{"id":56630,"date":"2020-08-30T01:30:00","date_gmt":"2020-08-29T22:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/i-found-out-my-ex-cheated-on-me-from-his-wedding-announcement\/"},"modified":"2020-08-30T01:30:00","modified_gmt":"2020-08-29T22:30:00","slug":"i-found-out-my-ex-cheated-on-me-from-his-wedding-announcement","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/i-found-out-my-ex-cheated-on-me-from-his-wedding-announcement\/","title":{"rendered":"#I found out my ex cheated on me \u2014 from his wedding announcement"},"content":{"rendered":"

“#I found out my ex cheated on me \u2014 from his wedding announcement<\/strong>”<\/p>\n

\n On Aug. 9, The New York Times published a \u201cVows\u201d feature on the courtship and wedding of locals named Robert and Lauren. It read like a perfect love story. But not to Nikyta Moreno, 30, Robert\u2019s ex-wife, who learned through it why her own marriage had unraveled. Here, she tells The Post\u2019s KIRSTEN FLEMING her story.<\/em><\/p>\n

Three weeks ago, a friend called me and said, \u201cNikyta, an article has come out about Rob. Don\u2019t read it. You will only get upset.\u201d As I received more disgusted texts from family and friends, I asked a friend to summarize it because I couldn\u2019t bring myself to click on the link.<\/p>\n

It was a New York Times wedding announcement detailing the love story of a fitness entrepreneur and his new wife. According to the article, the couple, Rob and Lauren, started their relationship in January 2017. It also said that he had never been married.<\/p>\n

That was news<\/a> to me \u2014 because I was his wife in January 2017. We split in late March of that year, officially divorcing in January 2018, and I never exactly understood why. Until I read about it in the Times.<\/p>\n

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Nikyta\u2019s ex-husband, Robert (left), with new wife Lauren.<\/span>Getty Images<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

My friends contacted the paper, which issued a correction on Rob\u2019s previous marital status. But I still felt completely erased. He was publicly admitting that he dated this woman while we were married \u2014 the details of his infidelity laid out on the page. When I put their presentation next to the truth, it was like one of those \u00adreality-versus-Instagram memes come to life.<\/p>\n

Rob and I met in the summer of 2013 when we locked eyes through the window of the Crunch gym near Astor Place and he beckoned me inside. We were friends first, but by that winter we were dating and living together on the Upper West Side.<\/p>\n

He was an old-fashioned gentlemen. If I finished work late, he\u2019d come meet me. I\u2019m a professional dancer, and he came to every performance. He\u2019d make me breakfast in bed.<\/p>\n

On Dec. 23, 2015, we married in a civil ceremony. But we also planned a big wedding for Aug. 12, 2017, in his hometown of Dallas. We put a deposit down on the venue, I bought my wedding gown, and my family booked flights from Trinidad and my native London. In December 2016, my mother, aunt and cousin flew from England to Dallas to meet his mother and look at the venue. On that trip<\/a>, we chose our menu.<\/p>\n

Three months later, things abruptly changed. We went to Texas for his friend\u2019s wedding and to finalize our own wedding details. I could sense something was wrong. When we returned he said he needed space. Worried that he was stressed about wedding planning or work, I said I would leave for a week to stay with a friend.<\/p>\n

When I came back, he said he wanted a divorce. It was like a light switch turned off. He stopped communicating with me and refused to go to therapy. I wondered if he had a medical \u00adissue that had changed his personality.<\/p>\n

\"Nikyta<\/img>
Nikyta Moreno in Central Park.<\/span>Tamara Beckwith<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

In addition to the emotional hurt, I had shelled out a lot of money for the wedding, as had my family. My mother asked him why he didn\u2019t call it off earlier. Why did he allow everyone to fly to Texas for Christmas and continue planning? He told her that, at the time, he didn\u2019t know he felt the way he did. Now, thanks to his wedding announcement, I understand what changed in that small window. He had met another woman.<\/p>\n

Even his family, whom I was close to, was gobsmacked about our breakup. He was my best friend, and my whole life was destroyed. But I knew something else was wrong. I suspected he had cheated on me, but when I confronted him about it, he never quite answered me.<\/p>\n

That same month, I found out I was pregnant. He told me that he didn\u2019t want the baby. In May, I miscarried \u2014 I believe it was because of the stress. I called from the hospital but he didn\u2019t come. Nothing can compare to that hurt.<\/p>\n

After we broke up and sorted out our paperwork, we really didn\u2019t speak again.<\/p>\n

I went to a lot of therapy and worked hard to heal. But when the story came out, it opened old wounds. Some of his family members even apologized to me.<\/p>\n

If Rob and his new wife are meant to be together, I want them to be happ<\/a>y. I simply wish he had told me the truth. As for me, I have found love again. He\u2019s a wonderful person who ticks all the boxes. I believe everyone deserves a love story \u2014 one built on the truth. It is possible to find happiness after the pain.<\/p>\n

(Robert told The Post: \u201cNikyta and I were separated and both consented to a mutual and amicable divorce. This is all very surprising to me and I was unaware that there was ever an issue. I\u2019m happy with my family and I wish Nikyta the best.\u201d)<\/em>\n <\/div>\n

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