{"id":79946,"date":"2020-10-02T01:48:42","date_gmt":"2020-10-01T22:48:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/womans-screenshots-expose-mans-awful-messages-get-him-fired\/"},"modified":"2020-10-02T01:48:42","modified_gmt":"2020-10-01T22:48:42","slug":"womans-screenshots-expose-mans-awful-messages-get-him-fired","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/womans-screenshots-expose-mans-awful-messages-get-him-fired\/","title":{"rendered":"#Woman\u2019s screenshots expose man\u2019s awful messages, get him fired"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_84 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a291be134474\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a291be134474\" checked aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/womans-screenshots-expose-mans-awful-messages-get-him-fired\/#He_said_he_%E2%80%98struggles_with_rejection\" >He said he &#8216;struggles with rejection.&#8217;<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/womans-screenshots-expose-mans-awful-messages-get-him-fired\/#Must-reads_on_the_Daily_Dot\" >Must-reads on the Daily Dot<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>&#8220;<strong>#Woman\u2019s screenshots expose man\u2019s awful messages, get him fired<br \/>\n<\/strong>&#8221;<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"article-sub-head\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"He_said_he_%E2%80%98struggles_with_rejection\"><\/span>He said he &#8216;struggles with rejection.&#8217;<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><\/p>\n<div class=\"article-content-wrapper\">\n<p>An Australian man was fired from his information <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/technology\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"4\" title=\"Technology\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">technology<\/a> job after viral screenshots of Tinder conversations showed him harassing and threatening women, <a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/article-8787487\/Brewery-manager-hit-horrific-abuse-exposing-Tinder-creep.html\">Daily Mail<\/a> reports.<\/p>\n<p>Ebonie Sanderson posted screenshots of her conversation with Thomas McGuirk on her Instagram. After Sanderson declined to go to McGuirk\u2019s house for a date, McGuirk called Sanderson an \u201cugly, fat, time wasting whore.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-instagram wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-instagram\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CFi_33zHQMt\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"12\" style=\" background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:640px; min-width:326px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);\">\n<div style=\"padding:16px;\"> <a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CFi_33zHQMt\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" background:#FFFFFF; line-height:0; padding:0 0; text-align:center; 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border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg)\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: auto;\">\n<div style=\" width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\" width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/a> <\/p>\n<p style=\" margin:8px 0 0 0; padding:0 4px;\"> <a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CFi_33zHQMt\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#000; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px; text-decoration:none; word-wrap:break-word;\">\u26a0\ufe0f WARNING: CYBER BULLYING, HARASSMENT, SEXISM, FATPHOBIA AND MISOGYNISTIC BEHAVIOUR ALERT!!! ***UPDATE UPDATE UPDATE 1. An email from Tom\u2019s CEO has been received confirming that he has been fired, effective immediately. The CEO did the right thing and acted quickly, so I kindly ask you to stop emailing them. ***2. WARNING there are now well over 20 women that have come forward and shared their similar experience\/encounters of abuse and harassment from Tom. My dm\u2019s are a safe place if this is also you. This is what happens when you say NO or call out a man for being disrespectful!!! You apparently earn yourself the right to get verbally abused and fat shamed on more than one platform. No I didn\u2019t \u201cask for it\u201d and yes, I\u2019m entitled to change my mind and tell someone I\u2019m not interested anymore because I feel uncomfortable and intimidated by ones aggressive and forceful nature. The worst part about this attack, is the fact that I felt the need to be nice when turning him down, telling him he\u2019s good looking and will find someone else for the night and then apologising for feeling uncomfortable!!!! THAT IS A BIG PROBLEM If anyone comes across this man on dating apps or social media, please report him. I managed to video call and he answered and appeared to in fact be this very man in the picture\u2026 \u201cTom\u201d. All I can say is what a privileged misogynistic PIG. I will never change my weight for anyone else but MYSELF!!!<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\">A post shared by <a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/eboniesand\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px;\"> Ebs<\/a> (@eboniesand) on <time style=\" font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; line-height:17px;\" datetime=\"2020-09-25T04:54:45+00:00\">Sep 24, 2020 at 9:54pm PDT<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m entitled to change my mind and tell someone I\u2019m not interested anymore because I feel uncomfortable and intimidated by one\u2019s aggressive and forceful nature,\u201d Sanderson wrote in her caption. \u201cThe worst part about this attack, is the fact that I felt the need to be nice when turning him down, telling him he\u2019s good looking and will find someone else for the night and then apologizing for feeling uncomfortable!!!!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>After Sanderson\u2019s post gained attention on <a href=\"https:\/\/buradabiliyorum.com\/en\/category\/social-mediaa\/\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"1\" title=\"Social Media\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">social media<\/a>, troll accounts started sending her threatening messages. But Sanderson isn\u2019t the only woman McGuirk harassed. Another woman, Erin Hinds, came forward about her interactions with McGuirk and also received anonymous, hateful messages online.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-instagram wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-instagram\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CFqEKmGAZOm\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"12\" style=\" background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:640px; min-width:326px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);\">\n<div style=\"padding:16px;\"> <a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CFqEKmGAZOm\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" background:#FFFFFF; line-height:0; padding:0 0; text-align:center; text-decoration:none; 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EDIT: Here is the link to the article by daily mail https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/article-8776897\/Tinder-creep-called-woman-fat-pig-rejected-outed-abusing-manager.html So most of you have probably seen the daily mail post. I met this guy on tinder A month ago. And when I said we don&#8217;t have chemistry, this is what happened. 2020, and men like this still are around and get to walk free. This is disgusting and horrendous behaviour.  I feel absolutely horrific and violated I ever did anything. He was nice, until told no. Since I posted about this I&#8217;ve had 3 girls come forward and tell me they had similar. In London, as well as Sydney. So he has been everywhere. How has tinder not stopped Tom yet!? It&#8217;s time to put an end to this misogynistic bullshit. #feminist #assult #tindercreep #disgusting #tommcguirk #tom<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\">A post shared by <a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/erinjayh\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px;\"> Erin Hinds<\/a> (@erinjayh) on <time style=\" font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; line-height:17px;\" datetime=\"2020-09-27T22:46:56+00:00\">Sep 27, 2020 at 3:46pm PDT<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p>Hinds told Daily Mail that her story was extremely similar to Sanderson\u2019s. Hinds said she spent a night with McGuirk, but when she told him she wasn\u2019t interested in taking things any further, \u201che flipped the switch\u201d and started sending angry messages.<\/p>\n<p>Though the online abuse is hurtful and scary, Hinds said having strangers stick up for her was \u201camazing.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>According to an update from Sanderson on her Instagram account, over 20 women have come forward with a similar story about McGuirk. Eight women have spoken to the Daily Mail about their interactions with McGuirk, which all took place on the Australian East Coast.<\/p>\n<p>McGuirk also made racist comments to some of the women. Beauty vlogger Jess Turunen told <a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/article-8793137\/Tinder-creep-Thomas-McGuirk-breaks-silence-grovelling-apology.html\">Daily Mail<\/a> that McGuirk called her \u201cwhite trash\u201d for having an ex-boyfriend who was Black. After Turunen told McGuirk she was no longer interested in him, he harassed her on Tinder and Instagram.<\/p>\n<p>McGuirk was fired from his job at Invenco and has since spoken publicly about his behavior. McGuirk <a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.news.com.au\/lifestyle\/real-life\/news-life\/sydney-man-thomas-mcguirk-speaks-out-deeply-sorry-for-vile-tinder-messages\/news-story\/240e92c0fd3edabef9711964662ac0ac\">told News.com.au<\/a> he was \u201cacting out in an impulsive way\u201d because he was \u201churt\u201d and \u201cstruggles with rejection.\u201d<\/p>\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\">\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Must-reads_on_the_Daily_Dot\"><\/span>Must-reads on the Daily Dot<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table is-style-stripes\">\n<table>\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td>Cop who tased maskless football mom is receiving death threats, racist insults<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>Trump fans aren\u2019t backing the blue over aggressive takedown of Brad Parscale<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>Video shows man accidentally dropkicked into water while proposing to girlfriend on a boat<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>Is a Russian bot campaign targeting the Rock for endorsing Biden?<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/figure>\n<p><em>H\/T <a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/article-8787487\/Brewery-manager-hit-horrific-abuse-exposing-Tinder-creep.html\">Daily Mail<\/a><\/em>\n                    <\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<div class=\"dd-article-leadart-image-credit\">\n<p>                                                                                                <span class=\"dd-article-leadart-image-credit-segment\"><br \/>\n                                        <a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/eboniesand\/\">@eboniesand\/Instagram<\/a><br \/>\n                                    <\/span><\/p>\n<p>                                                                                            <span class=\"dd-article-leadart-image-credit-segment\">(Fair Use)<\/span><br \/>\n                                                                <span class=\"dd-article-leadart-image-credit-segment\"><br \/>\n                                    Kris Seavers<br \/>\n                                <\/span><\/p><\/div>\n<p><script async defer src=\"https:\/\/platform.instagram.com\/en_US\/embeds.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">For forums sites go to <span style=\"color: #ff9900;\"><a style=\"color: #ff9900;\" href=\"https:\/\/forum.buradabiliyorum.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Forum.BuradaBiliyorum.Com<\/a><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>If you want to read more Like this articles, you can visit our <span style=\"color: #ff9900;\"><a style=\"color: #ff9900;\" href=\"https:\/\/en.buradabiliyorum.com\/social-media\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Social Media category.<\/a><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"color: black;\"><a style=\"color: #ff9900;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailydot.com\/irl\/man-fired-tinder-screenshots\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Source<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;#Woman\u2019s screenshots expose man\u2019s awful messages, get him fired &#8221; He said he &#8216;struggles with rejection.&#8217; An Australian man was fired from his information technology job after viral screenshots of Tinder conversations showed him harassing and threatening women, Daily Mail reports. 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