{"id":49090,"date":"2020-08-18T21:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-08-18T18:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/rascal-flatts-jay-demarcus-wife-allison-explain-why-demarcus-family-rules\/"},"modified":"2020-08-18T21:00:00","modified_gmt":"2020-08-18T18:00:00","slug":"rascal-flatts-jay-demarcus-wife-allison-explain-why-demarcus-family-rules","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/rascal-flatts-jay-demarcus-wife-allison-explain-why-demarcus-family-rules\/","title":{"rendered":"#Rascal Flatts’ Jay DeMarcus & Wife Allison Explain Why ‘DeMarcus Family Rules’"},"content":{"rendered":"

“#Rascal Flatts’ Jay DeMarcus & Wife Allison Explain Why ‘DeMarcus Family Rules’<\/strong>”<\/p>\n

\n Life is a highway, and in the case of Jay DeMarcus, we\u2019re along for the ride. The Rascal Flatts bassist is stepping out on the reality stage in <\/span>DeMarcus Family Rules. <\/span><\/i>Joining the country superstar in this Netflix unscript<\/a>ed series<\/a> is his wife Allison, a national TV personality and successful beauty queen still heavily involved in the pageant world.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Cameras follow the Nashville couple as they juggle careers and raise their two young children, Madeline and Dylan. Before the new show drops on the streamer, we chatted with Jay and Allison as the couple open up their lives like never before for the world to see.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re not completely new to reality TV thanks to those appearances on <\/b>Chrisley Knows Best<\/i><\/b>. Todd Chrisley serves as an executive producer for your show. How long has this project been in the works?\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

Jay DeMarcus: <\/b>It has probably been a little over three years. We were having a good time popping in on Todd and Julie\u2019s show. I love them, and they are some of our dearest friends.<\/span><\/p>\n

One night they took us to dinner and Todd said, \u201cI think there is a show there with you guys. If you would let me help you develop it and be a part of it, I think we can really make a great show the way you all are with each other. Your kids are so funny. I think it would bring something unique.\u201d He had to really talk us into it.<\/span><\/p>\n

This was a really big leap for us. I\u2019m glad we did it. I\u2019m glad we shot the sizzle reel and through that process we discovered we had fun together. It was really neat to do something as a whole family. Here we are three years later. It\u2019s incredible.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Early in the season, it\u2019s clear Madeline and Dylan are little stars in the making. How did you prepare them for this experience?\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

Allison DeMarcus:<\/strong> It was a concern for the both of us. I think taking a look at the way Todd and Julie raised their children. What great people they have become. That\u2019s a testament not to their show, but to their parents and the parents that they have.<\/span><\/p>\n

We really did not talk a lot about it with our children because they\u2019re younger and didn\u2019t act like it was that big of a deal. We just said, \u201cHey, some cameras are going to be here.\u201d They were like, \u201cOh, are we going to be on Mr. Todd\u2019s show?\u201d Dylan asks, \u201cNow was I in season three and four of <\/span>Chrisley Knows Best<\/span><\/i>?\u201d He is calculating it and wondering when his next appearance is going to be.<\/span><\/p>\n

They had a lot of fun with it. Our son Dylan. He just completed first grade. He is about to start second grade this week. He is his father\u2019s child.\u00a0 He does not lack in personality and loves the camera.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Jay: <\/b>Thank God he looks like me too.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

How have the kids reacted knowing they have their own show?\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

Allison: <\/b>They\u2019re all about it. They\u2019re really excited. We really didn\u2019t talk to them until right before we\u2019re going to put the trailer out. The last thing we wanted to do was disrupt their lives and take them out of what their focus should be, which is on school and friends and basketball and all the things they love to do. They think it\u2019s normal I guess because we\u2019ve been around the Chrisley family.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Jay: <\/b>Everybody gets a show.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Allison: <\/b>You get a show! You get a show! I don\u2019t think they know any different because their friends Grayson and Chloe grew up on TV. They\u2019ve watched every season and every show. They\u2019re huge fans. I guess ignorance is bliss.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Was it difficult getting used to the cameras being around all the time?\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

Jay: <\/b>You know how we refer to timelines as B.C. and A.D.? I feel now we have to refer to it as pre-COVID and post-COVID. The show was shot pre-COVID in October, November and December of last year. One of the first things I remember is it took us a couple of weeks to provide our rhythm and ignore the cameras. If you can\u2019t ignore the cameras, you can\u2019t react and be yourself the way you naturally would be in any given situation. I think once we found our stride and started to ignore the cameras, we started getting some really great real-life moments there.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

What do you think you\u2019ve learned about each other, looking back?\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

Jay:<\/b> I think I\u2019ve learned I\u2019m as funny as I thought I was. It was great to see.<\/span><\/p>\n

Allison<\/b>: [Laughs] I think Jay and I learned we could live together. We typically don\u2019t live together full-time because he is usually on the road on tour. This was a time where we had to work together for the first time and live together and coexist and figure it all out along with our family.<\/span><\/p>\n

There is usually such a chaotic schedule, especially before the quarantine and COVID took over everyone\u2019s lives. Everyone was busy and running in a million different directions. We were trying to steal moments to make sure we had family time. And having to focus on that has been really fun. Now that we\u2019ve lived through quarantine we\u2019d love to be really busy again.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Has there been filming going on now, given the unprecedented time we are in right now, in the event here is Season 2?\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

Jay: <\/b>You know we haven\u2019t started yet. We\u2019ve been trying to get this first season off the ground and make sure everyone is engaged enough to warrant a second season. We\u2019ve got our fingers crossed.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Pre-COVID Rascal Flatts was getting ready to hit the road on a farewell tour. Has these last few months impacted your decision-making moving forward as a band?\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

Jay: <\/b>I think it has impacted everyone\u2019s plans. Not just mine. Everyone in our family and our band. Everything has turned upside down. The last few months have been interesting. We\u2019ve really missed playing music and being on stage. The old saying is so true that you don\u2019t know what you\u2019ve got until you don\u2019t have it anymore. It\u2019s something I know all three of us miss. All three of us will take a look at how, when and if we can go back out because this is certainly not how we wanted things to end.<\/span><\/p>\n

We just don\u2019t know. There are so many variables left unanswered. It\u2019s hard to pinpoint when and if something like that will happen, but we have been making music during this lockdown. We put out this EP out \u201cHow They Remember You.\u201d It has been fun to at least make music on some level like that.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Have you gotten advice from Todd and Julie about navigating through these new reality TV waters?\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

Allison:<\/b> Anyone can only hope to have the success of the Chrisleys. They are incredible at what they do and have shared.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Netflix<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

I picture a potential future special between the two families kind of like when the Jetsons meet the Flintstones. Possibilities are endless here.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

Allison: <\/b>They are incredible. We truly are friends with them. They are great people and are as true and wonderful as they appear to be on television. People always ask us what Todd is really like. He is exactly like he is on TV. Nanny [Faye] is just that funny. I bet they probably bleep out some of the funniest things she says because they\u2019re probably so inappropriate.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

There is no bleeping needed on Netflix. Though this is a family show, you do have a little more freedom on streaming.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

Jay:<\/b> I think given my background as an entertainer and in Rascal Flatts and the success we have, that sets it apart from the other shows out there. I don\u2019t think there have been many shows in the past that give quite a look at family life that has been an entertainer and artist such as this. I think we are unique in that sense.<\/span><\/p>\n

We\u2019re also not tied to a certain amount of time where we have to worry about commercial breaks. Some of the episodes are longer than others. That\u2019s another thing that sets it apart.<\/span><\/p>\n

We\u2019re also not fueled by drama. We set out to make a wholesome family show that the family can sit down and watch together. I\u2019m proud because I think we\u2019ve achieved that goal. At the end of the day, I think there are a whole lot of funny things that happen in our show. But there is a lot of heart in it as well.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Jay: <\/b>Todd has given us some great advice. You have to block the negativity out. Someone will always be chirping on social media<\/a> or otherwise. You find out who your real friends are, so you\u2019ve really got to turn inward to each other as a family and lean on each other. I think it\u2019s really sound advice from the outside looking in at how he and his family have handled everything. You would be hard-pressed to find somebody who has done it with more grace than he has.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n