{"id":653152,"date":"2025-02-12T01:20:18","date_gmt":"2025-02-11T22:20:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/4-love-themed-playlists-for-haters-strippers-amp-friends\/"},"modified":"2025-02-12T01:20:18","modified_gmt":"2025-02-11T22:20:18","slug":"4-love-themed-playlists-for-haters-strippers-amp-friends","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/4-love-themed-playlists-for-haters-strippers-amp-friends\/","title":{"rendered":"#4 love-themed playlists for haters, strippers &amp;amp; friends"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a40964a62ff2\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a40964a62ff2\" checked aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-5'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/4-love-themed-playlists-for-haters-strippers-amp-friends\/#Cady_Siregars_Valentines_Day_playlist_for_non-believers\" >Cady Siregar&#8217;s Valentine&#8217;s Day playlist for non-believers<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-5'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/4-love-themed-playlists-for-haters-strippers-amp-friends\/#Steffanee_Wangs_love_songs_for_friends\" >Steffanee Wang&#8217;s love songs for friends<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-5'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/4-love-themed-playlists-for-haters-strippers-amp-friends\/#Jordan_Darvilles_stripper_anthems_from_the_blog_era\" >Jordan Darville&#8217;s stripper anthems from the blog era<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-5'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/4-love-themed-playlists-for-haters-strippers-amp-friends\/#Raphael_Helfands_litmus_test_for_life_partners\" >Raphael Helfand&#8217;s litmus test for life partners<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<div class=\"content_blocks\">\n<style>\n #content_block-267841 {\n   background: ;\n   padding-bottom: 40px;\n }<\/p>\n<\/style>\n<style>\n<p> #content_block-267841 {\n   background: ;\n   margin-bottom: 60px;\n }<\/p>\n<p> article.custom .custom-title, article.custom .custom-<a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/social-mediaa\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"1\" title=\"Social Media\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">media<\/a> .caption {\n   color: ;\n }<\/p>\n<p> article.custom .custom-attribution, article.custom .custom-attribution a {\n   color: ;\n }<\/p>\n<\/style>\n<div id=\"content_block-267841\" class=\"content_block flush title center_align\">\n<div class=\"content_inner_wrapper\">\n<div class=\"custom-title\">\n      4 love-<a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/download-scripts-themes-apps\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"9\" title=\"Download Scripts &amp; 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friends\"><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"img_caption\"><\/p>\n<p>  <span class=\"credit\"><\/p>\n<p>      design by Sabrina Kaune<\/p>\n<p>  <\/span><\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"custom_share_buttons_top \" style=\"\">\n<div id=\"new_socials_bottom\" class=\"new_socials_footer  \">\n<p>      <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"\" width=\"40\" height=\"40\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thefader.com\/assets\/FDR_SocialSharing_Facebook-747312c39722d47504a80f02500b8d4ad2e36acf922bad1c83799db1bc77f605.png\"><br \/>\n      <!-- <span>Share<\/span> --><\/p>\n<p>  <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" target='\"new\"' href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.thefader.com%2F2025%2F02%2F11%2Fvalentines-day-playlist-friendship-anti-love-blog-era-stripper-anthem%3Futm_source%3Df%26utm_medium%3Dtw%26utm_campaign%3Dshare&amp;text=4%20love-themed%20playlists%20for%20haters,%20strippers%20&amp;amp;%20friends&amp;via=thefader\" class=\"new_social_footer_button twitter new_social_share_button\" data-ga-event-category=\"Social Share\" data-ga-event-label=\"Twitter\" data-ga-on=\"click\" data-ga-event-action=\"cilck\"><\/p>\n<p>    <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"\" width=\"40\" height=\"40\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thefader.com\/assets\/FDR_SocialSharing_Twitter-8d78f695280aa3f8a4461702c68e9fcbfd6042af1600c62d49fdec4b735fb57a.png\"><br \/>\n    <!-- <span>Tweet<\/span> --><br \/>\n  <\/a><\/p>\n<p>        <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"\" width=\"20\" height=\"20\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thefader.com\/assets\/logo-snapchat-5f1563935ac089d0cf1773f642ddbfb6cdb16e8c4ac14fec95a3c11b6f963389.svg\"><br \/>\n        <!-- <span>Snap<\/span> --><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<style>\n<\/style>\n<div id=\"content_block-267837\" class=\"content_block paragraph text triple_gutter_right triple_gutter_left center_align\">\n<div class=\"content_inner_wrapper\">\n<div class=\"paragraph_wrapper center_align\">\n<p>\n            <i>Welcome to Love Week, a week-long, mini package of features dedicated to all things romantic in music and culture. We&#8217;ve curated playlists of our favorite love (and anti-love) songs, dug deep into legendary sex anthems, and created instructionals on how to write a proper love letter. Whether you&#8217;re coupled up or single, let us help you get into the mood.<\/i>\n          <\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<style>\n<\/style>\n<div id=\"content_block-267905\" class=\"content_block paragraph text triple_gutter_right triple_gutter_left center_align\">\n<div class=\"content_inner_wrapper\">\n<div class=\"paragraph_wrapper center_align\">\n<div class=\"\" style=\"padding-bottom: 20px; margin-top: 20px; text-align: left;\">\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<style>\n<\/style>\n<div id=\"content_block-267843\" class=\"content_block paragraph text triple_gutter_right triple_gutter_left center_align\">\n<div class=\"content_inner_wrapper\">\n<div class=\"paragraph_wrapper center_align\">\n<p>\n            Playlists about romantic love are a dime a dozen so for Love Week, The FADER staff got together to figure out what else about love hasn&#8217;t yet been covered (or if they have, not yet stamped with our taste). Ahead, you&#8217;ll find the results of our brainstorming: songs for Valentine&#8217;s Day non-believers, a litmus test for your potential life partner, odes to friendship, the second powerful force of intimacy, and the playlist we&#8217;d play if we were running a strip club.\n          <\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<style>\n<\/style>\n<div id=\"content_block-267846\" class=\"content_block paragraph embed triple_gutter_right triple_gutter_left center_align\">\n<div class=\"content_inner_wrapper\">\n<h5 class=\"headline\" style=\"margin-bottom: 30px;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Cady_Siregars_Valentines_Day_playlist_for_non-believers\"><\/span>\n        Cady Siregar&#8217;s Valentine&#8217;s Day playlist for non-believers<br \/>\n      <span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h5>\n<div class=\"media_wrapper\">\n<div class=\"\">\n    <iframe allow=\"autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" height=\"450\" style=\"width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;border-radius:10px;\" sandbox=\"allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation\" src=\"https:\/\/embed.music.apple.com\/us\/playlist\/cady-siregars-valentines-day-playlist-for-non-believers\/pl.834e876aa8234a199b1271e399e86f14\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<style>\n<\/style>\n<div id=\"content_block-267867\" class=\"content_block paragraph embed triple_gutter_right triple_gutter_left center_align\">\n<div class=\"content_inner_wrapper\">\n<div class=\"media_wrapper\">\n<div class=\"\">\n    <iframe style=\"border-radius:12px\" src=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/embed\/playlist\/4dkGWhPxt7x0Ur3GyqZDcf?utm_source=generator\" width=\"100%\" height=\"352\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; fullscreen; picture-in-picture\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"paragraph_wrapper\" style=\"margin-top: 20px;\">\n<p>&#8220;Look, Valentine\u2019s Day is overrated and not real. Research shows there&#8217;s a sizable percentage of people actually breaking up on or around Valentine\u2019s Day. I myself broke up with a partner of two years on Valentine\u2019s Day 2022 because it was against the heightened backdrop of an admittedly fake holiday \u201ccelebrating\u201d romance that his inability to be an empathetic, caring partner was made glaringly obvious to me. And it\u2019s inevitable that the pressures of the day will lead to disappointment. My suggestion for an alternative Valentine\u2019s Day: Make yourself a solo steak dinner, buy a bottle of wine, and watch <i>Secretary<\/i> starring James Spader and Maggie Gyllenhaal. While you\u2019re cooking, listen to a selection of cuts that cast an eye roll and a yawn over the very idea of a day that forces pink and red hearts down your throat: the sad-happy of Carly Rae Jepsen, the sensitive earnestness of The Sundays, the violent melancholy of The Smiths. Whether you want to send a telepathic middle finger to an ex or wallow in your sadness, there\u2019s a song for every anti-Valentine\u2019s day advocate.&#8221; \u2014<i>CS<\/i><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<style>\n<\/style>\n<div id=\"content_block-267906\" class=\"content_block paragraph text triple_gutter_right triple_gutter_left center_align\">\n<div class=\"content_inner_wrapper\">\n<div class=\"paragraph_wrapper center_align\">\n<div class=\"\" style=\"padding-bottom: 20px; margin-top: 20px; text-align: left;\">\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<style>\n<\/style>\n<div id=\"content_block-267842\" class=\"content_block paragraph embed triple_gutter_right triple_gutter_left center_align\">\n<div class=\"content_inner_wrapper\">\n<h5 class=\"headline\" style=\"margin-bottom: 30px;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Steffanee_Wangs_love_songs_for_friends\"><\/span>\n        Steffanee Wang&#8217;s love songs for friends<br \/>\n      <span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h5>\n<div class=\"media_wrapper\">\n<div class=\"\">\n    <iframe allow=\"autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" height=\"450\" style=\"width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;border-radius:10px;\" sandbox=\"allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation\" src=\"https:\/\/embed.music.apple.com\/us\/playlist\/steffanee-wangs-love-songs-for-friends\/pl.8aa58291a8054bf3a414b4d97ddcbf76\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<style>\n<\/style>\n<div id=\"content_block-267900\" class=\"content_block paragraph text triple_gutter_right triple_gutter_left center_align\">\n<div class=\"content_inner_wrapper\">\n<div class=\"paragraph_wrapper center_align\">\n<p>\n            <iframe style=\"border-radius:12px\" src=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/embed\/playlist\/0ukCnet3qdNJHQW1lwQzSj?utm_source=generator\" width=\"100%\" height=\"352\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; fullscreen; picture-in-picture\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/iframe>\n          <\/p>\n<p>\n            &#8220;In 2020, <i><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" target=\"_new\" href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/family\/archive\/2020\/10\/people-who-prioritize-friendship-over-romance\/616779\/\">The Atlantic<\/a><\/i> published a story that wondered \u201cwhat if friendship, not marriage, was at the center of life?\u201d Interviewing people who\u2019ve chosen to spend their lives with friends, it posited that a platonic connection, rather than romantic, could offer a similar kind of fulfilling intimacy \u2014 one that\u2019s built on a love that\u2019s exclusive of whatever we\u2019ve come to associate with the bedroom. I can\u2019t say I\u2019ve rearranged my life to become one of these people, but the story did profoundly change my perspective on the actual value of friendship. As I get older, it\u2019s time with my friends, I realize, that nourishes the parts of me that my (still very fulfilling) romantic relationship just can\u2019t quite reach: group dinners, cry sessions, quiet evenings in just watching a movie. In many ways, the way a friend sees you feels all the more precious and disarming \u2014 and these songs, from Lucy Dacus, Samia, serpentwithfeet, Dijon, and more \u2014 replicate that feeling for me.&#8221; \u2014<i>SW<\/i>\n          <\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<style>\n<\/style>\n<div id=\"content_block-267875\" class=\"content_block paragraph embed triple_gutter_right triple_gutter_left center_align\">\n<div class=\"content_inner_wrapper\">\n<h5 class=\"headline\" style=\"margin-bottom: 30px;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Jordan_Darvilles_stripper_anthems_from_the_blog_era\"><\/span>\n        Jordan Darville&#8217;s stripper anthems from the blog era<br \/>\n      <span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h5>\n<div class=\"media_wrapper\">\n<div class=\"\">\n    <iframe allow=\"autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" height=\"450\" style=\"width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;border-radius:10px;\" sandbox=\"allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation\" src=\"https:\/\/embed.music.apple.com\/us\/playlist\/jordan-darvilles-stripper-anthems-from-the-blog-era\/pl.1c90f5ed51524d7b8cebba197f276ec2\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<style>\n<\/style>\n<div id=\"content_block-267879\" class=\"content_block paragraph text triple_gutter_right triple_gutter_left center_align\">\n<div class=\"content_inner_wrapper\">\n<div class=\"paragraph_wrapper center_align\">\n<p>\n            <iframe style=\"border-radius:12px\" src=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/embed\/playlist\/2KARnCLNtVesc6C9wjBLmy?utm_source=generator\" width=\"100%\" height=\"352\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; fullscreen; picture-in-picture\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/iframe>\n          <\/p>\n<p>\n            &#8220;Far too many strip clubs are filled with the same sounds \u2014 thudding frat EDM, orgiastic electro-pop, and every popular variant of Atlanta trap. You can\u2019t blame dancers and DJs from sticking with what works, but there\u2019s a near-decade of sexy music being overlooked: the blog era. Songs released from (roughly) 2006-2016 are getting a cultural reappraisal, and hopefully they\u2019re already on their way to pole-dancing class playlists and VIP rooms around the country. But if they\u2019re not, here\u2019s a couple dozen tracks to get things (literally) in motion.&#8221; \u2014<i>JD<\/i>\n          <\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<style>\n<\/style>\n<div id=\"content_block-267907\" class=\"content_block paragraph text triple_gutter_right triple_gutter_left center_align\">\n<div class=\"content_inner_wrapper\">\n<div class=\"paragraph_wrapper center_align\">\n<div class=\"\" style=\"padding-bottom: 20px; margin-top: 20px; text-align: left;\">\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<style>\n<\/style>\n<div id=\"content_block-267877\" class=\"content_block paragraph embed triple_gutter_right triple_gutter_left center_align\">\n<div class=\"content_inner_wrapper\">\n<h5 class=\"headline\" style=\"margin-bottom: 30px;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Raphael_Helfands_litmus_test_for_life_partners\"><\/span>\n        Raphael Helfand&#8217;s litmus test for life partners<br \/>\n      <span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h5>\n<div class=\"media_wrapper\">\n<div class=\"\">\n    <iframe allow=\"autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" height=\"450\" style=\"width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;border-radius:10px;\" sandbox=\"allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation\" src=\"https:\/\/embed.music.apple.com\/us\/playlist\/raphael-helfands-litmus-test-for-life-partners\/pl.d03e164c6d574da3af20c15a707e1f5a\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<style>\n<\/style>\n<div id=\"content_block-267845\" class=\"content_block paragraph embed triple_gutter_right triple_gutter_left center_align\">\n<div class=\"content_inner_wrapper\">\n<div class=\"media_wrapper\">\n<div class=\"\">\n    <iframe style=\"border-radius:12px\" src=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/embed\/playlist\/541QQbhZLuXEKIFauWE1FI?utm_source=generator\" width=\"100%\" height=\"352\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; fullscreen; picture-in-picture\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"paragraph_wrapper\" style=\"margin-top: 20px;\">\n<p>&#8220;If you\u2019re like me, you\u2019re looking for a life partner who will sit through hours of punishing music with you. Here are 10 songs, all harrowing in their own ways: the shattering harsh noise from John Wiese, Wolf Eyez, Merzbow, Aaron Dilloway, and Pharmakon; walls of drone from Sunn O))); deeply unsettled art-rap from Fatboi Sharif and Roper Williams; a self-hate anthem from Uniform; 20 minutes of fart jokes and medieval ramblings from Scott Walker; and a horrifyingly bleak holy blues cover from Reverend Kristin Michale Hayter. <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Hit play on a first date at a chic cocktail bar, ignoring the inevitable complaints from tasteless customers and waitstaff. Watch your potential spouse\u2019s face carefully. If they wince, give them a moment to recover, and then look for the telltale nod that means they\u2019re locking in. If they continue to show discomfort, press pause, pay the check, and politely take your leave. If they seem to be enjoying themselves excessively, they\u2019re either lying or an actual psychopath (in which case, leave immediately and without paying). It won\u2019t be easy, but getting through the whole 110-minute affair together will be unimpeachable evidence of a love connection \u2014 or, at the very least, a trauma bond. Even if things don\u2019t ultimately work out, you\u2019ve only wasted the run time of a medium-length feature film, which is really not so bad, all things considered.&#8221; \u2014<i>RH<\/i><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<div class=\"author\">\n    <span><br \/>\n      By <span class=\"credit_name\">The FADER<\/span><br \/>\n  <\/span><\/div>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">If you liked the article, do not forget to share it with your friends. 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