{"id":460824,"date":"2022-06-10T22:37:36","date_gmt":"2022-06-10T19:37:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/im-a-waitress-and-heres-what-i-do-to-get-better-tips-from-customers\/"},"modified":"2022-06-10T22:37:36","modified_gmt":"2022-06-10T19:37:36","slug":"im-a-waitress-and-heres-what-i-do-to-get-better-tips-from-customers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/im-a-waitress-and-heres-what-i-do-to-get-better-tips-from-customers\/","title":{"rendered":"#I\u2019m a waitress and here\u2019s what I do to get better tips from customers"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_84 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a23e76fca6eb\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a23e76fca6eb\" checked aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-1'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/im-a-waitress-and-heres-what-i-do-to-get-better-tips-from-customers\/#%E2%80%9CIm_a_waitress_and_heres_what_I_do_to_get_better_tips_from_customers%E2%80%9D\" >&#8220;I\u2019m a waitress and here\u2019s what I do to get better tips from customers&#8221;<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h1><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"%E2%80%9CIm_a_waitress_and_heres_what_I_do_to_get_better_tips_from_customers%E2%80%9D\"><\/span>&#8220;I\u2019m a waitress and here\u2019s what I do to get better tips from customers&#8221;<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\n<div>\n<aside class=\"single__inline-module alignleft\">\n<\/aside>\n<p>This waitress is tipping the scales and shaking up the system to earn more money from customers.<\/p>\n<p>A server who goes by the name <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@tamela.anderson\">Tamela Anderson on TikTok<\/a> shared several clips about what it\u2019s like work in restaurants, and described how she\u2019s turned her customers\u2019 bad behavior into big tips.<\/p>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@tamela.anderson\/video\/7105775446414871854\">In one clip<\/a>, she recalled a man who attempted to get fresh with her at work.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf men were going to be making in<a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/download-scripts-themes-apps\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"9\" title=\"Download Scripts &amp; Themes &amp; Apps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">app<\/a>ropriate comments to me, I\u2019m just going to start making inappropriate comments back to them,\u201d she vowed.<\/p>\n<p>The TikTok user then recounted an experience with a man who asked her to pop a squat on his lap. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cI was working at a brewery and this guy that would come in sometimes came at the bar,\u201d she said. \u201cAnd he was pretty drunk and asked me to sit on his lap.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnd I looked at him and I was like, \u2018I\u2019ll come sit on your lap, if you give me that $100 bill that I know is in your wallet,\u2019\u2009\u201d she sternly quipped to the man.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"568\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/waitress-tips-talk-back-09.jpg?w=568\" alt=\"@tamela.anderson\" class=\"wp-image-22614129\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/waitress-tips-talk-back-09.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1136 1136w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/waitress-tips-talk-back-09.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all&amp;w=852 852w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/waitress-tips-talk-back-09.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all&amp;w=568 568w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/waitress-tips-talk-back-09.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all&amp;w=284 284w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/waitress-tips-talk-back-09.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 568px) 100vw, 568px\"\/><figcaption>The waitress isn\u2019t afraid to clap back at rude customers.<\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">@tamela.anderson<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"568\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/waitress-tips-talk-back-14.jpg?w=568\" alt=\"@tamela.anderson\" class=\"wp-image-22614141\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/waitress-tips-talk-back-14.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all&amp;w=1136 1136w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/waitress-tips-talk-back-14.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all&amp;w=852 852w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/waitress-tips-talk-back-14.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all&amp;w=568 568w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/waitress-tips-talk-back-14.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all&amp;w=284 284w, https:\/\/nypost.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/waitress-tips-talk-back-14.jpg?quality=75&amp;strip=all 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 568px) 100vw, 568px\"\/><figcaption>She told followers on TikTok that she \u201cstopped caring\u201d toward the end of her restaurant career \u2014 which actually resulted in better tips.<\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">@tamela.anderson<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>The man reportedly reached into his pocket to retrieve his wallet and hand the waitress the money. She went on, \u201cI took it and I was like, \u2018Thank you, I\u2019m not going to come sit on your lap though.\u2019 And I walked away. And I could hear him laughing about it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The gentleman continued to frequent the distillery, asking to have \u201conly\u201d the waitress come to his table.<\/p>\n<p>The server lamented <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@tamela.anderson\/video\/7107047982687604010\">in another TikTok<\/a> that one customer bashed her colored hair. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou know what else is crazy? Making a comment to your server who is just trying to do f\u2013king her job, that you\u2019ve never been a fan of women with her hair color,\u201d she groaned. \u201cOr making a comment about her appearance at all. That\u2019s what\u2019s f\u2013king crazy.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-tiktok wp-block-embed-tiktok\"\/>\n<p>She also pointed out, \u201cMe deciding to make an inappropriate comment to a man who thinks he has a right to just make comments like that to a server is not that crazy.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The aforementioned customer originally left her a measly $5 tip, but once she snapped back at him, he gave her a bigger one.<\/p>\n<p>The waitress clarified in a <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@tamela.anderson\/video\/7107028864886590766\">follow-up post<\/a> that her intention wasn\u2019t to shame him into leaving more money \u2014 only that she \u201cstopped caring\u201d about what others said to her.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI got to a point in my serving career, near the end, when I just stopped caring and started being a little bitchy back to all of my tables,\u201d she said. <\/p>\n<p>She then concluded, \u201cAnd what\u2019s funny is I actually started making more in tips. So if you\u2019re a server\/bartender and you\u2019re still new, and you\u2019re trying to push through the s\u2013ttiness by being overly nice, do not kill them with kindness.\u201d\n                        <\/p><\/div>\n<blockquote><p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">If you liked the article, do not forget to share it with your friends. 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