{"id":352862,"date":"2021-10-14T20:52:55","date_gmt":"2021-10-14T17:52:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/im-33-and-have-never-had-an-orgasm-whats-wrong-with-me\/"},"modified":"2021-10-14T20:52:55","modified_gmt":"2021-10-14T17:52:55","slug":"im-33-and-have-never-had-an-orgasm-whats-wrong-with-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/im-33-and-have-never-had-an-orgasm-whats-wrong-with-me\/","title":{"rendered":"#\u2018I\u2019m 33 and have never had an orgasm \u2014 what\u2019s wrong with me?\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a3a1199ca2ce\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a3a1199ca2ce\" checked aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/im-33-and-have-never-had-an-orgasm-whats-wrong-with-me\/#Jos_Answer\" >Jo\u2019s Answer:<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>&#8220;<strong>#\u2018I\u2019m 33 and have never had an orgasm \u2014 what\u2019s wrong with me?\u2019<\/strong>&#8221;<br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/10\/GettyImages-172386372.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all\" \/><\/p>\n<div>\n<aside class=\"single__inline-module alignleft\">\n<\/aside>\n<p><em>Clinical psychologist Jo Lamble of <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bodyandsoul.com.au\/\">Body + Soul<\/a> answers your\u00a0questions.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201cI\u2019m 33 years old and I\u2019ve never had an orgasm. I\u2019ve tried through intercourse and masturbation, but I can\u2019t seem to get there.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I have no problems getting aroused, but when the actual act begins the feeling is a let-down and it bores me. Is my mind just too busy with high expectations of the feeling itself, or could this be an\u00a0actual physical issue?<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Jos_Answer\"><\/span>Jo\u2019s Answer:<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>You\u2019re not alone. Many people \u2013 particularly females \u2013 get to the age of 33 or older without having had an orgasm.<\/p>\n<p>For some, there might be an underlying medical condition, so it\u2019s always worth talking to your GP about the issue. Some medications interfere with the body\u2019s ability to climax, so that\u2019s also worth exploring with your GP.<\/p>\n<p>For people with a history of sexual trauma, sex can be understandably problematic, and therapy is recommended. But for most people who have never had an orgasm, there\u2019s no underlying medical or psychological condition. The difficulty lies in not being able to relax enough or a fear of letting go.<\/p>\n<p>If there is too much going on in your mind, it can be hard to focus your attention on the sexual stimulation. If you\u2019re worried about the fact that you never climax, it can be hard for you to relax. My advice would be to try masturbating with a vibrator, focusing all your attention on your genitals.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, try to tense and then relax your pelvic-floor muscles and buttocks to increase blood flow, which can increase the chance of having an orgasm. Sometimes it\u2019s easier to single-mindedly focus on your body if you\u2019re concentrating on tensing and relaxing your muscles.\n                        <\/p><\/div>\n<blockquote><p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">If you liked the article, do not forget to share it with your friends. 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