{"id":421131,"date":"2022-03-25T02:13:44","date_gmt":"2022-03-24T23:13:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/i-hacked-tinder-and-dated-15-men-in-21-days-and-its-super-simple\/"},"modified":"2022-03-25T02:13:44","modified_gmt":"2022-03-24T23:13:44","slug":"i-hacked-tinder-and-dated-15-men-in-21-days-and-its-super-simple","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/i-hacked-tinder-and-dated-15-men-in-21-days-and-its-super-simple\/","title":{"rendered":"#I hacked Tinder and dated 15 men in 21 days\u2014 and it&#8217;s super simple"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a3cd92ed9b2b\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a3cd92ed9b2b\" checked aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-1'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/i-hacked-tinder-and-dated-15-men-in-21-days-and-its-super-simple\/#%E2%80%9CI_hacked_Tinder_and_dated_15_men_in_21_days%E2%80%94_and_its_super_simple%E2%80%9D\" >&#8220;I hacked Tinder and dated 15 men in 21 days\u2014 and it&#8217;s super simple&#8221;<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h1><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"%E2%80%9CI_hacked_Tinder_and_dated_15_men_in_21_days%E2%80%94_and_its_super_simple%E2%80%9D\"><\/span>&#8220;I hacked Tinder and dated 15 men in 21 days\u2014 and it&#8217;s super simple&#8221;<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\n<div>\n<aside class=\"single__inline-module alignleft\">\n<\/aside>\n<p>With \u201cThe Tinder Swindler\u201d a blockbuster success on Netflix, many women are wary of matching with a man online. <\/p>\n<p>But one Australian woman says Tinder is the perfect place to meet Mr. Right, and is revealing the simple hacks she uses to maximize chances of success on the <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/download-scripts-themes-apps\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"9\" title=\"Download Scripts &amp; Themes &amp; Apps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">app<\/a>. <\/p>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/helenchik.com\/\">Helen Chik<\/a>, who hails from Sydney, says dating is simply a numbers <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/game\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"7\" title=\"Game\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">game<\/a> and boasts that she had Tinder dates with 15 different men during a recent three-week <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/trip-and-travel\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"10\" title=\"Trip &amp; Travel\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">trip<\/a> to New York City. <\/p>\n<p>The serial dater, who has penned the book <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/helenchik.com\/sexswipesandotherstories\/\">\u201cSex, Swipes and Other Stories,\u201d<\/a> divulged how she managed to meet so many men in such a short period of time during an interview on the podcast <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/374C5xqxpU3bvkdh4Z3rKv?si=h5rEOOVPT9is13b-o6GMtg&amp;nd=1\">\u201cKinda Sorta Dating.\u201d<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Chik declared that everything comes down to time and urged Tinder users not to procrastinate while on the app. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cTime is the one thing you can\u2019t get back, so that\u2019s why I\u2019m very big on time and efficiency,\u201d she stated. <\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"819\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-10.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=819\" alt=\"Chik says time is of the essence, and is warning Tinder users not to waste time procrastinating with small talk prior to meeting in person.\" class=\"wp-image-21651573\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-10.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1638 1638w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-10.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1229 1228w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-10.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=819 819w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-10.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=410 409w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-10.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\"\/><figcaption>Chik says time is of the essence, and is warning Tinder users not to waste time procrastinating with small talk prior to meeting in person.<\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Courtesy of @helenchikx<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"820\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-03.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=820\" alt=\"Chik has penned a book about her dating experiences titled has penned the book &quot;Sex, Swipes and Other Stories.&quot;\" class=\"wp-image-21651564\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-03.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1640 1640w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-03.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1229 1230w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-03.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=820 820w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-03.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=410 410w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-03.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 820px) 100vw, 820px\"\/><figcaption>Chik has penned a book about her dating experiences titled has penned the book \u201cSex, Swipes and Other Stories.\u201d<\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Courtesy of @helenchikx<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Knowing that she was coming to the Big Apple, Chik changed her location settings to New York City before she had even left Sydney. <\/p>\n<p>She said it is important to get small talk out of the way quickly, so that you can meet up in person as soon as possible. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cChange your location prior to arriving in the city, so you\u2019re basically matching people in a city you\u2019re not actually physically in, but you can do all the tedious small talk, banter, vibe checks, before you arrive,\u201d she advised. <\/p>\n<p>For those who are hoping to date locally, Chik further divulged her hack for cutting down on small talk. The savvy swiper said she divides conversation into two categories: \u201cNeed to know\u201d and \u201cNice to know.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"819\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-06.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=819\" alt=\"Chik had dates with 15 different men during a recent 21-day visit to New York City.\" class=\"wp-image-21651570\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-06.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1638 1638w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-06.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1229 1228w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-06.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=819 819w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-06.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=410 409w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-06.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\"\/><figcaption>Chik had dates with 15 different men during a recent 21-day visit to New York City.<\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Courtesy of @helenchikx<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"832\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-09.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=832\" alt=\"Chik makes sure she focuses Tinder chats on &quot;Need to know&quot; subjects so as not to procrastinate before a first date.\" class=\"wp-image-21651571\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-09.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1664 1664w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-09.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1247 1248w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-09.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=832 832w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-09.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=416 416w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-09.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 832px) 100vw, 832px\"\/><figcaption>Chik makes sure she focuses Tinder chats on \u201cNeed to know\u201d subjects so as not to procrastinate before a first date.<\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Courtesy of @helenchikx<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>The latter consists of light-hearted, trivial topics, while the former is focused on determining a person\u2019s morals, goals and values. <\/p>\n<p>Chik claims conversations should be focused on the \u201cNeed to know\u201d category so as to quickly figure out whether two people are compatible prior to putting energy into a date.<\/p>\n<p>For instance, Chik is twice divorced and she says that fact is a part of the \u201cNeed to know\u201d category. She always shares that personal information before an in-person meetup. <\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-99.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1024\" alt=\"Sydneysider Helen Chik is revealing her simple hacks for singletons looking to make the most out of online dating.\" class=\"wp-image-21651575\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-99.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1535 1536w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-99.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/hack-tinder-dating-99.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;w=512 512w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><figcaption>Sydneysider Helen Chik is revealing her simple hacks for singletons looking to make the most out of online dating.<\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Courtesy of @helenchikx<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>\u201cPeople have different stances on this sort of stuff, some people are very traditional, some are much more open-minded, but at the end of the day you should give them the chance to decide,\u201d she stated. <\/p>\n<p>Chik hasn\u2019t divulged whether she met the man of her dreams in New York City, but believes her handy hacks are sure to help other singletons save time and be swept off their feet in the process.\n                        <\/p><\/div>\n<blockquote><p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">If you liked the article, do not forget to share it with your friends. 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