{"id":362233,"date":"2021-11-04T05:15:48","date_gmt":"2021-11-04T02:15:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/4-key-moments-from-weighing-the-decision-recap\/"},"modified":"2021-11-04T05:15:48","modified_gmt":"2021-11-04T02:15:48","slug":"4-key-moments-from-weighing-the-decision-recap","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/4-key-moments-from-weighing-the-decision-recap\/","title":{"rendered":"#4 Key Moments From &#8216;Weighing the Decision&#8217; (RECAP)"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a44582a31a67\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a44582a31a67\" checked aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/4-key-moments-from-weighing-the-decision-recap\/#A_Second_Opinion\" >A Second Opinion<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/4-key-moments-from-weighing-the-decision-recap\/#More_Time_to_Think\" >More Time to Think<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/4-key-moments-from-weighing-the-decision-recap\/#Last_Group_Hurrah\" >Last Group Hurrah<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/4-key-moments-from-weighing-the-decision-recap\/#Goodnights_Goodbyes\" >Goodnights &amp; Goodbyes<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>&#8220;<strong>#4 Key Moments From &#8216;Weighing the Decision&#8217; (RECAP)<\/strong>&#8221;<\/p>\n<div> <strong>[Warning: The below contains MAJOR spoilers for <i>Married at First Sight,<\/i> Season 13, Episode 16, \u201cWeighing the Decision.\u201d]<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Decision Day looms on the horizon for <em>Married at First Sight<\/em>\u2018s Season 13 couples and the latest episode, \u201cWeighing the Decision,\u201d is shining a light on the pros and cons of each relationship.<\/p>\n<p>From problematic dynamics to solid footing, the five pairs have a range of strengths and weaknesses and it\u2019s all being put on the table ahead of the biggest day of their lives. Below, we\u2019re breaking down all of the drama and key moments from the installment but beware of major spoilers.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"A_Second_Opinion\"><\/span>A Second Opinion<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_1020613\" style=\"width: 1024px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1020613\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1020613\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-ryan-1014x570.jpg\" alt=\"Married at First Sight Season 13 Ryan\" width=\"1014\" height=\"570\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-ryan-1014x570.jpg 1014w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-ryan-450x253.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-ryan-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-ryan-1420x798.jpg 1420w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-ryan-770x433.jpg 770w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-ryan-570x320.jpg 570w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-ryan.jpg 2028w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1014px) 100vw, 1014px\"\/><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-1020613\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">(Credit: Lifetime)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>The episode opens with the couples taking time apart from each other to get the perspective of friends and family in one-on-one meetings. First up is Ryan who plays some tennis with pal Michael who listens as Ryan details his misstep of signing up for a dating <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/download-scripts-themes-apps\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"9\" title=\"Download Scripts &amp; Themes &amp; Apps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">app<\/a> and being caught by wife Brett. Ryan admits he feels bad and is apologetic especially when he and Brett were beginning to find common ground at that point in their relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Michaela\u2019s sister Shareefa drops by her apartment to learn more about her issues with Zack, which Michaela explains have been somewhat smoothed over after their meeting with Dr. Pepper in the last episode. Although Bao is upset that Johnny sought advice from her best friend Sarah, she tells other pal Anh that she\u2019s willing to keep trying if he apologizes.<\/p>\n<p>Rachel also meets with her friend Lirice, who she opens up to about Jose and his pros and cons. For Rachel, there are a lot of pros, but the biggest cons are his inability to listen sometimes and any reactive fights as they\u2019ve had in the past. Myrla\u2019s friend Quiana listens as the newlywed admits she can be a handful for Gil sometimes but that her biggest concern heading into Decision Day is her husband\u2019s more frugal approach to finances.<\/p>\n<p>On Jose\u2019s side of things, he tells his buddy Emmanuel about concerns regarding Rachel\u2019s faithfulness and their disconnect on communication at times, otherwise, he\u2019s feeling fairly positive as Decision Day approaches. Johnny gets feedback from friends Jerick and Kenny about his next steps with Bao as they push him to consider what\u2019s a deal-breaker and what compromises he could make in the future.<\/p>\n<p>Gil consults his mother over the phone via Facetime and worries that Myrla\u2019s negativity and materialistic side could bring things to an end. She encourages that as long as Gil and Myrla are communicating well and can respect each other, that\u2019s what\u2019s most important. Brett returns to her shared apartment with Ryan to discover he\u2019s moved most of his things out of the living space. She shares a frustrated call with her sister in which she laments his lack of efforts in their union.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"More_Time_to_Think\"><\/span>More Time to Think<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_1020617\" style=\"width: 1024px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1020617\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1020617\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-gil-myrla-1014x570.jpg\" alt=\"Married at First Sight Season 13 Myrla Gil\" width=\"1014\" height=\"570\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-gil-myrla-1014x570.jpg 1014w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-gil-myrla-450x253.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-gil-myrla-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-gil-myrla-1420x798.jpg 1420w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-gil-myrla-770x433.jpg 770w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-gil-myrla-570x320.jpg 570w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-gil-myrla.jpg 2028w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1014px) 100vw, 1014px\"\/><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-1020617\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">(Credit: Lifetime)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>The participants continue to go about their daily lives and in a meet-up between Gil and Zack, Gil learns the reason behind Zack\u2019s argument with Michaela at the retreat. Ultimately, Zack shares that he and Michaela have smoothed things over, and Gil is impressed to hear that Michaela took responsibility for overreacting.<\/p>\n<p>Meanwhile, Rachel and Jose sit down for a date to discuss their current relationship status and their concerns heading into Decision Day. She worries that communication could be their pitfall and explains that ending things over small arguments scares her. Jose agrees, but he\u2019s not eager to listen when Rachel brings up <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/trip-and-travel\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"10\" title=\"Trip &amp; Travel\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">travel<\/a>ing, which to her means taking a big European trip every other year.<\/p>\n<p>Gil and Myrla go rollerblading and kid around on a solo date, but things soon turn serious when they sit down to talk. Although they\u2019re both having fun in the marriage, he is worried that Myrla can be bratty and let her big-spending get in the way of seeing things from a more humble perspective. She admits that money does motivate her actions, but could this really be a deal-breaker for the duo?<\/p>\n<p>Bao and Johnny also have a date of their own during which he admits that having talked with his friends has encouraged him to keep trying, but when it comes to Johnny it\u2019s never a definite thing.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Last_Group_Hurrah\"><\/span>Last Group Hurrah<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_1020614\" style=\"width: 1024px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1020614\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1020614\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-cast-1014x570.jpg\" alt=\"Married at First Sight Season 13\" width=\"1014\" height=\"570\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-cast-1014x570.jpg 1014w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-cast-450x253.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-cast-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-cast-1420x798.jpg 1420w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-cast-770x433.jpg 770w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-cast-570x320.jpg 570w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-cast.jpg 2028w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1014px) 100vw, 1014px\"\/><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-1020614\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">(Credit: Lifetime)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>In one last group gathering before Decision Day, Brett and Ryan come face to face for the first time since his dating app blunder, and Gil poses the big question of where everyone is at leading into the big day. Jose and Rachel say they\u2019re feeling good, while Gil is quick to reveal that if Myrla doesn\u2019t start adapting to being married and continuing to live as though she\u2019s still single, that will be a deal-breaker for him. Brett says that feelings need to be mutual between her and Ryan heading into Decision Day if she\u2019ll say yes, essentially hinting that she\u2019s most likely to say no to staying married.<\/p>\n<p>Johnny reveals that if he sees potential with Bao, he\u2019ll be saying yes on Decision Day, but she notes that it takes two to make a marriage work and only one person to end it. Whether that\u2019s a threat or not remains to be seen. Zack doesn\u2019t see a no on Decision Day as a failure because he doesn\u2019t plan on giving up the relationship with Michaela either way. Bao interjects that if she were to receive a no, she\u2019s not sure she could emotionally recover, that it\u2019s over the minute that decision is made.<\/p>\n<p>Michaela attempts to defend Zack\u2019s logic, but it\u2019s certainly an angle to ponder. The group caps off their night with a bittersweet toast as this could be one of the last times they\u2019re all together in a fun way like this. They then take a moment to discuss what they\u2019ve learned about themselves along the way. Brett says that she\u2019s been able to overcome things easier than she would have believed. Rachel used to see arguments as an ending but has learned that they\u2019re just a bump in the road, Bao\u2019s working on being kinder, Johnny and Zack both discovered they\u2019re rather emotional, and Gil has been more vulnerable than he could have believed.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Goodnights_Goodbyes\"><\/span>Goodnights &amp; Goodbyes<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_1020616\" style=\"width: 1024px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1020616\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1020616\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-johnny-bao-1014x570.jpg\" alt=\"Married at First Sight Season 13 Bao Johnny\" width=\"1014\" height=\"570\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-johnny-bao-1014x570.jpg 1014w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-johnny-bao-450x253.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-johnny-bao-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-johnny-bao-1420x798.jpg 1420w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-johnny-bao-770x433.jpg 770w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-johnny-bao-570x320.jpg 570w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/MAFS-1316-johnny-bao.jpg 2028w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1014px) 100vw, 1014px\"\/><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-1020616\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">(Credit: Lifetime)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>The couples turn in for the night knowing it will be their last together before Decision Day. As they all reflect on the experience, Rachel admits she isn\u2019t sure but she\u2019s happy for the time she\u2019s had with Jose who adds that he has some regrets but she\u2019s not one of them. As for Myrla, she\u2019s feeling good, but it\u2019s clear that Gil is having some second guesses heading into the big day. Johnny and Bao share a final drink and try to work through their chaotic feelings with both of them being unsure of how they\u2019ll proceed. The episode ends with all of the couples parting way for a day and night alone before they reunite for Decision Day in the next episode. Stay tuned to see how things unfold as the romantic experiment comes to its eight-week conclusion.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Married at First Sight<\/strong><\/em><strong>, Season 13, Wednesdays, 8\/7c, Lifetime<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<blockquote><p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">If you liked the article, do not forget to share it with your friends. 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