{"id":427389,"date":"2022-04-05T22:51:05","date_gmt":"2022-04-05T19:51:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/i-make-men-pass-tests-to-date-me-just-stop-the-bulls-t\/"},"modified":"2022-04-05T22:51:05","modified_gmt":"2022-04-05T19:51:05","slug":"i-make-men-pass-tests-to-date-me-just-stop-the-bulls-t","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/i-make-men-pass-tests-to-date-me-just-stop-the-bulls-t\/","title":{"rendered":"#I make men pass tests to date me: &#8216;Just stop the bulls&#8211;t&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a3c584fbc6c4\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a3c584fbc6c4\" checked aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-1'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/i-make-men-pass-tests-to-date-me-just-stop-the-bulls-t\/#%E2%80%9CI_make_men_pass_tests_to_date_me_%E2%80%98Just_stop_the_bulls%E2%80%93t%E2%80%9D\" >&#8220;I make men pass tests to date me: &#8216;Just stop the bulls&#8211;t&#8217;&#8221;<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h1>&#8220;I make men pass tests to date me: &#8216;Just stop the bulls&#8211;t'&#8221;<\/h1>\n<div>\n<aside class=\"single__inline-module alignleft\">\n<\/aside>\n<p>So far, no one\u2019s passed the test.<\/p>\n<p>Gabby, known on TikTok as <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@respectfullygabby\">@respectfullygabby<\/a>, has shared her strict dating rules for men online, which include paying for dinner and caring about her safety.<\/p>\n<p>In her viral clip, which has been viewed more than 150,000 times, she said if the guy isn\u2019t reaching for the check, it\u2019s a red flag.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cLet\u2019s just stop this conversation and the back and forth, 50\/50 bulls\u2013t. First date, he needs to be paying 100 percent,\u201d <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@respectfullygabby\/video\/7078740986356141354?feed_mode=v1&amp;is_copy_url=1&amp;is_from_webapp=v1&amp;refer=embed&amp;referer_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.ladbible.com%2F&amp;referer_video_id=7078740986356141354\">she said in the video<\/a>, with the \u201cSex and the City\u201d <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/download-scripts-themes-apps\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"9\" title=\"Download Scripts &amp; Themes &amp; Apps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">theme<\/a> song playing in the background. \u201cAnd if he\u2019s not \u2014 then, like, goodbye.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She even recalled a recent date in Miami, Florida, when she and a guy she happened to run into shared a few drinks at a bar. At the end of the night, their Ubers were going in separate directions, but instead of hopping in his car as soon as it arrived, he offered to wait with Gabby until hers did, too.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/04\/respectfullygabby.jpg?w=1024\" alt=\"A TikTok user detailed her &quot;tests&quot; that men have to pass to date her.\" class=\"wp-image-21786883\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/04\/respectfullygabby.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1535 1536w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/04\/respectfullygabby.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/04\/respectfullygabby.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all&amp;w=512 512w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><figcaption>A TikTok user detailed her \u201ctests\u201d that men have to pass to date her.<\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">TikTok<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>She did what anyone would do \u2014 politely declining as a nicety while secretly hoping he\u2019d stay anyway. But he didn\u2019t \u2014 and ditched her on the street alone at 4 a.m. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cIm<a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/social-mediaa\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"1\" title=\"Social Media\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">media<\/a>tely, no,\u201d she said, adding that men should double-check that women made it home safely. \u201cIf you don\u2019t care about my safety and making sure I get into my Uber safely, you\u2019re done.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She offered up a crash course on modern-day chivalry for her male viewers who may not know what women expect.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/04\/respectfullygabby-61.jpg?w=1024\" alt=\"Gabby\" class=\"wp-image-21786889\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/04\/respectfullygabby-61.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1536 1536w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/04\/respectfullygabby-61.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/04\/respectfullygabby-61.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all&amp;w=512 512w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><figcaption>Gabby, who has more than 18,000 followers on TikTok, has strict dating rules for the men in her life.<\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Instagram\/@respectfullygabby<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>\u201cThis man failed my protection test, so he never heard from me again,\u201d she said. \u201cMen, you need to be walking her to her car, to her Uber, to wherever to make sure she gets home safely.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Other tests of Gabby\u2019s involves her complaining that she\u2019s cold when the guy is wearing some sort of outerwear \u2014 just to see if he\u2019ll \u201cgive her the shirt off his back.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf you don\u2019t, you\u2019re dead to me,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/04\/respectfullygabby-60.jpg?w=1024\" alt=\"Gabby\" class=\"wp-image-21786884\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/04\/respectfullygabby-60.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1536 1536w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/04\/respectfullygabby-60.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/04\/respectfullygabby-60.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all&amp;w=512 512w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><figcaption>Viewers were divided on Gabby\u2019s dating test.<\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Instagram\/@respectfullygabby<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Some people in the comments were quick to applaud Gabby for her raw honesty and high expectations.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe girls that get it, GET IT,\u201d wrote one fan of her dating guidelines.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNormally I don\u2019t agree with tests because it\u2019s all about being sincere,\u201d commented another, \u201cbut this is just common sense stuff to look out for the lady your with.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>But others were quick to slam Gabby for her \u201ctests,\u201d offering that she should just \u201csay what she means\u201d instead of being cryptic.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cTest this test that. What are we in high school? Stop with the <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/game\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"7\" title=\"Game\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">game<\/a>s and communicate!! Way too grown for all this,\u201d said one angered guy.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNext time don\u2019t tell him its ok. I always let men wait,\u201d wrote another. \u201cDon\u2019t tell them no as a test.\u201d\n                        <\/p><\/div>\n<blockquote><p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">If you liked the article, do not forget to share it with your friends. 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