{"id":440217,"date":"2022-04-29T23:58:03","date_gmt":"2022-04-29T20:58:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/im-a-therapist-heres-the-number-one-red-flag-your-relationship-will-fail\/"},"modified":"2022-04-29T23:58:03","modified_gmt":"2022-04-29T20:58:03","slug":"im-a-therapist-heres-the-number-one-red-flag-your-relationship-will-fail","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/im-a-therapist-heres-the-number-one-red-flag-your-relationship-will-fail\/","title":{"rendered":"#I\u2019m a therapist \u2013 here\u2019s the number one red flag your relationship will fail"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a3843f4b4ea1\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a3843f4b4ea1\" checked aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-1'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/im-a-therapist-heres-the-number-one-red-flag-your-relationship-will-fail\/#%E2%80%9CIm_a_therapist_%E2%80%93_heres_the_number_one_red_flag_your_relationship_will_fail%E2%80%9D\" >&#8220;I\u2019m a therapist \u2013 here\u2019s the number one red flag your relationship will fail&#8221;<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h1><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"%E2%80%9CIm_a_therapist_%E2%80%93_heres_the_number_one_red_flag_your_relationship_will_fail%E2%80%9D\"><\/span>&#8220;I\u2019m a therapist \u2013 here\u2019s the number one red flag your relationship will fail&#8221;<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/04\/newspress-collage-22087280-1651264295214.jpg?quality=90&amp;strip=all&amp;1651250113\" \/><\/p>\n<div>\n<aside class=\"single__inline-module alignleft\">\n<\/aside>\n<p>If you\u2019ve ever wondered if you and your partner will be in it for the long haul, a therapist has revealed the sign that will give you the answer.<\/p>\n<p>And it has nothing to do with your chemistry in the bedroom or your family\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/download-scripts-themes-apps\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"9\" title=\"Download Scripts &amp; Themes &amp; Apps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">app<\/a>roval.<\/p>\n<p>A psychotherapist on\u00a0<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@your_pocket_therapist\/video\/7090604447264492806?_t=8RsCIPWF9CH&amp;_r=1\">TikTok<\/a>, who simply goes by Your Pocket Therapist, revealed that it\u2019s all on how they respond to your need for attention.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAn experiment showed that how couples respond to the other\u2019s bid for attention determines if they will stay together,\u201d she began. <\/p>\n<p>She explained that a bid is an attempt at connection.<\/p>\n<p>Examples of this include telling your partner \u201clook at that pretty tree!\u201d or sighing so they ask whether you\u2019re okay or not.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCouples who responded positively to bids were 80 percent more likely to stay together in a year than those who responded negatively or didn\u2019t respond,\u201d she continued.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis study proved humans think it\u2019s better to be single than be unseen.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Many people took to the comment section to reflect on their own relationships with many saying they\u2019ve noticed this in their partner.<\/p>\n<p>One woman wrote: \u201cBeen with my partner eight years, every time I say \u2018Look! Dog!\u2019 he im<a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/social-mediaa\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"1\" title=\"Social Media\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">media<\/a>tely looks, once resulting in walking into a pole.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-tiktok wp-block-embed-tiktok\"\/>\n<p>Another one commented: \u201cI think him and I are good, I held up a tiny rock and said \u2018look how cute!\u2019 and he said, \u2018awww so tiny!\u2019 Then he kept it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>But many others noticed that their former partners would never respond to their bids.<\/p>\n<p>One woman wrote: \u201cMine would never look up when I was speaking to him but when he would speak to me I would always respond.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI speak to my partner and he doesn\u2019t even know I\u2019ve spoken a lot of the time,\u201d a second commented.<\/p>\n<p>And a third added: \u201cMy ex said in a minute or looked at his phone.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><em>This article originally appeared on\u00a0<\/em><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.the-sun.com\/lifestyle\/5231290\/therapist-red-flag-relationship-fail-advice\/\"><em>The Sun<\/em><\/a><em>\u00a0and was reproduced here with permission.<\/em>\n                        <\/div>\n<blockquote><p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">If you liked the article, do not forget to share it with your friends. 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