffalo Child.<\/p>\n<div class=\"longform-fwimg-container\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-sizes=\"auto\" src=\"https:\/\/www.macleans.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/RESIDENTIAL-SCHOOLS-MARKUSOFF-AUG29-03.jpg\" alt=\"Lyle Keeweatin Richards in the Red Deer Cemetery. He is standing near the grave of David Lightning. (Photograph by Jen Osborne)\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">Lyle Keewatin Richards\u2019 years-long quest: a headstone finally erected for David Lightning and three of Lightning\u2019s classmates (Photograph by Jen Osborne)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">***<\/p>\n<p><strong>The Remembering the Children Society<\/strong> has long pushed for its own archeological scan of the cemetery site, building on the 2008 study done for the \u201cMoore Meadows\u201d subdivision, which for economic reasons was never built. Money and support proved elusive, though things may have shifted since the Alberta government acquired the strip of cemetery land in 2018. The province has offered several million dollars for residential school cemetery investigations, reaching out to nine Indigenous communities whose children attended the Red Deer school. Supernant, the archeologist, has been brought in to advise; ground-penetrating radar analysis has improved vastly since the 2008 assessment, she says, and she recommends a wider area be searched.<\/p>\n<p>Meanwhile, David Lightning\u2019s grave in the city cemetery\u2014not only long forgotten but unacknowledged in the first place\u2014is now a revered site. Red Deer city council declares every June 11 as Remembering the Children Day, with graveside ceremonies. Since the Kamloops discovery, visitors have been leaving flowers, teddy bears and toy cars where David and his classmates were laid to rest. To help locals find the memorial in the sprawling cemetery, staff have placed a tall stake next to it wrapped with an orange ribbon. A grave that spent nearly a century unmarked is now marked twice. Buffalo Child might have appreciated that.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>*CORRECTION, Sept. 27, 2021:<\/strong> The original digital and print versions of this story said an Indian agent visited the school in 1985; the agent visited in 1895.<\/em><br \/>\n<span class=\"ctx-article-root\"><!-- --><\/span>\n                            <\/div>\n<p><script async defer crossorigin=\"anonymous\" src=\"https:\/\/connect.facebook.net\/en_US\/sdk.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">If you liked the article, do not forget to share it with your friends. 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