{"id":449196,"date":"2022-05-19T01:42:52","date_gmt":"2022-05-18T22:42:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/mistakes-lead-to-the-best-things\/"},"modified":"2022-05-19T01:42:52","modified_gmt":"2022-05-18T22:42:52","slug":"mistakes-lead-to-the-best-things","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/mistakes-lead-to-the-best-things\/","title":{"rendered":"#\u2018Mistakes lead to the best things\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_84 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a26b8fe2ff5f\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" 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href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/mistakes-lead-to-the-best-things\/#%E2%80%9C%E2%80%98Mistakes_lead_to_the_best_things%E2%80%9D\" >&#8220;\u2018Mistakes lead to the best things\u2019&#8221;<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h1><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"%E2%80%9C%E2%80%98Mistakes_lead_to_the_best_things%E2%80%9D\"><\/span>&#8220;\u2018Mistakes lead to the best things\u2019&#8221;<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\n<div>\n<aside class=\"single__inline-module alignleft\">\n<\/aside>\n<p>Live, learn, love \u2026 and \u201cShake It Off.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Grammy winner <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/pagesix.com\/2022\/05\/18\/taylor-swifts-boyfriend-joe-alwyn-celebrates-her-honorary-doctorate\/?_ga=2.99491162.573621629.1652883147-1225907685.1647438568\">Taylor Swift <\/a>made New York University\u2019s 2022 commencement ceremony the hottest ticket in town on Wednesday when she rocked the podium at Yankee Stadium to address the graduating class.<\/p>\n<p>The 32-year-old singer-songwriter was the guest of honor wearing a <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/pagesix.com\/2022\/05\/18\/taylor-swift-wears-first-cap-and-gown-at-nyu-graduation\/?_ga=2.261585225.573621629.1652883147-1225907685.1647438568\">purple robe and black velvet <\/a>cap punctuated with her signature red lip, accepting an honorary fine arts doctorate and sharing 20 minutes of pop-star wisdom. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cLet me just say: Welcome to New York, it\u2019s been waiting for you,\u201d Swift kicked off the address with a smirk and lyrics from her 2014 hit, joking that the last time she was in a stadium \u201cthis size I was dancing in heels and wearing a glittery leotard.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m \u2026 90% sure the main reason I\u2019m here is because I have a song called \u201822,\u2019\u201d she quipped, lamenting on how she \u201cnever got the normal college experience, per se,\u201d though she did film her music video \u201cLove Story\u201d in a college dorm.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut I really can\u2019t complain \u2026 because you went to NYU during a global pandemic,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-default\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/05\/taylor-swift-nyu-03.jpg?w=1024\" alt=\"Grammy winning singer, songwriter Taylor Swift arrives at the NYU Graduation at Yankee Stadium, where she received an honorary doctorate of arts.\" class=\"wp-image-22322800\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/05\/taylor-swift-nyu-03.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1535 1536w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/05\/taylor-swift-nyu-03.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/05\/taylor-swift-nyu-03.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all&amp;w=512 512w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><figcaption>Grammy winning singer, songwriter Taylor Swift arrives at the NYU Graduation at Yankee Stadium, where she received  an honorary doctorate of arts. <\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Stephen Yang<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/05\/taylor-swift-nyu-05.jpg?w=1024\" alt=\"Swift's commencement speech was full of &quot;life hacks&quot; about love, navigating life and leaning in to cringe moments, encouraging grads to embrace their enthusiasm.\" class=\"wp-image-22322886\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/05\/taylor-swift-nyu-05.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1535 1536w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/05\/taylor-swift-nyu-05.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/05\/taylor-swift-nyu-05.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all&amp;w=512 512w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><figcaption>Swift\u2019s commencement speech was full of \u201clife hacks\u201d about love, navigating life and leaning into cringe moments, encouraging grads to embrace their enthusiasm and shake off mistakes. <\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Stephen Yang<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Then Swift gave some earnest advice about letting go of grudges, exes and any toxic relationship to make room for the new chapters while learning to \u201clive alongside cringe.\u201d (Jake Gyllenhaal might question how successfully Swift has done this in her own life.) <\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo matter how hard you try to avoid being cringe, you will look back on your life and cringe retrospectively. You can\u2019t avoid it so don\u2019t try to,\u201d she said, noting a phase in 2012 when she \u201cdressed like a 1950s housewife.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI was having fun,\u201d she said. \u201cLooking back and laughing is fun \u2026 I\u2019m a big advocate for not hiding your enthusiasm for things \u2026 You have to listen to me when I say this: Never be ashamed of trying,\u201d she advised. <\/p>\n<p>She preached the importance of making mistakes, because she remembers feeling like she couldn\u2019t make them as a teen.\u00a0<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/05\/taylor-swift-nyu-01.jpg?w=1024\" alt=\"Taylor Swift at Yankee Stadium\" class=\"wp-image-22323312\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/05\/taylor-swift-nyu-01.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1535 1536w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/05\/taylor-swift-nyu-01.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all 1024w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/05\/taylor-swift-nyu-01.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all&amp;w=512 512w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><figcaption>\u201cI was a teenager at a time when our society was absolutely obsessed with the idea of having perfect young female role models,\u201d Swift said.<\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">Stephen Yang<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>\u201cIt was all centered around the idea that mistakes equal failure and, ultimately, the loss of any chance at a h<a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/download-scripts-themes-apps\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"9\" title=\"Download Scripts &amp; Themes &amp; Apps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">app<\/a>y or rewarding life. This has not been my experience. My mistakes lead to the best things in my life. And being embarrassed when you mess up, it\u2019s part of the human experience,\u201d she said.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Swift went on to jab her critics, noting \u201cI was a teenager at a time when our society was absolutely obsessed with the idea of having perfect young female role models,\u201d and\u00a0 \u201chaving the world treat my love life like a spectator sport.\u201d She spoke about the time she was \u201ccanceled,\u201d and living life \u201cthrough a lens of perfectionism.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She concluded: \u201cI leave you with this: We are led by our gut instincts, our intuition, our desires and fears, our scars and our dreams. And you will screw it up sometimes. So will I. 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